Bad habits that destroy trust
1) Saying the impossible The kind of person who is always talking about the wind and the rain, his w...
1) Saying the impossible
The kind of person who is always talking about the wind and the rain, his words are detached from reality. Behaving habitually. At the right time, when things don't happen as you say, you get the other person's disbelief. Sometimes when I lose confidence, if everything I say is true, it doesn't enter the other person's head anymore. I tend to think that everything I do will not be successful. No respect anymore.
2) Inconsistency between work and speech
When I said that it's all wind and rain, in reality it's nothing. Talking like an elephant and acting like an ant also lacks confidence. When it happens, no one is going to deal with you in the same way in other cases.
3) Being confused and lying
Frequent lying also leads to distrust. The word goes here and there, It's also bad to say things like that in vain. If he can lie easily, he will lie again. When he gets cheated, no one wants to be his friend. Because of society, you have to smile in front, but behind the scenes, you will talk about yourself and be treated like a free person. Because of your lies, you also reduce your value.
4) Looking out for yourself
People who are selfish tend to be distrustful. A selfish person usually does not hesitate to lie, to lie It is not difficult to be cunning. That's why he is a person who abuses the other person's trust with the mindset that if it's only for his own benefit. Because of this, I tend to distrust selfish people.
5) Ignore the work that I have to do, Not taking responsibility
The work I will do People who don't fulfill their responsibilities or don't finish their work are often distrusted by other people. He who does not even want to fulfill his own responsibility will not take other matters seriously. No one will have confidence when things are done so carelessly.
6) Pretending to impress oneself
Pretending with outward appearances and superficial insignia in order to impress others is actually disbelieving. Covering yourself with any brand does not earn a person's trust. Some people cover their real face with things that can be removed from the surface. People mistakenly think that these things make people trust. In fact, all of these things are superficial and appear when dealing with a person's ability to move. Superficial things cannot be hidden for a long time.
Being able to do what is said, Being able to take responsibility for your own words; commitment Only the right words can gain a person's trust. A person's trust may be a superficial view and decision, but in reality, in a long-term relationship, all pretense falls away. That's why to act only for what you can take responsibility for. To fulfill my duty, To be able to take responsibility for your own words. Only by matching words and deeds can you gain the trust and respect of others. Here are the points to be aware of.
The kind of person who is always talking about the wind and the rain, his words are detached from reality. Behaving habitually. At the right time, when things don't happen as you say, you get the other person's disbelief. Sometimes when I lose confidence, if everything I say is true, it doesn't enter the other person's head anymore. I tend to think that everything I do will not be successful. No respect anymore.
2) Inconsistency between work and speech
When I said that it's all wind and rain, in reality it's nothing. Talking like an elephant and acting like an ant also lacks confidence. When it happens, no one is going to deal with you in the same way in other cases.
3) Being confused and lying
Frequent lying also leads to distrust. The word goes here and there, It's also bad to say things like that in vain. If he can lie easily, he will lie again. When he gets cheated, no one wants to be his friend. Because of society, you have to smile in front, but behind the scenes, you will talk about yourself and be treated like a free person. Because of your lies, you also reduce your value.
4) Looking out for yourself
People who are selfish tend to be distrustful. A selfish person usually does not hesitate to lie, to lie It is not difficult to be cunning. That's why he is a person who abuses the other person's trust with the mindset that if it's only for his own benefit. Because of this, I tend to distrust selfish people.
5) Ignore the work that I have to do, Not taking responsibility
The work I will do People who don't fulfill their responsibilities or don't finish their work are often distrusted by other people. He who does not even want to fulfill his own responsibility will not take other matters seriously. No one will have confidence when things are done so carelessly.
6) Pretending to impress oneself
Pretending with outward appearances and superficial insignia in order to impress others is actually disbelieving. Covering yourself with any brand does not earn a person's trust. Some people cover their real face with things that can be removed from the surface. People mistakenly think that these things make people trust. In fact, all of these things are superficial and appear when dealing with a person's ability to move. Superficial things cannot be hidden for a long time.
Being able to do what is said, Being able to take responsibility for your own words; commitment Only the right words can gain a person's trust. A person's trust may be a superficial view and decision, but in reality, in a long-term relationship, all pretense falls away. That's why to act only for what you can take responsibility for. To fulfill my duty, To be able to take responsibility for your own words. Only by matching words and deeds can you gain the trust and respect of others. Here are the points to be aware of.