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If your child has been bullied, how should you treat your child?
According to some of the victim's parents' confessions, on the other hand, the bullies don't know th...
According to some of the victim's parents' confessions, on the other hand, the bullies don't know that they are being bullied, and they act like normal routines. If it is a child, children learn from adults, so it is important that the behavior of the adults around the child is correct. If the adults behave, the parent should confront and resolve it instead of the child.
While going to the market, I saw a 4-year-old girl being spanked by an adult on her buttocks. According to Burmese customs, the parent makes a bad face by saying ``I love you,'' but the other side doesn't stop the adult from disliking this behavior. In fact, in this situation, instead of the child who can't react at all, the parent does not like this behavior; Shouldn't act and prevent it. Sometimes the fact that it is easy for a child to bully has a lot to do with the guardian parents. If someone else takes care of your child If you have been bullied by a group, please share the following points.
1) No matter what happens.....encourage parents to always be there.
No matter what happens, the child is not alone. that the parents will encourage the child, Tell the child that you will always love him. Treat the child with love. Listen patiently to everything your child says and feels.
2) Let the bullies understand that only they are wrong.
Let them know that only bullies are wrong. If you are being bullied, you must do something to make them realize that their mistake is wrong. Parents will help for that. Tell the child in a warm and understanding way that it is true that there is nothing to be afraid of being bullied, and that there is absolutely no need to be afraid of the wrongdoer.
3) Tell the parents that you can open up if you tell them the whole story.
Tell them that parents will share everything, whether it's happy or sad, so they need to open up to everyone without exception. Tell them to understand that parents can only help their children if they know right from wrong.
4) Try to understand the child better. Treat me more lovingly.
In the mind of a child, the feeling of weakness, Treat the child with more detail and love, as feelings of pettiness and fear may dominate. Try to understand the child's mind.
5) To gain the child's trust, the parents should stand in front of the mother.
Children do not have a warm emotional relationship with their parents. Talking about the day with the child, Listening to whatever the child confides in, When there is no familiar behavior like playing with the child, even if the child is being bullied, they do not dare to open up to their parents. That's why you need to build a warm relationship with your child. When the child's confidence is gained, the child will open up to the parent about anything. If something happened only then, "I will tell my parents, "My parents will be on my side" will have the security of mind.
6) Solve it immediately.
In this case, just avoiding the child is not enough. Even if the child avoids it, the bully will only bully those who are afraid and helpless. That's why if the child behaves in front of the child in a way that the child doesn't like, the parent should come in and tell them clearly that they don't like it. If it's gang bullying, try to address it immediately and do what you can. Don't be bullied. The parent starts and faces boldly. At the very least, show the environment that it won't be stagnant if it becomes your own child. According to the habit of bullies, those who are afraid and quiet often bully more.
7) Get out of that environment.
Finally, if the environment is not comfortable, it is better to completely remove the child from that environment than to force the child to avoid it alone. For example, if the school does not change the child's class from one class to another, they should report the problem to the relevant person, because they want to know that they are not going to stand still. Only after solving the problem in the first way, did he change from that class to another, instead of leaving that school completely and changing schools.
Most importantly, every parent must teach their child that bullying is not a bad thing. If you are being bullied, you must tell them that they should not remain silent. If the child cannot cope alone, the parent must be told that they can help. If it does happen, instead of being afraid and avoiding it completely, we have to deal with it in a legal way. (At least, when many people know that the bully is a bully, many will leave, and if other people can avoid it, it will be a profit.
While going to the market, I saw a 4-year-old girl being spanked by an adult on her buttocks. According to Burmese customs, the parent makes a bad face by saying ``I love you,'' but the other side doesn't stop the adult from disliking this behavior. In fact, in this situation, instead of the child who can't react at all, the parent does not like this behavior; Shouldn't act and prevent it. Sometimes the fact that it is easy for a child to bully has a lot to do with the guardian parents. If someone else takes care of your child If you have been bullied by a group, please share the following points.
1) No matter what happens.....encourage parents to always be there.
No matter what happens, the child is not alone. that the parents will encourage the child, Tell the child that you will always love him. Treat the child with love. Listen patiently to everything your child says and feels.
2) Let the bullies understand that only they are wrong.
Let them know that only bullies are wrong. If you are being bullied, you must do something to make them realize that their mistake is wrong. Parents will help for that. Tell the child in a warm and understanding way that it is true that there is nothing to be afraid of being bullied, and that there is absolutely no need to be afraid of the wrongdoer.
3) Tell the parents that you can open up if you tell them the whole story.
Tell them that parents will share everything, whether it's happy or sad, so they need to open up to everyone without exception. Tell them to understand that parents can only help their children if they know right from wrong.
4) Try to understand the child better. Treat me more lovingly.
In the mind of a child, the feeling of weakness, Treat the child with more detail and love, as feelings of pettiness and fear may dominate. Try to understand the child's mind.
5) To gain the child's trust, the parents should stand in front of the mother.
Children do not have a warm emotional relationship with their parents. Talking about the day with the child, Listening to whatever the child confides in, When there is no familiar behavior like playing with the child, even if the child is being bullied, they do not dare to open up to their parents. That's why you need to build a warm relationship with your child. When the child's confidence is gained, the child will open up to the parent about anything. If something happened only then, "I will tell my parents, "My parents will be on my side" will have the security of mind.
6) Solve it immediately.
In this case, just avoiding the child is not enough. Even if the child avoids it, the bully will only bully those who are afraid and helpless. That's why if the child behaves in front of the child in a way that the child doesn't like, the parent should come in and tell them clearly that they don't like it. If it's gang bullying, try to address it immediately and do what you can. Don't be bullied. The parent starts and faces boldly. At the very least, show the environment that it won't be stagnant if it becomes your own child. According to the habit of bullies, those who are afraid and quiet often bully more.
7) Get out of that environment.
Finally, if the environment is not comfortable, it is better to completely remove the child from that environment than to force the child to avoid it alone. For example, if the school does not change the child's class from one class to another, they should report the problem to the relevant person, because they want to know that they are not going to stand still. Only after solving the problem in the first way, did he change from that class to another, instead of leaving that school completely and changing schools.
Most importantly, every parent must teach their child that bullying is not a bad thing. If you are being bullied, you must tell them that they should not remain silent. If the child cannot cope alone, the parent must be told that they can help. If it does happen, instead of being afraid and avoiding it completely, we have to deal with it in a legal way. (At least, when many people know that the bully is a bully, many will leave, and if other people can avoid it, it will be a profit.
