Someone who really loves you...
"Yes, then there is usually a question why 1500 love burns. No matter how much I balance it, there i...
"Yes, then there is usually a question why 1500 love burns. No matter how much I balance it, there is a little bit of ego in love. When I love a person, usually I want to see that person, I want to be close to them, and I want to be near them. That's why I say that a little bit of ego is interfering. What should be clearly understood here is whether I decide to love him because I want him. Most of 1500 love is because of the desire to acquire and possess when love is not stolen. We only focus on getting and possessing. That's why we keep trying until we get the answer we want. That's why we tell you what kind of feeling happens to those who really love us.
1) Learn to accept it as it is.
Some couples have seen it. One is ugly but the other is beautiful. Some of them are chubby, but one has a slim body. One is black but the other is white. Sometimes I think about it. There will be times when I wonder why I like it when I look at something that doesn't look like this. In fact, when you really love someone, no matter what the person you love is. I can accept it. If there are mistakes in his past, accept them. accepting his imperfections, Accepting his imperfections.
2) I can understand.
I can't eat spicy food, but he doesn't stop me from liking it too much. I take him to the shop where he eats, The kind of people who sit next to him and wait. Because I love him, his environment, Trying to understand and accept the parent community. For example. Because I am very busy, I asked her to help me with some work. It's a man's job, and I understand that I have to help regardless of the barriers. Because you don't know how to cook, Someone who will try to teach you how to cook, not someone who will blame you for not being able to do the housework and break up with you. Someone who will try to do household chores with you.
3) Incompleteness can be solved together.
Looking at what you have and partnering with you is more about loving your possessions than loving you. But if we decide to face life together, even if we didn't have anything before, You just need to learn how to find properties together. To face the problem together, If there are any incompleteness, we will try together to make it complete, from planning to actual implementation. A person who really loves doesn't see imperfection as a sin and thinks that they will try to make it perfect together. No matter how bankrupt your business is, it won't cut you off. But of course you need to be willing to try again. It's not like that....I have to live in an old house with two bodies....No one can live in an old house for the rest of their lives. The kind of person who is willing to try together to reach the top from the old age of the same two bodies.
4) There is loyalty.
Old age is the deterioration of time. No matter how beautiful you are, let me get a lover. When you have a long-term relationship with yourself, you will experience aging at the right time. Just imagine 3 more years from the time you currently own it. Can you get tired of your current lover? It is something that you should consider if you can be disappointed. People have a desire for something new. But the person who really loves you, no matter how ugly you become... will be with you. It is impossible to forget the old because of the new, and it will be surrounded like a big wall and loyal to you.
5) It becomes a mindset to correct bad habits.
Being human is hard. No matter how bad their behavior is....they just want to do it if they like it. There are a lot of things I do that I know are bad, even in everyday things that are nothing. But the person who really loves you, even if you don't ask him to fix it, he likes it very much. Little by little, I tend to correct my bad habits. But one of those people is very rare. (Most girls think that they can correct their bad behavior in time. In fact, you can't force a person to correct their behavior. When he really loves you, he will gradually correct himself.) Or don't even think that you're going to fix it after getting married. The percentage that can be repaired cannot be guaranteed. But if he really loves you, he will correct himself if you don't tell him.
6) Learn to reduce ego as much as possible.
I know that I want to be between lovers, Prioritize your own feelings, I only know what I want to do, I can't be comfortable when I have too much ego, just watching for myself. If you do get along with that person, it's best to break up with them before time passes. Selfish people tend to be very short-tempered in their love life, and even if they get married, they have to follow their own will almost every day. Too short You will be miserable. A person who really loves you will gradually reduce the selfishness he already has for you. Something that comes to mind first for you. For example. Even while eating bread, buy your favorite, Even if you go to the market, you choose to buy what you like.
One thing is that in order to share a life together, we must study and criticize each other from the level of lovers. At the level of a lover, there are still things that you may not be comfortable with. That's why even before choosing to be a lover, you should not only look at love, but also look at the compatibility with the factors that you have determined to be the main thing. For example, family community My own behavior Social scandals and so on. It's easy to adjust the rest of the secondary points without any defects in the main points.
