Then, for a moment, you lose focus on what you should do for yourself. the heat of life, Sorrows, pain, Swimming in the middle of misery and thinking about what I should do, I can really do it, They start to forget what they should really do.
Then life is not wrong, not fair We spend our time moaning and complaining about how bad we are. In fact, because life is unfair, you should focus more on what you can do at the moment. It is also futile to sit and be angry at injustice. It's also free of charge. Nothing will be better. The main thing is not to waste your present time for nothing but to do something useful for the future.
Sometimes in life, I can't change the life I have. Then there are only 2 things you should do. "Change your situation or change your mindset" If you can try to change your current situation, try, If not, just try to change your attitude. Therefore, on the 7th hand, whether you have any doubts about your life, Whether you think it's unfair or not. Worrying about something you can't do anything about and distracting yourself will only gain you time, so try to change your current situation. You cannot change the current situation; If it's not possible...then just change the way you think about the current situation.
So, if you can change your situation, then immediately change the situation you don't like, and you won't be distracted. Change your fear that you can't do anything in this situation. It's kind of like changing your mindset. If you think that you can't live in this situation, how can you survive in this situation? If you think that you can't solve this problem, change your thinking to how to solve this problem. By changing your thoughts like this, the solution that comes out of your head will also change. Just focus on that solution. It will answer you from the thought of "I can't do anything..." That's why even in situations where you can't do anything, there's something you can do. Just grab a little of it and do it.
In an article I read, a mother of children spends her time taking care of the children, and when she begins to depend on her husband, she can't earn an outside income, and she becomes depressed in her life. He has no personal income. She also likes the situation of having to ask her husband if she needs money. Free time and babysitting without privacy I've become impatient with the time spent doing housework. And he didn't like this situation at all. When she realizes that she is feeling down and depressed, she begins to think about what she can do, so she starts a blog and writes notes about how she takes care of her child every day. Those little notes are very useful for other moms and moms-to-be, and I can see in a live video that she became a famous mom blogger.
What I want to say is that even if you can't change your situation, you can change your thinking about what you can do from your current situation. Another teacher is the same. He was imprisoned for political reasons. (I don't remember exactly how many years, I think it's an old man) I can see a video of how he went from making paintings with the same plastic shells that he would spend free time in prison to collecting many works, and when he got out of prison, he succeeded until he had an exhibition.
When you can't change the current situation, you can only change your thoughts and do something that you will thank yourself for in the future.
That's why I say do something right now that you'll thank yourself for in the future. I urge you that anything worthwhile that is done so that time is not wasted will come in handy at some point.