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10 Things a Man Will Never Do to His Girlfriend
No matter how frustrated a guy is in a relationship, there are certain things he doesn't do. He also sets rules for himself not to do bad things. So, read on to find out what kind of things a guy doesn't do.
1) Never criticize your appearance.
“Your hair is a little messy,” “I think you should lose a little weight,” “You wear too much makeup,” etc. Never criticize your appearance. Criticizing your appearance can make you feel bad and make you feel bad. A good guy will never do that. If he does that, it’s because he wants you to leave him. If he criticizes you for your appearance, he’s trying to control you.
2) Never interfere with your personal secrets.
Nothing is hidden in a healthy relationship. Phone messages, messenger messages, Facebook account passwords, etc. But he doesn’t want to know your secrets if you don’t want to give them to him. For example, if you leave your phone next to your computer and it’s on, he won’t open it because it’s not his business. They will not try to find out other people's secrets unless they want to.
3) They do not let others down.
A person's self-confidence depends on helping others achieve their goals. A man is someone who thinks about how to empower and help the people around him. In other words, he is always ready to help others. That is why he understands how to support his girlfriend. He does not let his girlfriend down.
4) He understands and recognizes the value of other people.
You cannot stay with someone who does not know your value for long. Everyone you are with, whether male or female, is valuable. You need to recognize that value. Men understand that they should not act in a way that does not value others.
5) They do not make the other person feel like an outsider or an insignificant person.
A relationship should not be someone's whole life. It is a part of life. Men have friends who eat and drink with friends. But even though you are socially active and active, when you have a woman who is considered your girlfriend, you should not leave your girlfriend and only hang out with your friends. That makes the other person feel like an insignificant person. A man understands this. Just as you value your relationship with your girlfriend, you also understand that you deserve to be in a friendship with her. If you always have to sit and wait for her to be important, no matter how much a girl loves you, your relationship will gradually end.
6) Don't make your lover feel lonely.
A relationship should be like a partnership. Your lover should help you fulfill your life, help you become what you want to be. Otherwise, you should not feel like there is no one to support you, feel lonely, or care about you. A man doesn't make his lover feel that way. In their minds, they already understand that a lover should be like a comrade.
7) A man will never lie to you.
In life, a person cannot live alone for the rest of his life. That is why he needs a partner in his life. A man understands this. When he finds a partner who is like him, he will not lie to that partner. Because he understands that lying damages the relationship between them and also damages trust. He is also afraid of breaking his promise to the person he loves.
8) He does not behave disrespectfully towards the other person.
A man shows respect to other people. He does not treat others with low standards. He treats them with dignity and is positive. He understands that treating everyone equally is a class act.
9) He understands that important and appropriate things should be said.
He believes that any problem, whether it is a family member or a lover, can be solved.
Trying to avoid problems and difficulties only makes things worse. Therefore, they understand that differences of opinion should be discussed and resolved. They never act as if they are not their business, and they do not hide any problems. They do not directly address any problems.
They understand what problems need to be solved and how to overcome them calmly. That is why a good man knows how to say what is important and appropriate in their relationship and what is not.
10) He does not bully the other person.
Bullying comes in many forms. There are physical bullying, emotional bullying, sexual bullying, etc. Bullying that causes emotional harm in a relationship can be experienced unconsciously. Bullying something that the other person loves, or their beloved pets, or their children, is also a form of emotional bullying. It also includes bullying with the intention of hurting the other person emotionally. A good man avoids doing things that will undermine the other person's trust. He understands that he should not do them. He is also reluctant to treat someone who is inferior to him. No one likes any kind of bullying that undermines their confidence, and they try to avoid it as much as possible. Good men understand this and avoid it in their relationships.
We should also be careful to correct such bad habits that disturb others. Respecting ourselves and others, setting rules, and respecting each other, will increase mutual respect and love. A good man will avoid these things, whether in a relationship with a lover or in social relationships.
