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How to teach your child to be honest.
1) Praise when you tell the truth. Parents, as a role model, tell yourself the truth. I don't know t...
1) Praise when you tell the truth.
Parents, as a role model, tell yourself the truth. I don't know the child enough. Avoid telling the child that they don't understand enough. It is like indirectly teaching the child to lie. Choose words that the child will understand and explain. Explain how telling the truth is beneficial. If the child tells the truth about something he did wrong, praise him for telling the truth. After that, explain the negative consequences that may occur due to the wrong mistake. Promise not to do it again.
2) Let parents themselves apologize for mistakes.
Tell the truth and apologize to the child if you make a mistake. Then the child will learn to apologize if he makes a mistake and learn to tell the truth. If the child is afraid to tell the truth, you do not pretend to be angry, but if you tell the truth, do not shout and explain to him that you are not angry. Then the child will dare to tell the truth, and every time he makes a mistake, he will tell you his mistake first. Only then will you be able to understand the truth.
3) Don't let the parent deal with anger when mistakes are made.
Mothers are usually busy, so when children make mistakes, they can't control their anger and yell at them. At that time, if the mother tells the child that the child is doing something wrong, the mother will say, "I will scream." "I'm going to get fat," they fear and lie without admitting their mistake. That's why when you realize that your child has done something wrong, take a deep breath and control your mind. Then explain to the child carefully. "Son...what have you done?" Tell my mother the truth, If a mother tells her son the truth, she will not beat her son. I'm not angry. That way, if something happens, we will be able to help the mother and son." It should be said gently. If the child is sure that you are not beating him, he will not hesitate to tell the truth. Children tend to lie, and adults will be fat if they know the truth. It is because of the fear of hitting.
4) The parent's response to the child's mistakes is important.
Let the child understand that it is important to tell the truth, even in small everyday matters. Then the child will understand and tell the truth. If not, the person dares to tell the truth while still being afraid of the old man, or is too afraid to lie. For example. In the case of a dog bite... The child's injury is small, so if the child's life is in danger, if the parent hides it for fear of being hurt. In such a problem, if the parent always blames the child, the child will surely hide from the parent what he did that day. Because whatever he does, his parents will blame him. For example. If the child hides any kind of iron while playing, it may lead to tetanus infection. In both of these examples, the focus is on the parent's response to the problem. If a parent always blames the child and is proud, the child will hide everything from the parent no matter what. He never dared to tell the truth and would be an easy liar for the rest of his life.
5) Make sure to explain the adverse effects.
A child will make many mistakes. It is better for parents to explain in advance the possibility of some mistakes. Let the child understand that if he doesn't listen, he knows the consequences. If that is the case, he will learn to avoid work that will harm himself. The main thing is to explain to the child. For example. If there is a dog bite, it is explained that the parent should be told immediately. Because if you are bitten by a dog, it is mandatory to get vaccinated. In any case, it can be prevented only by having an injection. Even if such a life-threatening matter has happened, the parents will be able to help the child's life if they inform the parents immediately. Similarly, life-threatening problems should be explained once in advance.
6) Be honest with the parents themselves.
For example. When the parents themselves borrow other people's things, they make sure to return them. Holding someone else's property after asking for permission, It is not a foreign material here. Children's things, After asking for permission to take possession of the belongings of the people who live together in the house, sure return, If you don't know the owner, you shouldn't hold it. should not take He explains that taking without the owner's knowledge is theft. Teaching the child that it is bad to want free things, etc., should teach the child slowly and only with small daily matters. If someone takes things without asking permission, the parents will not blame them, but tell them that it was a mistake and that they should not make that mistake again.
Parents themselves need to know that lying is the basis for a lot of dishonesty. That's why the above points are important not to lie. Read the details one by one and try to do it. #BAWA101
Parents, as a role model, tell yourself the truth. I don't know the child enough. Avoid telling the child that they don't understand enough. It is like indirectly teaching the child to lie. Choose words that the child will understand and explain. Explain how telling the truth is beneficial. If the child tells the truth about something he did wrong, praise him for telling the truth. After that, explain the negative consequences that may occur due to the wrong mistake. Promise not to do it again.
2) Let parents themselves apologize for mistakes.
Tell the truth and apologize to the child if you make a mistake. Then the child will learn to apologize if he makes a mistake and learn to tell the truth. If the child is afraid to tell the truth, you do not pretend to be angry, but if you tell the truth, do not shout and explain to him that you are not angry. Then the child will dare to tell the truth, and every time he makes a mistake, he will tell you his mistake first. Only then will you be able to understand the truth.
3) Don't let the parent deal with anger when mistakes are made.
Mothers are usually busy, so when children make mistakes, they can't control their anger and yell at them. At that time, if the mother tells the child that the child is doing something wrong, the mother will say, "I will scream." "I'm going to get fat," they fear and lie without admitting their mistake. That's why when you realize that your child has done something wrong, take a deep breath and control your mind. Then explain to the child carefully. "Son...what have you done?" Tell my mother the truth, If a mother tells her son the truth, she will not beat her son. I'm not angry. That way, if something happens, we will be able to help the mother and son." It should be said gently. If the child is sure that you are not beating him, he will not hesitate to tell the truth. Children tend to lie, and adults will be fat if they know the truth. It is because of the fear of hitting.
4) The parent's response to the child's mistakes is important.
Let the child understand that it is important to tell the truth, even in small everyday matters. Then the child will understand and tell the truth. If not, the person dares to tell the truth while still being afraid of the old man, or is too afraid to lie. For example. In the case of a dog bite... The child's injury is small, so if the child's life is in danger, if the parent hides it for fear of being hurt. In such a problem, if the parent always blames the child, the child will surely hide from the parent what he did that day. Because whatever he does, his parents will blame him. For example. If the child hides any kind of iron while playing, it may lead to tetanus infection. In both of these examples, the focus is on the parent's response to the problem. If a parent always blames the child and is proud, the child will hide everything from the parent no matter what. He never dared to tell the truth and would be an easy liar for the rest of his life.
5) Make sure to explain the adverse effects.
A child will make many mistakes. It is better for parents to explain in advance the possibility of some mistakes. Let the child understand that if he doesn't listen, he knows the consequences. If that is the case, he will learn to avoid work that will harm himself. The main thing is to explain to the child. For example. If there is a dog bite, it is explained that the parent should be told immediately. Because if you are bitten by a dog, it is mandatory to get vaccinated. In any case, it can be prevented only by having an injection. Even if such a life-threatening matter has happened, the parents will be able to help the child's life if they inform the parents immediately. Similarly, life-threatening problems should be explained once in advance.
6) Be honest with the parents themselves.
For example. When the parents themselves borrow other people's things, they make sure to return them. Holding someone else's property after asking for permission, It is not a foreign material here. Children's things, After asking for permission to take possession of the belongings of the people who live together in the house, sure return, If you don't know the owner, you shouldn't hold it. should not take He explains that taking without the owner's knowledge is theft. Teaching the child that it is bad to want free things, etc., should teach the child slowly and only with small daily matters. If someone takes things without asking permission, the parents will not blame them, but tell them that it was a mistake and that they should not make that mistake again.
Parents themselves need to know that lying is the basis for a lot of dishonesty. That's why the above points are important not to lie. Read the details one by one and try to do it. #BAWA101
