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7 signs that your child is being bullied
"1) Sleep problems for the child Recently, the University of Michigan in the United States found tha...
"1) Sleep problems for the child
Recently, the University of Michigan in the United States found that 341 children had sleep problems. Sleep problems are related to being bullied or something related to it. If your child is having trouble sleeping, you should consult your doctor. Or you should think of some way to prevent being bullied.
2) Having a problem with the child's behavior
confused, interrupting, Do not sympathize with others, Disobeying the rules When such behavior occurs, you should discuss it with the school counselor or teachers. Children who are bullied develop these behaviors and become frustrated, says D. Janell Dietz (teacher, school education consultant). . That's why parents need to carefully monitor how their child behaves when they return home.
3) Not wanting to go to school
If your child's behavior seems to be off after school, bullying may be part of the problem.
, If he seems to be in trouble when he goes to school, and if he doesn't have the right behavior and is not active at school, he is likely to be bullied. One thing you should be aware of is if your child gets into a fight at school. Behaving with a desire to dominate others or learn to disturb other children. If you have been aggressive, do you yourself behave in a way that bullies others?
You should examine yourself to see if you are disciplining others in a bullying manner. What I want to say is to drop something back. If you are taught to do it again, you should correct it immediately. It's not good if your child is bullying others. If your child is bullied, it is not good. Dietz warned.
4) Desire to appear in public
Another symptom is a strong desire to appear in public. It may be because he is having a mental image of being bullied and made fun of. This kind of behavior may be telling the child that he is feeling insecure. Be careful if your child talks about how good it is to be seen in public. Either in the child's surrounding community. You should investigate whether there is someone in your child's group of friends who is bullying or teasing the child.
5) Showing aggressive behavior around your child's friends
aggressive behavior around your child's peers; If you see disruptive behavior, it can be difficult to talk your child out of that group. Your child can become a bully, Your child may also be a bully himself. Dr. Dietz warns that having a bully in your child's company can model bad behavior in your child as well.
6) Bullying at home
Studies have shown that bullying is more likely to happen inside the home than outside. Unknowingly, among the parents and relatives, the child is bullied. For example. Making fun of something the child doesn't like. Destroying something that the child likes so much, Bullying the child and forcing the child to do things that the child does not want to do, etc.
7) Lack of good relationship between you and your child
Your child's lack of respect for others is often related to your child's parenting style, Dr. Dietz said. A good parenting style (a close, open and warm relationship with the child) can solve many of these problems. “Parents are the key to a child becoming a bully. "Children learn to model their parents' behavior towards them, so they learn to treat others according to their parents' behavior," said Dr. Dietz said.
Similarly, if you and your child have a close and warm relationship, even if others are bullying your child, you may be the first to know.
Therefore, if the above symptoms occur, your child's friend, As we need to study the environment, You should also re-examine your parenting style of your child. If your child becomes a bully because of your parenting style mistake, it is not good for the long term. If your child is the victim of bullying, it can't be bad at all.
https://www.everydayhealth.com/kids-health-pictures/7-signs-that-your-kid-is-a-bully.aspx#you-dont-have-a-good-relationship-with-your- This is a translation from the child link. #BAWA101"
Recently, the University of Michigan in the United States found that 341 children had sleep problems. Sleep problems are related to being bullied or something related to it. If your child is having trouble sleeping, you should consult your doctor. Or you should think of some way to prevent being bullied.
2) Having a problem with the child's behavior
confused, interrupting, Do not sympathize with others, Disobeying the rules When such behavior occurs, you should discuss it with the school counselor or teachers. Children who are bullied develop these behaviors and become frustrated, says D. Janell Dietz (teacher, school education consultant). . That's why parents need to carefully monitor how their child behaves when they return home.
3) Not wanting to go to school
If your child's behavior seems to be off after school, bullying may be part of the problem.
, If he seems to be in trouble when he goes to school, and if he doesn't have the right behavior and is not active at school, he is likely to be bullied. One thing you should be aware of is if your child gets into a fight at school. Behaving with a desire to dominate others or learn to disturb other children. If you have been aggressive, do you yourself behave in a way that bullies others?
You should examine yourself to see if you are disciplining others in a bullying manner. What I want to say is to drop something back. If you are taught to do it again, you should correct it immediately. It's not good if your child is bullying others. If your child is bullied, it is not good. Dietz warned.
4) Desire to appear in public
Another symptom is a strong desire to appear in public. It may be because he is having a mental image of being bullied and made fun of. This kind of behavior may be telling the child that he is feeling insecure. Be careful if your child talks about how good it is to be seen in public. Either in the child's surrounding community. You should investigate whether there is someone in your child's group of friends who is bullying or teasing the child.
5) Showing aggressive behavior around your child's friends
aggressive behavior around your child's peers; If you see disruptive behavior, it can be difficult to talk your child out of that group. Your child can become a bully, Your child may also be a bully himself. Dr. Dietz warns that having a bully in your child's company can model bad behavior in your child as well.
6) Bullying at home
Studies have shown that bullying is more likely to happen inside the home than outside. Unknowingly, among the parents and relatives, the child is bullied. For example. Making fun of something the child doesn't like. Destroying something that the child likes so much, Bullying the child and forcing the child to do things that the child does not want to do, etc.
7) Lack of good relationship between you and your child
Your child's lack of respect for others is often related to your child's parenting style, Dr. Dietz said. A good parenting style (a close, open and warm relationship with the child) can solve many of these problems. “Parents are the key to a child becoming a bully. "Children learn to model their parents' behavior towards them, so they learn to treat others according to their parents' behavior," said Dr. Dietz said.
Similarly, if you and your child have a close and warm relationship, even if others are bullying your child, you may be the first to know.
Therefore, if the above symptoms occur, your child's friend, As we need to study the environment, You should also re-examine your parenting style of your child. If your child becomes a bully because of your parenting style mistake, it is not good for the long term. If your child is the victim of bullying, it can't be bad at all.
https://www.everydayhealth.com/kids-health-pictures/7-signs-that-your-kid-is-a-bully.aspx#you-dont-have-a-good-relationship-with-your- This is a translation from the child link. #BAWA101"
