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Ways to improve your relationship with your spouse
1) Replenish mental strength. What I want to say is to let the mind rest and recharge the mind. Some...
1) Replenish mental strength.
What I want to say is to let the mind rest and recharge the mind. Sometimes it's hard to find fun because of the strictures. motivation, There is often a lack of interest in each other between you, such as mental strength. Reunite with both of your friends on vacation. Or invite them to a dinner party at your house. Cook and eat together at home. Talk about funny things. Laugh happily. Or both of you are volunteer members and volunteer together.
2) Show commitment.
Show your spouse that you keep your promises even on your grumpy days. Reasonable obstacles, Put the excuses aside. When you can show that you can keep your promises, your spouse will trust and respect you more.
3) Show the impact you have on your mind.
You know how good it feels when someone else speaks to you acknowledging your success or accomplishment. It's like....the success of your lover or your spouse. that you yourself acknowledge the efforts; Let the other person know that you are proud and that you feel the impact. Acknowledge it. That's kind of building a good relationship between you. pretending not to know Acting as if not recognized Or saying something bad can damage the relationship between you.
4) Be warm.
If you don't want to laugh yourself, you won't be able to make someone else laugh. If so, how can you build a happy relationship between you? If you are not close to each other, the relationship between you may become cold. Even if we can't be together, we send messages and ask whether the meal is good or not. such as calling You can take care of it by sending an email. If you are together, you can make eye contact and see if you are sick or not. Is the meal good? You should take care of me by asking if you are okay today. That kind of warmth can make you feel so far and so close.
5) Show acceptance.
Seeing only your spouse's weaknesses and blaming them will not make things difficult between you. Would you like it if even you were sitting there without guilt? It is often worse during stressful moments. Saying how much I love you, only seeing the guilt. In that case, you need to understand and accept the situation of your lover or spouse. For example. Your boyfriend has to close the office because he is busy. If you are underemployed, your partner will surely be stressed. You will be relaxed. In such a situation, you have to understand. He can't follow your small matter, Can't prepare, You must understand that he is not satisfied. Do what you should do for yourself. That made him feel relieved. Not like that, he was stressed because he was busy, so he didn't do any household chores. I didn't wash my clothes. If you blame yourself for not ironing, it will cause more stress for the other person who is already stressed. Then, when the other person can't take it, it is only possible for you to argue with each other.
That's why you can accept when the other person is weak. You have to show that you are calm. It's kind of reciprocal. He must understand and accept when you are stressed.
6) Give each other time.
With 00 household chores and spending time in the workplace, When we have children, we tend to focus on our children's affairs, so we tend to spend less time with each other. You should set aside time for each other to facilitate the relationship between you.
After work, the household chores are divided between the two of you. About the course you want to attend Or talk about a certain topic that you are aiming for. You should either watch a movie together. You can't set a time every day, but you should set a regular time for each other, such as on vacation.
7) Respect your spouse.
When there is no mutual respect between you, the relationship between you gradually deteriorates with the thought that "I don't have to care what I do". If you want to do something, ask your spouse for advice, consultation, Discussions tend to strengthen the relationship more.
8) Opinions and accusations; Don't talk.
You should politely discuss any issues you are unsure about. Not like that, accusing you of something that you are not even sure about. Opinions and words can destroy the relationship between you. Opinion question b Instead of asking, we should discuss. You should listen carefully to the answer.
9) You should not care about other people's opinions.
What will others think? What will the other person think? You should not care at all about what other people say or what other people think. When you take care of them, you can't be comfortable being someone else's mind instead of your own mind. Your main focus should be on being comfortable with your spouse and having a happy family.
When your family is happy, your children will be happy. Your life will be more pleasant, You will be able to focus on improving your work. Your family more than anyone else. Taking care of your spouse is taking care of your life. #BAWA101
What I want to say is to let the mind rest and recharge the mind. Sometimes it's hard to find fun because of the strictures. motivation, There is often a lack of interest in each other between you, such as mental strength. Reunite with both of your friends on vacation. Or invite them to a dinner party at your house. Cook and eat together at home. Talk about funny things. Laugh happily. Or both of you are volunteer members and volunteer together.
2) Show commitment.
Show your spouse that you keep your promises even on your grumpy days. Reasonable obstacles, Put the excuses aside. When you can show that you can keep your promises, your spouse will trust and respect you more.
3) Show the impact you have on your mind.
You know how good it feels when someone else speaks to you acknowledging your success or accomplishment. It's like....the success of your lover or your spouse. that you yourself acknowledge the efforts; Let the other person know that you are proud and that you feel the impact. Acknowledge it. That's kind of building a good relationship between you. pretending not to know Acting as if not recognized Or saying something bad can damage the relationship between you.
4) Be warm.
If you don't want to laugh yourself, you won't be able to make someone else laugh. If so, how can you build a happy relationship between you? If you are not close to each other, the relationship between you may become cold. Even if we can't be together, we send messages and ask whether the meal is good or not. such as calling You can take care of it by sending an email. If you are together, you can make eye contact and see if you are sick or not. Is the meal good? You should take care of me by asking if you are okay today. That kind of warmth can make you feel so far and so close.
5) Show acceptance.
Seeing only your spouse's weaknesses and blaming them will not make things difficult between you. Would you like it if even you were sitting there without guilt? It is often worse during stressful moments. Saying how much I love you, only seeing the guilt. In that case, you need to understand and accept the situation of your lover or spouse. For example. Your boyfriend has to close the office because he is busy. If you are underemployed, your partner will surely be stressed. You will be relaxed. In such a situation, you have to understand. He can't follow your small matter, Can't prepare, You must understand that he is not satisfied. Do what you should do for yourself. That made him feel relieved. Not like that, he was stressed because he was busy, so he didn't do any household chores. I didn't wash my clothes. If you blame yourself for not ironing, it will cause more stress for the other person who is already stressed. Then, when the other person can't take it, it is only possible for you to argue with each other.
That's why you can accept when the other person is weak. You have to show that you are calm. It's kind of reciprocal. He must understand and accept when you are stressed.
6) Give each other time.
With 00 household chores and spending time in the workplace, When we have children, we tend to focus on our children's affairs, so we tend to spend less time with each other. You should set aside time for each other to facilitate the relationship between you.
After work, the household chores are divided between the two of you. About the course you want to attend Or talk about a certain topic that you are aiming for. You should either watch a movie together. You can't set a time every day, but you should set a regular time for each other, such as on vacation.
7) Respect your spouse.
When there is no mutual respect between you, the relationship between you gradually deteriorates with the thought that "I don't have to care what I do". If you want to do something, ask your spouse for advice, consultation, Discussions tend to strengthen the relationship more.
8) Opinions and accusations; Don't talk.
You should politely discuss any issues you are unsure about. Not like that, accusing you of something that you are not even sure about. Opinions and words can destroy the relationship between you. Opinion question b Instead of asking, we should discuss. You should listen carefully to the answer.
9) You should not care about other people's opinions.
What will others think? What will the other person think? You should not care at all about what other people say or what other people think. When you take care of them, you can't be comfortable being someone else's mind instead of your own mind. Your main focus should be on being comfortable with your spouse and having a happy family.
When your family is happy, your children will be happy. Your life will be more pleasant, You will be able to focus on improving your work. Your family more than anyone else. Taking care of your spouse is taking care of your life. #BAWA101
