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The pressures that single moms will feel
But if you become a single mom, you are under more pressure than others. No comrades to fight life w...
But if you become a single mom, you are under more pressure than others. No comrades to fight life with Because I am struggling with life alone. Here are the pressures of mothers who face single life while holding hands with their children.
1) Pressure from the environment
It is usually said to be patient and bear the fire inside to avoid divorce. It is easy to say and hard work to live a whole life with patience. First, when a divorce happens, the single mom life and the blame of the environment, They are criticized by other parents and siblings. "It's not that I don't put up with it," "I'm making my children look small" and so on.
In addition to that, single moms tend to bully more. More small face. Some people who have a bad mood also often experience physical abuse. What about father's responsibility? As for having to take on both responsibilities as a mother, instead of being sympathetic and encouraging, they are even blamed for not moving forward.
2) Having financial pressure
In the past, even if there was a head of the household who could find money for the family, now the head of the household is also himself. Since I am a married woman, I have more responsibility. We also have to focus on maintaining the marriage. to find money We have to plan again to make the economy convenient. There is more pressure than others because they have more work responsibilities. Worrying more than others about the lack of food, They always rush to try to be comfortable.
3) Pressure to make decisions
When you have to think about something and decide, you can think more than others. To protect children and not neglect work. To avoid neglecting mother's responsibilities, the back hair is also pulled. Because others are watching your behavior more, you have to be careful not to cast a dark shadow on your children in whatever you do.
4) Being more anxious than other people
Since I have to struggle through life alone, I can solve all the responsibilities alone. That's why I'm more anxious than others. The children's front, the future Education All the social activities have to be thought out and planned in advance. In the current period, they still have to rush and try to make things convenient.
When you become a single mom, you are more tired than others. More pressure than others. That's why they should feel included and supported, not excluded with narrow views. #BAWA101
1) Pressure from the environment
It is usually said to be patient and bear the fire inside to avoid divorce. It is easy to say and hard work to live a whole life with patience. First, when a divorce happens, the single mom life and the blame of the environment, They are criticized by other parents and siblings. "It's not that I don't put up with it," "I'm making my children look small" and so on.
In addition to that, single moms tend to bully more. More small face. Some people who have a bad mood also often experience physical abuse. What about father's responsibility? As for having to take on both responsibilities as a mother, instead of being sympathetic and encouraging, they are even blamed for not moving forward.
2) Having financial pressure
In the past, even if there was a head of the household who could find money for the family, now the head of the household is also himself. Since I am a married woman, I have more responsibility. We also have to focus on maintaining the marriage. to find money We have to plan again to make the economy convenient. There is more pressure than others because they have more work responsibilities. Worrying more than others about the lack of food, They always rush to try to be comfortable.
3) Pressure to make decisions
When you have to think about something and decide, you can think more than others. To protect children and not neglect work. To avoid neglecting mother's responsibilities, the back hair is also pulled. Because others are watching your behavior more, you have to be careful not to cast a dark shadow on your children in whatever you do.
4) Being more anxious than other people
Since I have to struggle through life alone, I can solve all the responsibilities alone. That's why I'm more anxious than others. The children's front, the future Education All the social activities have to be thought out and planned in advance. In the current period, they still have to rush and try to make things convenient.
When you become a single mom, you are more tired than others. More pressure than others. That's why they should feel included and supported, not excluded with narrow views. #BAWA101
