When you depend on someone...
"Since people live with families, communities, and the environment, it does not mean that they are d...
"Since people live with families, communities, and the environment, it does not mean that they are dependent on each other. However, in order to survive on your own, it is necessary to learn some of the knowledge and skills that you should know, not for anyone else, but to fulfill your own abilities.
When you can take responsibility for your own life and survive, not inheriting from your parents, You can escape the life of not being able to get help from someone else and being dependent on someone else for survival. In other words, it is impossible to be completely independent from family and environment. But being able to take responsibility for myself will make my life more convenient at some point.
(I don't need to say that because it is mandatory to depend on other people due to health reasons) But in the families of many Myanmar parents, even after marriage, there are still many types of families that depend on their parents again. That's why it doesn't matter if you're old enough to be dependent (Uma Mae Sama Ma Moka) or you're not fully educated, but take responsibility for your own life. Adult children who have to make their own decisions and choose their own lives should no longer be dependent on their parents.
In the same way....in a marriage, the male head of the household will work, A woman's inability to earn outside income can cause difficulties for the entire family when the time comes when the male worker changes his mind or is unable to earn for some reason. (Male and female should always be learning to excel effectively in any knowledge or skill)
If possible, you should try to be independent, in other words, to take responsibility for yourself, other than being dependent on someone because of the necessity of the situation. Trying to do this will also increase your self-confidence mentally.
When you are always dependent on someone else, to have the desire of the person you are dependent on. In addition to feeling sad, "If that person is gone...how will we survive..." There may be more or less fear and shock to face life with that kind of thinking. "Would it be..." thinking about anything can decrease self-confidence. In addition to that, you have to accept the other person's arbitrary preferences. There may still be some weakness. After a while, you lose yourself and your existing abilities diminish. The longer the time goes by, the more dependent you become, and the more you can't get out of the mud, the more you can't escape the life of dependency.
For that reason, someone is physically or Whether it's psychological or psychological, being dependent gradually makes you feel like you're losing your life.
That's why being dependent on someone, even if it's okay now, can cause serious damage in the future. Yes, while the white elephant is still there, "I suck sugarcane before the white elephant." When the white elephant is no more... just think about what we will do.
That's why it's better to be a white elephant instead of being a white elephant. Isn't it a good idea to try to make yourself worth like diamond earrings instead of being pale because of the color of diamond earrings? When you learn to walk on your own, you don't have to wait for someone else to get you from one place to another.
In other words, you don't have to worry about your own shadow and coolness. Being able to take responsibility does not burden others, and because of your own skills, wherever you go, No matter how anyone competes and fights, you can rely on yourself to win. That's why trying to take responsibility on your own will be more tiring than depending on someone else. But no one can steal the treasure that is your talent. It's a kind of peaceful life that no one needs to worry about, so I encourage you to take responsibility and try to learn to rely on yourself."
When you can take responsibility for your own life and survive, not inheriting from your parents, You can escape the life of not being able to get help from someone else and being dependent on someone else for survival. In other words, it is impossible to be completely independent from family and environment. But being able to take responsibility for myself will make my life more convenient at some point.
(I don't need to say that because it is mandatory to depend on other people due to health reasons) But in the families of many Myanmar parents, even after marriage, there are still many types of families that depend on their parents again. That's why it doesn't matter if you're old enough to be dependent (Uma Mae Sama Ma Moka) or you're not fully educated, but take responsibility for your own life. Adult children who have to make their own decisions and choose their own lives should no longer be dependent on their parents.
In the same way....in a marriage, the male head of the household will work, A woman's inability to earn outside income can cause difficulties for the entire family when the time comes when the male worker changes his mind or is unable to earn for some reason. (Male and female should always be learning to excel effectively in any knowledge or skill)
If possible, you should try to be independent, in other words, to take responsibility for yourself, other than being dependent on someone because of the necessity of the situation. Trying to do this will also increase your self-confidence mentally.
When you are always dependent on someone else, to have the desire of the person you are dependent on. In addition to feeling sad, "If that person is gone...how will we survive..." There may be more or less fear and shock to face life with that kind of thinking. "Would it be..." thinking about anything can decrease self-confidence. In addition to that, you have to accept the other person's arbitrary preferences. There may still be some weakness. After a while, you lose yourself and your existing abilities diminish. The longer the time goes by, the more dependent you become, and the more you can't get out of the mud, the more you can't escape the life of dependency.
For that reason, someone is physically or Whether it's psychological or psychological, being dependent gradually makes you feel like you're losing your life.
That's why being dependent on someone, even if it's okay now, can cause serious damage in the future. Yes, while the white elephant is still there, "I suck sugarcane before the white elephant." When the white elephant is no more... just think about what we will do.
That's why it's better to be a white elephant instead of being a white elephant. Isn't it a good idea to try to make yourself worth like diamond earrings instead of being pale because of the color of diamond earrings? When you learn to walk on your own, you don't have to wait for someone else to get you from one place to another.
In other words, you don't have to worry about your own shadow and coolness. Being able to take responsibility does not burden others, and because of your own skills, wherever you go, No matter how anyone competes and fights, you can rely on yourself to win. That's why trying to take responsibility on your own will be more tiring than depending on someone else. But no one can steal the treasure that is your talent. It's a kind of peaceful life that no one needs to worry about, so I encourage you to take responsibility and try to learn to rely on yourself."