(It doesn't mean that everyone will be comfortable with all the points, as each person is a type of personality. I only mentioned the general points)
Among the readers, please share what kind of behavior happens when you really fall in love."
1) Learn to accept it as it is.
Some couples have seen it. One is ugly but the other is beautiful. Some of them are chubby, but one has a slim body. One is black but the other is white. Sometimes I think about it. There will be times when I wonder why I like it when I look at something that doesn't look like this. In fact, when you really love someone, no matter what the person you love is. I can accept it. If there are mistakes in his past, accept them. accepting his imperfections, Accepting his imperfections.
2) I can understand.
I can't eat spicy food, but he doesn't stop me from liking it too much. I take him to the shop where he eats, The kind of people who sit next to him and wait. Because I love him, his environment, Trying to understand and accept the parent community. For example. Because I am very busy, I asked her to help me with some work. It's a man's job, and I understand that I have to help regardless of the barriers. Because you don't know how to cook, Someone who will try to teach you how to cook, not someone who will blame you for not being able to do the housework and break up with you. Someone who will try to do household chores with you.
3) Incompleteness can be solved together.
Looking at what you have and partnering with you is more about loving your possessions than loving you. But if we decide to face life together, even if we didn't have anything before, You just need to learn how to find properties together. To face the problem together, If there are any incompleteness, we will try together to make it complete, from planning to actual implementation. A person who really loves doesn't see imperfection as a sin and thinks that they will try to make it perfect together. No matter how bankrupt your business is, it won't cut you off. But of course you need to be willing to try again. It's not like that....I have to live in an old house with two bodies....No one can live in an old house for the rest of their lives. The kind of person who is willing to try together to reach the top from the old age of the same two bodies.
4) There is loyalty.
Old age is the deterioration of time. No matter how beautiful you are, let me get a lover. When you have a long-term relationship with yourself, you will experience aging at the right time. Just imagine 3 more years from the time you currently own it. Can you get tired of your current lover? It is something that you should consider if you can be disappointed. People have a desire for something new. But the person who really loves you, no matter how ugly you become... will be with you. It is impossible to forget the old because of the new, and it will be surrounded like a big wall and loyal to you.
5) It becomes a mindset to correct bad habits.
Being human is hard. No matter how bad their behavior is....they just want to do it if they like it. There are a lot of things I do that I know are bad, even in everyday things that are nothing. But the person who really loves you, even if you don't ask him to fix it, he likes it very much. Little by little, I tend to correct my bad habits. But one of those people is very rare. (Most girls think that they can correct their bad behavior in time. In fact, you can't force a person to correct their behavior. When he really loves you, he will gradually correct himself.) Or don't even think that you're going to fix it after getting married. The percentage that can be repaired cannot be guaranteed. But if he really loves you, he will correct himself if you don't tell him.
6) Learn to reduce ego as much as possible.
I know that I want to be between lovers, Prioritize your own feelings, I only know what I want to do, I can't be comfortable when I have too much ego, just watching for myself. If you do get along with that person, it's best to break up with them before time passes. Selfish people tend to be very short-tempered in their love life, and even if they get married, they have to follow their own will almost every day. Too short You will be miserable. A person who really loves you will gradually reduce the selfishness he already has for you. Something that comes to mind first for you. For example. Even while eating bread, buy your favorite, Even if you go to the market, you choose to buy what you like.
One thing is that in order to share a life together, we must study and criticize each other from the level of lovers. At the level of a lover, there are still things that you may not be comfortable with. That's why even before choosing to be a lover, you should not only look at love, but also look at the compatibility with the factors that you have determined to be the main thing. For example, family community My own behavior Social scandals and so on. It's easy to adjust the rest of the secondary points without any defects in the main points.
(It doesn't mean that everyone will be comfortable with all the points, as each person is a type of personality. I only mentioned the general points)
Among the readers, please share what kind of behavior happens when you really fall in love."