Characteristics of a mature person
"1) Gaining the ability to listen to others. Being able to listen to others is the job of a teacher....
"1) Gaining the ability to listen to others.
Being able to listen to others is the job of a teacher. To be a good listener, you need to be calm and trust the other person enough to confide in you. You wear other people's clothes, living I become a person who listens to what they want to say, regardless of status, etc. another person as his I don't know anything about his life and don't criticize him anymore. Because you understand that everyone's life is difficult and everyone's life is different. When you become mature, you will be able to understand the lives of others, and to sympathize and understand rather than to blame. They often try to feel the same. That's how he became someone who could listen.
2) Be patient.
As technology advances, so does our lifestyle. You can search and buy anything you want at your fingertips. As a result, they no longer want to wait for something. I think I can control everything.
A mature person understands that he has to give time to others. Learn to understand and accept many things. The main thing is that we learn to accept situations that we cannot control. We learn to wait patiently for situations beyond our control.
3) Accepting that everything can change.
Our lives are always changing. Many people find it difficult to adapt to change. Everything can be what you want it to be. Life is unpredictable. If you don't try to make those changes and lose weight, you won't be living your best life. Make peace with the changes and try to be fleshed out with the changes. If you live like this and are comfortable with the changes in your life, you can say that you have matured.
4) Less expectations from others.
When you can accept the changes in life, it becomes easier to accept any situation. Then I accept that the unexpected can happen and that everything planned can go wrong. That's why expectations are low. When the expectations are low, the pain is also low. When someone says it and it doesn't happen, you don't have to hurt because you didn't expect it. When others are nice to you, you don't feel special anymore. When the people who are good to you turn bad, you don't feel the same anymore. That is a sign of maturity.
5) More understanding of love.
Some people who are often broken hearted is because they still don't understand love. For a mature man, he sees that love is only an option. No longer a requirement. Emphasis is placed on emotional understanding rather than physical attractiveness. You understand that the respect for your lover will be mutual. Many reasons for heartbreak are because you don't understand your partner. When you mature, you become capable of understanding without hurting you.
6) I understand more about what is important to me.
A mature person understands better that the people around him are not important. They are shaping their lives and I am shaping my life. They can understand that they can't always be right. Weaknesses limitations, I understand and accept all their strengths. Not everyone is always right. It will not always be wrong. Realizing that you can't find your worth from the people around you. I am more accepting that only I define my own value. That's why we learn to adapt to the environment. Learn to distinguish between issues that you should not put in your head and those that you should put in your head.
If you are able to do many of the above issues without fighting with your mind, then your mind will be at peace. You will be surprised to see how happy you are. As soon as you start to behave like this, you can say that you have matured.
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Being able to listen to others is the job of a teacher. To be a good listener, you need to be calm and trust the other person enough to confide in you. You wear other people's clothes, living I become a person who listens to what they want to say, regardless of status, etc. another person as his I don't know anything about his life and don't criticize him anymore. Because you understand that everyone's life is difficult and everyone's life is different. When you become mature, you will be able to understand the lives of others, and to sympathize and understand rather than to blame. They often try to feel the same. That's how he became someone who could listen.
2) Be patient.
As technology advances, so does our lifestyle. You can search and buy anything you want at your fingertips. As a result, they no longer want to wait for something. I think I can control everything.
A mature person understands that he has to give time to others. Learn to understand and accept many things. The main thing is that we learn to accept situations that we cannot control. We learn to wait patiently for situations beyond our control.
3) Accepting that everything can change.
Our lives are always changing. Many people find it difficult to adapt to change. Everything can be what you want it to be. Life is unpredictable. If you don't try to make those changes and lose weight, you won't be living your best life. Make peace with the changes and try to be fleshed out with the changes. If you live like this and are comfortable with the changes in your life, you can say that you have matured.
4) Less expectations from others.
When you can accept the changes in life, it becomes easier to accept any situation. Then I accept that the unexpected can happen and that everything planned can go wrong. That's why expectations are low. When the expectations are low, the pain is also low. When someone says it and it doesn't happen, you don't have to hurt because you didn't expect it. When others are nice to you, you don't feel special anymore. When the people who are good to you turn bad, you don't feel the same anymore. That is a sign of maturity.
5) More understanding of love.
Some people who are often broken hearted is because they still don't understand love. For a mature man, he sees that love is only an option. No longer a requirement. Emphasis is placed on emotional understanding rather than physical attractiveness. You understand that the respect for your lover will be mutual. Many reasons for heartbreak are because you don't understand your partner. When you mature, you become capable of understanding without hurting you.
6) I understand more about what is important to me.
A mature person understands better that the people around him are not important. They are shaping their lives and I am shaping my life. They can understand that they can't always be right. Weaknesses limitations, I understand and accept all their strengths. Not everyone is always right. It will not always be wrong. Realizing that you can't find your worth from the people around you. I am more accepting that only I define my own value. That's why we learn to adapt to the environment. Learn to distinguish between issues that you should not put in your head and those that you should put in your head.
If you are able to do many of the above issues without fighting with your mind, then your mind will be at peace. You will be surprised to see how happy you are. As soon as you start to behave like this, you can say that you have matured.
https://themindsjournal.com/6-signs-youre-actually-matur…/2/"