Words people use like poison to lower your self-confidence
"1) "Don't you know what you're talking about?" I mean, "don't you know the meaning of what you're t...
"1) "Don't you know what you're talking about?"
I mean, "don't you know the meaning of what you're talking about?" When he said that, the other person was speechless. It gets complicated. I often confuse myself with the thought that the other person has misspoken.
2) "It's all your fault"
You want everything to be your fault. But toxic people often point the finger at you.
3) "There is no certainty"
Saying, "You're never sure of anything" also reduces trust in the other person. Sometimes, rather than being told about your own mistakes, repeating that thought over and over again in your mind is doing it in an indirect way to lower your confidence.
4) "When are you going to succeed?"
Saying that kind of thing means that you don't think so. It also reduces your confidence. Those who have a bad opinion will try to make the idea that you are useless anywhere in your head to make you think it is true. You end up typing it into your mind. When you hear such words often, it will make you feel like you are really powerless.
5) "It will never happen"
The same is true of these words. It's a bit like the meaning of never being able to accomplish what you want to be. You tell me what you're aiming for, When you talk about your future plan, he will tell you that. That's how you lose confidence in yourself.
6) "Very poor"
This is the same word. It's like you're nowhere. Those people already know that such negative thoughts and words can drag you down and make you not want to do whatever you set out to do.
Usually, toxic people are those who are useless themselves and can't do anything to be themselves. One thing they can do is drag the people around them down to their level. He is a very poor person. He is not the one who will never be. They often attack other people's trust by using terms such as free losers. That's why, as always, you should stay away from people who only choose those kinds of words to speak to others. Ignoring You should try to be as little involved as possible. When you continue to be involved with that type of person, you become less self-sufficient and see yourself as a really useless person."
I mean, "don't you know the meaning of what you're talking about?" When he said that, the other person was speechless. It gets complicated. I often confuse myself with the thought that the other person has misspoken.
2) "It's all your fault"
You want everything to be your fault. But toxic people often point the finger at you.
3) "There is no certainty"
Saying, "You're never sure of anything" also reduces trust in the other person. Sometimes, rather than being told about your own mistakes, repeating that thought over and over again in your mind is doing it in an indirect way to lower your confidence.
4) "When are you going to succeed?"
Saying that kind of thing means that you don't think so. It also reduces your confidence. Those who have a bad opinion will try to make the idea that you are useless anywhere in your head to make you think it is true. You end up typing it into your mind. When you hear such words often, it will make you feel like you are really powerless.
5) "It will never happen"
The same is true of these words. It's a bit like the meaning of never being able to accomplish what you want to be. You tell me what you're aiming for, When you talk about your future plan, he will tell you that. That's how you lose confidence in yourself.
6) "Very poor"
This is the same word. It's like you're nowhere. Those people already know that such negative thoughts and words can drag you down and make you not want to do whatever you set out to do.
Usually, toxic people are those who are useless themselves and can't do anything to be themselves. One thing they can do is drag the people around them down to their level. He is a very poor person. He is not the one who will never be. They often attack other people's trust by using terms such as free losers. That's why, as always, you should stay away from people who only choose those kinds of words to speak to others. Ignoring You should try to be as little involved as possible. When you continue to be involved with that type of person, you become less self-sufficient and see yourself as a really useless person."