He seemed to be right, but the way he looked at me and behaved, I knew that I was being told in a style that said, ``I'm not a thief.'' I felt like I was insulting my own morals, which I had lived without a stain all my life. I felt bad, but I didn't say anything. But I remembered that incident. Because I want to stay away from people who don't have the level to break their morals just by looking at the other person's appearance. Such people have different values ​​from people like you. Some feelings need to be kept, Whenever I feel it again, I have to stay away from those people.
You must have experienced an incident where your morals were underestimated by looking at your outward appearance. Going to the store with a jacket at home and thinking that you can't buy it, This is the end of the incident. When dealing with such people, remember this quote from Wayne Dyer.
"When you judge another, you don't define them, you define yourself." Criticizing a person is not defining that person, but defining yourself. The person who treats you like they don't define your worth. His status only shows his value.
Sometimes in life we ​​need to avoid certain people. Each person has different values. But the other person's appearance, how to live poor, rich, position money You can't judge a person's morals by looking at the show of honor. As a waiter working in a restaurant after only finishing fourth grade, it is impossible to calculate that he would steal the shop's money. His life is his life and his morals are his morals. As a girl who works hard on her body as a bad woman, I can't think of her morals again. For some of his life behind him, he made a living without breaking up his family. Because he doesn't steal other people's property and only eats his own body.
Everyone we meet in life is just a person who has taught us one lesson or another. But you have to take the lessons they give and apply them in real life and avoid those who don't deserve to be valued. In other words, people who don't understand their own worth. You don't have to deal with confronting someone who doesn't understand your worth. Do what you have to do consistently. When you meet someone who appreciates your worth, all your efforts will not be in vain.
A person who is working as a waiter while taking a long-distance course to get a degree does not need to be forced to stay in an environment where he is treated as a waiter because he is "uneducated and can't get a degree" until he graduates. In other words, she wants to continue working as a waiter because of her livelihood before graduation, but she is not wrong if she avoids her employer who wants her to work as a waiter for the rest of her life even after graduation. "How many degrees to get, No matter what other skills you have, a person like you should only be a waiter...” You don't need to invest a lot of time around people who think that. Try to gradually improve your skills, After really trying to improve your worth, go to a place that matches your skills.
He also has a degree and other qualifications, so if he is the kind of boss who wants to be promoted to another position, that's one kind of thing.
"If people are doubting how far you can go, go so far that you can't hear them anymore." – As Michele Ruiz said, If people doubt how far you can go, just go so far that you can't hear them.
"The only thing you can do for people who think you're useless is to try to be useful."
A person who looks down on the surface will always look down on himself. She doesn't know her own worth. For those who don't feel much about superficial appearances, but understand their value, they already understand that superficiality can also be a disguise.
A person who understands his own worth, no matter how low his life is, I know my worth. Why should you avoid people who don't know your worth, because they don't know your worth? It's extra to explain that I have value. It's not like that..."I'm not a free person like you think, It's just a waste of time because I'm explaining that it's worth it. Because you don't know the value, you won't value it. In addition to not knowing their own worth, they also tend to think less of themselves. Spending a lot of time around people who don't know your worth means you're missing out on a lot of opportunities to improve your worth.
In addition to that, he blames himself for thinking less of himself. Words that suppress You can still break your heart with mocking words. That's why when you stay around people who don't know your worth, you're truly yourself Feeling like a useless person can still make you depressed. My skills are not improving anymore. That's why I say that I should avoid people who don't value me. Such people are, in other words, people who do not deserve to be valued. Their values ​​are different from yours, so long-term relationships may not be comfortable.
That's why we should understand our value in life and only value people who deserve to be valued. Avoiding someone who doesn't value us is not a sin. Doing what you should do with your life. As a human being, only those who value and understand you will be mutually beneficial to your own value, right? So don't worry about people who don't understand your worth, show yourself that you can do what you think you can't do, and be happy. The greatest pleasure in life is doing what people say you cannot do.” Don't forget that.