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Bad child behaviors that need to be corrected as soon as possible
Children have bad habits. Parents should keep a close eye on them to correct them properly. These bad habits gradually destroy the children's thoughts, behavior, and abilities. Therefore, if a child has bad habits, it is necessary to discuss the problem and find a solution. If you ignore them without solving them, you will not be able to correct them and the situation will become worse in the future. The following are some bad habits that you should correct as soon as you know them.
1) Lying
Lying can make children more secretive. When we grow up and become adults, we need to be honest in order to correct our mistakes and shortcomings. We also need to be willing to take responsibility. When we see that others have good qualities such as honesty, independence, and respect, we will have an impact on others. We will also be treated with trust in social relationships. In order for people to see us as honest, respectful, and trustworthy, we must learn not to lie. Lying destroys all of the above. No one will trust or respect a person who lies. Similarly, from a religious perspective, a child who lies will not follow other moral values and will easily lie. Therefore, if your child has a habit of lying, you should correct it as soon as possible.
2) Disrespect
Children should be disciplined. In addition to not following the established rules, disrespecting parents is rude. When such rude behavior continues into adulthood, you will learn to treat your elders who you should respect rudely. You will not have the habit of treating everyone with respect, whether they are equal to you, inferior to you, or superior to you. Treating them with disrespect will also lead to the loss of humanity. You may not be able to treat your parents with disrespect when you are young because you are afraid, but when you become an adult, your parents will become uncontrollable.
3) Lack of kindness
Words are important. Some words may seem insignificant to the person who said them, but they are not easily forgotten by the person who felt them. Whether it is talking to your parents, people around you, or friends, you should be careful not to hurt the other person with your words. The reason for speaking unkind words is because of a lack of empathy and humanity. Arguing, fighting, and not discussing disagreements calmly lead to the use of harsh words. That is why children should be taught to be kind to others…. If I were in their place, I would think carefully and teach them to choose kind words and sweet words.
4) Cruel and abusive behaviors
Being cruel and abusive to other children of the same age or to the weak, or to animals, is also a bad habit. It is possible that the child becomes violent due to stress and insecurity, or because the child imitates or is influenced by the behavior of the environment. Therefore, parents and the child should also be careful about the environment in which the child is involved. A child who behaves violently will also behave violently to others and family members when he grows up.
5) Laziness
You should teach your child to be responsible for himself early. Teaching him what he can do from a young age and asking him to take responsibility for himself will prevent him from being lazy and make him feel important because he can do what he can. But not asking for anything from a young age and not asking for any responsibility and then asking a child to take responsibility when they grow up is like teaching a child to be lazy. A child who is not responsible when he grows up will not know his responsibilities and will be lazy to take responsibility. At that time, you cannot correct the child. Therefore, if you think that the child has started to behave lazy since childhood, you should immediately ask the child to take as much responsibility as he can.
Not correcting the child's bad habits early will follow the child's whole life like a dark shadow. You cannot ask him to correct them when he grows up. It also makes the child a person who is incapable. Therefore, as soon as the child develops bad habits, it is the responsibility of the parents to correct them immediately with the thought of how to correct them...
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Lying can make children more secretive. When we grow up and become adults, we need to be honest in order to correct our mistakes and shortcomings. We also need to be willing to take responsibility. When we see that others have good qualities such as honesty, independence, and respect, we will have an impact on others. We will also be treated with trust in social relationships. In order for people to see us as honest, respectful, and trustworthy, we must learn not to lie. Lying destroys all of the above. No one will trust or respect a person who lies. Similarly, from a religious perspective, a child who lies will not follow other moral values and will easily lie. Therefore, if your child has a habit of lying, you should correct it as soon as possible.
2) Disrespect
Children should be disciplined. In addition to not following the established rules, disrespecting parents is rude. When such rude behavior continues into adulthood, you will learn to treat your elders who you should respect rudely. You will not have the habit of treating everyone with respect, whether they are equal to you, inferior to you, or superior to you. Treating them with disrespect will also lead to the loss of humanity. You may not be able to treat your parents with disrespect when you are young because you are afraid, but when you become an adult, your parents will become uncontrollable.
3) Lack of kindness
Words are important. Some words may seem insignificant to the person who said them, but they are not easily forgotten by the person who felt them. Whether it is talking to your parents, people around you, or friends, you should be careful not to hurt the other person with your words. The reason for speaking unkind words is because of a lack of empathy and humanity. Arguing, fighting, and not discussing disagreements calmly lead to the use of harsh words. That is why children should be taught to be kind to others…. If I were in their place, I would think carefully and teach them to choose kind words and sweet words.
4) Cruel and abusive behaviors
Being cruel and abusive to other children of the same age or to the weak, or to animals, is also a bad habit. It is possible that the child becomes violent due to stress and insecurity, or because the child imitates or is influenced by the behavior of the environment. Therefore, parents and the child should also be careful about the environment in which the child is involved. A child who behaves violently will also behave violently to others and family members when he grows up.
5) Laziness
You should teach your child to be responsible for himself early. Teaching him what he can do from a young age and asking him to take responsibility for himself will prevent him from being lazy and make him feel important because he can do what he can. But not asking for anything from a young age and not asking for any responsibility and then asking a child to take responsibility when they grow up is like teaching a child to be lazy. A child who is not responsible when he grows up will not know his responsibilities and will be lazy to take responsibility. At that time, you cannot correct the child. Therefore, if you think that the child has started to behave lazy since childhood, you should immediately ask the child to take as much responsibility as he can.
Not correcting the child's bad habits early will follow the child's whole life like a dark shadow. You cannot ask him to correct them when he grows up. It also makes the child a person who is incapable. Therefore, as soon as the child develops bad habits, it is the responsibility of the parents to correct them immediately with the thought of how to correct them...
This is a translation from the link https://www.allprodad.com/5-bad-kid-behavior-issues-that-you-need-to-break-early/?__hstc=48580217.90d5fe503cec37a0b1c5a1ed2c2dcf27.1563346788437.1567592572163.1568005183784.22&__hssc=48580217.13.1568005183784&__hsfp=478952334.
