1) Lack of willingness to take responsibility
Getting married means that two different people will fight the good and the bad together throughout their lives. One is not responsible and one is not responsible. There are also cases where one has to share the responsibility. That's why the person you choose needs to be willing to take responsibility. When you marry someone who doesn't want to take responsibility, that person may not be able to see the sin while being covered by love for a moment, but it will become a sin for the whole life. The one who doesn't even want to take responsibility for himself is a woman's responsibility after marriage. It is not easy to share the responsibilities of children and family.
2) Lack of understanding
Understanding each other is easier said than done. It's hard to really understand. What is the character of the partner since before marriage? How is the attitude? You have to think in advance about what kind of situation you can accept. I will not be able to understand a situation that I cannot accept. That's why in the old days, they studied for three years before getting married. Nowadays, people don't study that much, but you should study to understand the person you are going to work with. After getting married, I can't understand that my likes are different from his likes. I don't have to forbid her from doing what I don't like. That's why it is necessary to have a mutual understanding with the person who will work together.
3) egoism
Similar to the point above. I don't like it, but how much can I understand when it comes to things that he likes? As for me, I wonder if I can understand him in his turn. This point is deeper. I know that I want to be what I want to be, I think only my own will is important, Just watching for yourself, I only know how to get it. Since the two have established a life together, it is not easy for such an egotistical person to work together as a partner. Children's issues when having children As the male head of the household, he can't help with household chores and other chores. share his responsibility, Divide what should be shared and the man earns money, but we still need to pay attention to and care for the woman who is busy with household chores. That's why it's uncomfortable for someone who has a big ego to be a partner.
4) Physical abuse and beating
This is a serious point. It can even be defined as domestic violence. As the head of the family, he is looking for income, so it is not a sin that he can't help with the housework, but every time he comes back from outside, he finds that he is not comfortable at home and beats the housewife. What about psychologically for children who constantly see such violence? Physically, it can't be comfortable. As the head of the household earns the income, a partner who abuses the housewife cannot be comfortable.
The above points are the general bad habits of a person who should not be a partner. If you keep that kind of person as a lover, you should cut it off as soon as possible. The behavior of some people is unknown in their love life, so before getting married, women should take the time to study whether it is possible to be a partner for the rest of their lives. #BAWA101