This is a translation from the link https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/10-things-good-men-will-never-written-good-man/?fbclid=IwAR1hzjUpl2h1WjCBcD3TlOXn3n2fxo11hBeXAt7hHay6nCPXNUXZ-ic9KfA
“Your hair is a little messy,” “I think you should lose a little weight,” “You wear too much makeup,” etc. Never criticize your appearance. Criticizing your appearance can make you feel bad and make you feel bad. A good guy will never do that. If he does that, it’s because he wants you to leave him. If he criticizes you for your appearance, he’s trying to control you.
2) Never interfere with your personal secrets.
Nothing is hidden in a healthy relationship. Phone messages, messenger messages, Facebook account passwords, etc. But he doesn’t want to know your secrets if you don’t want to give them to him. For example, if you leave your phone next to your computer and it’s on, he won’t open it because it’s not his business. They will not try to find out other people's secrets unless they want to.
3) They do not let others down.
A person's self-confidence depends on helping others achieve their goals. A man is someone who thinks about how to empower and help the people around him. In other words, he is always ready to help others. That is why he understands how to support his girlfriend. He does not let his girlfriend down.
4) He understands and recognizes the value of other people.
You cannot stay with someone who does not know your value for long. Everyone you are with, whether male or female, is valuable. You need to recognize that value. Men understand that they should not act in a way that does not value others.
5) They do not make the other person feel like an outsider or an insignificant person.
A relationship should not be someone's whole life. It is a part of life. Men have friends who eat and drink with friends. But even though you are socially active and active, when you have a woman who is considered your girlfriend, you should not leave your girlfriend and only hang out with your friends. That makes the other person feel like an insignificant person. A man understands this. Just as you value your relationship with your girlfriend, you also understand that you deserve to be in a friendship with her. If you always have to sit and wait for her to be important, no matter how much a girl loves you, your relationship will gradually end.
6) Don't make your lover feel lonely.
A relationship should be like a partnership. Your lover should help you fulfill your life, help you become what you want to be. Otherwise, you should not feel like there is no one to support you, feel lonely, or care about you. A man doesn't make his lover feel that way. In their minds, they already understand that a lover should be like a comrade.
7) A man will never lie to you.
In life, a person cannot live alone for the rest of his life. That is why he needs a partner in his life. A man understands this. When he finds a partner who is like him, he will not lie to that partner. Because he understands that lying damages the relationship between them and also damages trust. He is also afraid of breaking his promise to the person he loves.
8) He does not behave disrespectfully towards the other person.
A man shows respect to other people. He does not treat others with low standards. He treats them with dignity and is positive. He understands that treating everyone equally is a class act.
9) He understands that important and appropriate things should be said.
He believes that any problem, whether it is a family member or a lover, can be solved.
Trying to avoid problems and difficulties only makes things worse. Therefore, they understand that differences of opinion should be discussed and resolved. They never act as if they are not their business, and they do not hide any problems. They do not directly address any problems.
They understand what problems need to be solved and how to overcome them calmly. That is why a good man knows how to say what is important and appropriate in their relationship and what is not.
10) He does not bully the other person.
Bullying comes in many forms. There are physical bullying, emotional bullying, sexual bullying, etc. Bullying that causes emotional harm in a relationship can be experienced unconsciously. Bullying something that the other person loves, or their beloved pets, or their children, is also a form of emotional bullying. It also includes bullying with the intention of hurting the other person emotionally. A good man avoids doing things that will undermine the other person's trust. He understands that he should not do them. He is also reluctant to treat someone who is inferior to him. No one likes any kind of bullying that undermines their confidence, and they try to avoid it as much as possible. Good men understand this and avoid it in their relationships.
We should also be careful to correct such bad habits that disturb others. Respecting ourselves and others, setting rules, and respecting each other, will increase mutual respect and love. A good man will avoid these things, whether in a relationship with a lover or in social relationships.
This is a translation from the link https://goodmenproject.com/featured-content/10-things-good-men-will-never-written-good-man/?fbclid=IwAR1hzjUpl2h1WjCBcD3TlOXn3n2fxo11hBeXAt7hHay6nCPXNUXZ-ic9KfA
