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Things you can know about an environment that is not good for you
1) Always worried Even if you go out of your house and see people around you, "I don't know what to...
1) Always worried
Even if you go out of your house and see people around you, "I don't know what to ask of me." I don't know what will trouble me, If you don't know what to rent a house for, etc., if you are worried about something, then that environment may be causing you problems in some way. You are willing to help, but you don't value your kindness and force behind your back. They come to you when they want to blame you. An environment where there are many people who don't even bother you when you don't need it is an environment that doesn't do you any good.
2) Solving other people's problems
Usually, if you have to deal with the problems of the people around you rather than your own problems, then you should avoid that environment. For example. I came to borrow from you because I needed money, I didn't give it back. Borrow again and again, Like when your friend goes looking for someone else's problem while you're sitting at the bar with you, or calls you drunk to solve a problem they're looking for. If you are involved with such people, it is better to be clear. Those people are the ones who will give you trouble in some way.
3) Misusing his name
When they find a problem of their own and you don't know, your name, Your rights; If you use your power, stay away from those people. It's going to hurt you somehow. Abusers like this are often worse than others. They are the kind of people you should not get involved with because they will use you behind your back. You can deny that your name is being misused in front of your eyes, but behind your back, it is being misused and if you don't know about it, you can pretend that you did it yourself and become a bad name. If possible, you should stay away from that environment as much as possible.
4) Face bleeding
Some people, when they need help, ask you for help in various ways, telling you all kinds of problems. But even if you help out in the midst of difficulties, there aren't people behind you who appreciate the help. Because like you, he is asking others for help. It is normal for them to tell others about their problems and ask for help. That's why they treat your help as a job. I will not be particularly grateful. If they don't need your help, they won't notice you. They can still talk bad about you even behind your back. I treat them normally, but they are very nice when they need to be and blame you unnecessarily when they don't need to. That's why you should avoid such people in the environment.
5) Being treated like a useless person
If you live in an environment that always looks down on you and treats you with contempt, or an environment that doesn't say anything good about how much you do, and finds fault with you, it's not good for a long-term relationship. Because always treating you like an idiot makes you lose confidence in yourself. Even if you do something, you will think in advance who will blame... Because of this preconceived notion, I will become reluctant to even do what I intend to do. That's how you lose confidence in yourself. It makes me feel like I don't dare to do it and don't even dare to show my goals. So don't live among people who don't understand your worth and think you're useless. Only around someone who understands your value will your value shine brighter.
If you are facing many of the factors above, then the environment is a toxic environment. It will not benefit you, but it can only cause harm. Finally, you can't benefit yourself by solving other people's problems. That's why if you have to deal with that kind of environment, stay away. If you can't get out of that environment, deal with such people clearly.
Even if you go out of your house and see people around you, "I don't know what to ask of me." I don't know what will trouble me, If you don't know what to rent a house for, etc., if you are worried about something, then that environment may be causing you problems in some way. You are willing to help, but you don't value your kindness and force behind your back. They come to you when they want to blame you. An environment where there are many people who don't even bother you when you don't need it is an environment that doesn't do you any good.
2) Solving other people's problems
Usually, if you have to deal with the problems of the people around you rather than your own problems, then you should avoid that environment. For example. I came to borrow from you because I needed money, I didn't give it back. Borrow again and again, Like when your friend goes looking for someone else's problem while you're sitting at the bar with you, or calls you drunk to solve a problem they're looking for. If you are involved with such people, it is better to be clear. Those people are the ones who will give you trouble in some way.
3) Misusing his name
When they find a problem of their own and you don't know, your name, Your rights; If you use your power, stay away from those people. It's going to hurt you somehow. Abusers like this are often worse than others. They are the kind of people you should not get involved with because they will use you behind your back. You can deny that your name is being misused in front of your eyes, but behind your back, it is being misused and if you don't know about it, you can pretend that you did it yourself and become a bad name. If possible, you should stay away from that environment as much as possible.
4) Face bleeding
Some people, when they need help, ask you for help in various ways, telling you all kinds of problems. But even if you help out in the midst of difficulties, there aren't people behind you who appreciate the help. Because like you, he is asking others for help. It is normal for them to tell others about their problems and ask for help. That's why they treat your help as a job. I will not be particularly grateful. If they don't need your help, they won't notice you. They can still talk bad about you even behind your back. I treat them normally, but they are very nice when they need to be and blame you unnecessarily when they don't need to. That's why you should avoid such people in the environment.
5) Being treated like a useless person
If you live in an environment that always looks down on you and treats you with contempt, or an environment that doesn't say anything good about how much you do, and finds fault with you, it's not good for a long-term relationship. Because always treating you like an idiot makes you lose confidence in yourself. Even if you do something, you will think in advance who will blame... Because of this preconceived notion, I will become reluctant to even do what I intend to do. That's how you lose confidence in yourself. It makes me feel like I don't dare to do it and don't even dare to show my goals. So don't live among people who don't understand your worth and think you're useless. Only around someone who understands your value will your value shine brighter.
If you are facing many of the factors above, then the environment is a toxic environment. It will not benefit you, but it can only cause harm. Finally, you can't benefit yourself by solving other people's problems. That's why if you have to deal with that kind of environment, stay away. If you can't get out of that environment, deal with such people clearly.
