How to raise your child to be kind.

"Therefore, this time I would like to explain how to raise a child to be a kind person. 1) Parents t...


"Therefore, this time I would like to explain how to raise a child to be a kind person.
1) Parents themselves are role models.
No one can be perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. But parents are the child's closest human role model, so every behavior of the parent will be influenced by the child. If the parents themselves are selfish people, they will not be able to teach their children to be kind. "Let's do it ourselves, It doesn't matter what the other person is, It's important to get it..." Then the parents themselves can teach the child to be kind. Being kind to others is humanity only when parents themselves understand. Elderly people in my own house, whether to grandparents or Treating others with kindness, even strangers, is a role model for children.

2) Teach the child to be empathetic.
When dealing with others, you should teach yourself to think about whether you would like it if you behaved the way you behaved to another person. For example. The child does not want to feed his bread to others. If that's the case, "If you don't feed your son with bread from my mother's hand, will your son like it?" Tell me. Like that. Teach others to care. If my actions hurt someone else, would it be okay if I was in that person's place? You should teach your child not to do to others what you don't even like.

3) Teach others to care about what is important to them.
Usually everyone focuses on their own important things and important things. That's why sometimes I ignore other people's important things. For example. If a child destroys another child's toy, "Destroy the little toy you like, just like you don't like it." Will the other friend like it when his son destroys his favorite toy? That's why if you don't like destroying your own stuff, don't destroy other people's toys either. The doll is just as important to the son. The other is in an important position for him. We have to understand each other. If not, "Would you like it if the Spider-Man toy that you like so much is lost? If you don't like it, I'll tear up mommy's book as well, "I don't like it," etc. It can teach the child that what is important to him and others is also important.

4) Help the child learn to control his emotions.
Not every emotion is fun. sometimes angry, will be angry Confusion also happens to children. When such feelings occur, it is difficult for children to control. It can also be difficult to understand. Parents must understand that. In order to get rid of my feelings and to vote for people from the outside environment, Throwing toys, smash, destroy the toy, Parents must teach them not to destroy other people's property. Tell them that it's normal to feel unsatisfied. But it's not normal to explode emotions with other things. You must teach that the only answer is to discuss how you feel. That way, when the child becomes an adult in the future, he will no longer be a person who will explode with anger.

5) Teach others to consider their feelings.

Not caring about other people's feelings can make them unkind children. I just know what I want to do and do what I want to do. Teach the child that he should not know only his own ego. Teach your child to think about how his actions will affect others. After thinking about how I would feel if I were in his place, I said, Behavior should be taught that doing is better practice.

Behaviors, The words used against others, Thank you, Polite speech is the basis of kindness. Parents themselves should pay attention to their behavior towards others and set an example."

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