Things that should not control your life
1) Past events Sitting down and thinking about all the things that went wrong in your life and not r...
1) Past events
Sitting down and thinking about all the things that went wrong in your life and not regretting them is like letting those events control your life. The current time is over, There is no progress, but thinking about all the wrong things, Because you are feeling it again, your feelings may not be good and you tend to be negative. So learn from past events. Take advantage of the present moment. As your life becomes more enjoyable, It will improve even more.
2) Other people's opinions
Caring about other people's opinions won't hurt you. "If it's like this, is it okay? I don't know if they like it or not. The face is so gloomy. If you are like this, will you be told that it is bad? As Seneca the Younger once said, "What you think of yourself is more important than what other people think". You can only respect yourself if you are real and human, morally correct, and doing the right thing.
3) Money
Money is also a good servant that can work for you if you can control it, but if you waste it on your material things, money will never be enough because you can't finish what you want. Will always be needed. That's why following your desire will force you to return the money. At that time, money controls you, and for your desires, your morality, Morals, etc. can become paid. That's why your life will be okay if you try not to be controlled by money.
4) His beliefs
Be careful not to take your beliefs to extremes. Your belief is that you are very proud of yourself. You think that you are the most correct and others think that they are wrong. It's the extreme that you believe is the most true, and so on. When your beliefs go to extremes, that mind only hurts you. When you are so confident that you are right, you cannot admit your mistakes and cannot correct them. When you think you're so good, you can't learn from people who are better than you. This is why your beliefs can harm your mind. That kind of extreme belief controls you. That's why you shouldn't be controlled by your superstitions.
5) relationships
It's the same. your lover Your entire life is influenced by your feelings about relationships such as your spouse, and you can't do anything to improve your quality of life. You can't raise your skills; I no longer see the goals of life, It means don't let the emotions of romantic relationships control you to the point where you can't continue what you envisioned. I'm not saying you can't love... until your whole life stops. I would like to say that it should not be too much until it is torn to shreds.
Sitting down and thinking about all the things that went wrong in your life and not regretting them is like letting those events control your life. The current time is over, There is no progress, but thinking about all the wrong things, Because you are feeling it again, your feelings may not be good and you tend to be negative. So learn from past events. Take advantage of the present moment. As your life becomes more enjoyable, It will improve even more.
2) Other people's opinions
Caring about other people's opinions won't hurt you. "If it's like this, is it okay? I don't know if they like it or not. The face is so gloomy. If you are like this, will you be told that it is bad? As Seneca the Younger once said, "What you think of yourself is more important than what other people think". You can only respect yourself if you are real and human, morally correct, and doing the right thing.
3) Money
Money is also a good servant that can work for you if you can control it, but if you waste it on your material things, money will never be enough because you can't finish what you want. Will always be needed. That's why following your desire will force you to return the money. At that time, money controls you, and for your desires, your morality, Morals, etc. can become paid. That's why your life will be okay if you try not to be controlled by money.
4) His beliefs
Be careful not to take your beliefs to extremes. Your belief is that you are very proud of yourself. You think that you are the most correct and others think that they are wrong. It's the extreme that you believe is the most true, and so on. When your beliefs go to extremes, that mind only hurts you. When you are so confident that you are right, you cannot admit your mistakes and cannot correct them. When you think you're so good, you can't learn from people who are better than you. This is why your beliefs can harm your mind. That kind of extreme belief controls you. That's why you shouldn't be controlled by your superstitions.
5) relationships
It's the same. your lover Your entire life is influenced by your feelings about relationships such as your spouse, and you can't do anything to improve your quality of life. You can't raise your skills; I no longer see the goals of life, It means don't let the emotions of romantic relationships control you to the point where you can't continue what you envisioned. I'm not saying you can't love... until your whole life stops. I would like to say that it should not be too much until it is torn to shreds.