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7 ways to tell the truth without hurting others
1) When building a relationship, start with the truth. Some people start a relationship by lying bec...
1) When building a relationship, start with the truth.
Some people start a relationship by lying because they don't want to be judged by the media or by a narrow view. For example, A marriage that is on the verge of disintegration, like posting happy pictures on the media, like being happy. eat Show buying and so on. Once you start a relationship, you don't have to lie in a relationship that shows you the truth. The kind of relationship where you treat yourself as you are is also often permanent. I am a middle-class person, so I can only afford to eat and wear that much. show the truth Only those who can accept that situation will be friends with me. In fact, if you pretend to be very rich and lie, you will always have to lie in that relationship because your situation is not true. In addition to that, if you really think about the situation you are pretending to be in, will you be able to stay by your side when the people who come and interact with you know your true nature? It's not possible.... Only by showing everyone how you are and how you treat yourself can you continue to attract people of the same type as you.
2) Be a person who always behaves truthfully.
People around you will find out one day that you have always lied about the smallest things. No one will believe the words of such a liar. I always talk loudly, Do you think that such a person would believe me if he said, "I'm telling the truth this time?" Even if you tell the truth, no one will fully believe you. That's why you should be someone who is able to match words and deeds. Be the one who always tells the truth. He always does what he says. Everyone listens to the words of someone who speaks the truth with respect and takes it seriously. That's why if you want to kindly point out the other person's mistake, you yourself always tell the truth. act Must be a resident. Even if the other person is hurt by what you said, "He doesn't know how to say no." Do I really need to fix it?''
3) Consider speaking in an indirect way.
Yes, you want to point out the truth. I don't want to be hated, It's not possible not to point out....If you think that your friend is going the wrong way, you should think about how you can point out in an indirect way.
4) Speak softly.
I only speak the truth, I just want to know the truth. You want to hear it, but if the truth you say is to honor you and point out the other person's mistake, your words may hurt the other person. That's why when you point out the truth, you have to be careful not to put yourself down. When you say the truth after suppressing you, it makes the other person's mind think, "Oh, he just showed me kindness." He told me about the mistake he had made and said, "How did I make a mistake in the past, my friend? "I don't want it to happen to you" makes the other person listen better.
5) short stories Tell me something similar.
“In what story or when and how did it happen? I think it's better to think about it now."
6) Let your face be sweet.
I think many people have seen it. Their inner feelings and their facial expressions are completely different. If you tell the truth, you will hurt other people, pain, You also need your facial expression to avoid getting angry. Your face is desirable, and the words that come out of your mouth are sweet, and the kind of words that you put down, hint at the truth.
7) Speak when you are happy and when you are eating.
Food and happiness make it easier to tell the truth. When a happy mood arises, express your concern and point out the truth. Let it be evident that you say it with goodwill. When you're happy and when you're eating, you tend to release tension, so you should talk about what you think you shouldn't do at that time.
Some people start a relationship by lying because they don't want to be judged by the media or by a narrow view. For example, A marriage that is on the verge of disintegration, like posting happy pictures on the media, like being happy. eat Show buying and so on. Once you start a relationship, you don't have to lie in a relationship that shows you the truth. The kind of relationship where you treat yourself as you are is also often permanent. I am a middle-class person, so I can only afford to eat and wear that much. show the truth Only those who can accept that situation will be friends with me. In fact, if you pretend to be very rich and lie, you will always have to lie in that relationship because your situation is not true. In addition to that, if you really think about the situation you are pretending to be in, will you be able to stay by your side when the people who come and interact with you know your true nature? It's not possible.... Only by showing everyone how you are and how you treat yourself can you continue to attract people of the same type as you.
2) Be a person who always behaves truthfully.
People around you will find out one day that you have always lied about the smallest things. No one will believe the words of such a liar. I always talk loudly, Do you think that such a person would believe me if he said, "I'm telling the truth this time?" Even if you tell the truth, no one will fully believe you. That's why you should be someone who is able to match words and deeds. Be the one who always tells the truth. He always does what he says. Everyone listens to the words of someone who speaks the truth with respect and takes it seriously. That's why if you want to kindly point out the other person's mistake, you yourself always tell the truth. act Must be a resident. Even if the other person is hurt by what you said, "He doesn't know how to say no." Do I really need to fix it?''
3) Consider speaking in an indirect way.
Yes, you want to point out the truth. I don't want to be hated, It's not possible not to point out....If you think that your friend is going the wrong way, you should think about how you can point out in an indirect way.
4) Speak softly.
I only speak the truth, I just want to know the truth. You want to hear it, but if the truth you say is to honor you and point out the other person's mistake, your words may hurt the other person. That's why when you point out the truth, you have to be careful not to put yourself down. When you say the truth after suppressing you, it makes the other person's mind think, "Oh, he just showed me kindness." He told me about the mistake he had made and said, "How did I make a mistake in the past, my friend? "I don't want it to happen to you" makes the other person listen better.
5) short stories Tell me something similar.
“In what story or when and how did it happen? I think it's better to think about it now."
6) Let your face be sweet.
I think many people have seen it. Their inner feelings and their facial expressions are completely different. If you tell the truth, you will hurt other people, pain, You also need your facial expression to avoid getting angry. Your face is desirable, and the words that come out of your mouth are sweet, and the kind of words that you put down, hint at the truth.
7) Speak when you are happy and when you are eating.
Food and happiness make it easier to tell the truth. When a happy mood arises, express your concern and point out the truth. Let it be evident that you say it with goodwill. When you're happy and when you're eating, you tend to release tension, so you should talk about what you think you shouldn't do at that time.
