"No matter what...there are no egoless people, so I think we have to distinguish between those with a low ego and those with a big ego. Humans have greater intelligence than animals, and the ability to be critical. That's why we have to be able to distinguish between right and wrong better than animals. In addition, we should have empathy, support, and be kind to each other.

If you prioritize what you want and fail to understand the other person's situation, it may not be clear to you, but the other person may have more or less harm. Whether you are going to ask someone for help or not. I'm going to talk about something. Regardless of whether you are going to be forced to do it, you should consider the other person's situation. For example. Suppose you call your friend. What would you think if the other party didn't pick up the phone after calling you several times? "As for this guy, he won't pick up the phone when he's calling so much. If you're angry thinking, "I don't know if I'm dead," you need to correct your thoughts. You are calling urgently, but the other person is doing something important. Think about the fact that you may not be able to pick up the phone because you have some work to do. When you think like that, you don't get angry anymore. If you look at the other person's side, isn't it right for you to think for yourself when you're really not doing well?

Suppose you borrow some money from a friend of yours. What would you think if your friend always lends you as much money as he can, but this time he won't lend? “Huh…actually, I saw on Facebook that he is fine. He behaved badly and did not lend me money. A friendless person,” you think.
Everyone is in his own situation. You also have the situation and time on your side, On his side, he should also take into account his situation and time. If you only focus on what you want, everyone will be selfish.

Yes, then think about it from your place. Borrow money from yourself. Would you like it if your friend was mad at you because you couldn't borrow? What would you like? “Only I know my situation. If you want to borrow but don't borrow because it's inconvenient, don't you resent your friend again? In fact, I want to lend. Even you can retort to your friend that he doesn't understand that he can't borrow because it's not convenient.
In fact, it is really necessary to think about his side in social relations. It's not always possible to think to extremes in every situation. In that case, the other side often suffers. What if he... What about me?... I need to think from his side.

When there are more people who don't think about other people's side, all people will become egoistic people. Then only those with low egos will become the defenders. That's why you should always think about the other side that you don't know. Once a father and son were riding a train. On the train, the father explains to his son all the sights he saw along the way. When people look at their father and son, they think, "This father still has to explain the scenery that his son is seeing one by one." In fact, I only know one person who did it. That his son is blind. From the point of view of the people on the sidelines, I think my father is seeing it, but only the stakeholders know. The father was carefully explaining the scenery along the way to his son because his son was blind. Like that story. In our lives, we should fill in the other side of the other person that we don't see.

That's why we can't blame others by looking at our own side. In the same way, you can't blame others for not fulfilling your own desires. the condition of others; other's feelings I encourage you to consider other people's ability and inability to do so."