The negative effects of a child who knows nothing but letters
At that time, the points mentioned below often happen. 1) Weak interpersonal relationships First, I...
At that time, the points mentioned below often happen.
1) Weak interpersonal relationships
First, I don't understand social relations. She studied full-time and could only memorize text from textbooks, but lacked respect for elders. Poor communication among people, People don't understand what should be done in terms of social issues between people. In that case, even though they have a lot of degrees, they can become small people who are difficult to get along with. In addition to that, in order to be successful in life, it is necessary to learn how to communicate with people, so this skill should be learned.
2) Not knowing how to take responsibility for household affairs
Another thing is that when the child's personal responsibilities are put in charge of the child because he/she won't have to study at home, he/she doesn't know how to help the parent. I don't even take responsibility for my own personal responsibility anymore. For example. I don't know how to wash the dishes after eating. I don't know how to get a broom at home. I don't know how to clean the house, It often happens that you don't wash your clothes. Being separated from parents People who don't take responsibility when they go to a far away place can cause difficulties. That's why understanding household chores is a skill, not a man's or a woman's.
3) Immature for not understanding human nature
When you survive in Bata, you will encounter all kinds of people. In order not to fall into the midst of good people and bad people, one must understand human nature and mature. A child who only memorizes the text from school textbooks may be able to get schoolwork, but may lack the study of human nature. (Children who read and study not only school books, but fiction and other informative literature can understand the nature of human character through those books) Therefore, it is necessary to study and read outside literature as well.
4) Inability to face change
It's the right turn, the right turn, the right turn. It is not always possible for parents to always protect them from the sidelines when they are faced with good or bad. Therefore, a child who is always dependent on his parents may find it difficult to cope with the changes in life. Mental strength is different from a child who relies on himself. That's why a child who trusts that "there's a parent... everything will be solved" and a child who relies on themselves are different in their ability to endure change.
5) Inability to take personal responsibility
A child who doesn't do anything other than schoolwork is also weak to take personal responsibility. Not being able to take responsibility for yourself makes it difficult for you to be in a place far away from your parents or in a place where there are no parents. In addition, a child who does not take personal responsibility will not want to take on the responsibility of others if he becomes part of a team.
6) Not facing the world
This is the same thing. It is impossible for parents to always protect the world that they will encounter in life. I have relied on myself since I was a parent. Only if you can take responsibility for yourself, will you be able to face the ups and downs of the world without your parents, and will you be able to face life bravely.
That's why they will force me to memorize only the text from the school book, in addition to understanding the important things of the other world. to endure To overcome household chores regardless of men and women. I have mentioned that it is necessary to encourage and teach in everything, such as learning to study outside knowledge and making it a habit to read literature.
1) Weak interpersonal relationships
First, I don't understand social relations. She studied full-time and could only memorize text from textbooks, but lacked respect for elders. Poor communication among people, People don't understand what should be done in terms of social issues between people. In that case, even though they have a lot of degrees, they can become small people who are difficult to get along with. In addition to that, in order to be successful in life, it is necessary to learn how to communicate with people, so this skill should be learned.
2) Not knowing how to take responsibility for household affairs
Another thing is that when the child's personal responsibilities are put in charge of the child because he/she won't have to study at home, he/she doesn't know how to help the parent. I don't even take responsibility for my own personal responsibility anymore. For example. I don't know how to wash the dishes after eating. I don't know how to get a broom at home. I don't know how to clean the house, It often happens that you don't wash your clothes. Being separated from parents People who don't take responsibility when they go to a far away place can cause difficulties. That's why understanding household chores is a skill, not a man's or a woman's.
3) Immature for not understanding human nature
When you survive in Bata, you will encounter all kinds of people. In order not to fall into the midst of good people and bad people, one must understand human nature and mature. A child who only memorizes the text from school textbooks may be able to get schoolwork, but may lack the study of human nature. (Children who read and study not only school books, but fiction and other informative literature can understand the nature of human character through those books) Therefore, it is necessary to study and read outside literature as well.
4) Inability to face change
It's the right turn, the right turn, the right turn. It is not always possible for parents to always protect them from the sidelines when they are faced with good or bad. Therefore, a child who is always dependent on his parents may find it difficult to cope with the changes in life. Mental strength is different from a child who relies on himself. That's why a child who trusts that "there's a parent... everything will be solved" and a child who relies on themselves are different in their ability to endure change.
5) Inability to take personal responsibility
A child who doesn't do anything other than schoolwork is also weak to take personal responsibility. Not being able to take responsibility for yourself makes it difficult for you to be in a place far away from your parents or in a place where there are no parents. In addition, a child who does not take personal responsibility will not want to take on the responsibility of others if he becomes part of a team.
6) Not facing the world
This is the same thing. It is impossible for parents to always protect the world that they will encounter in life. I have relied on myself since I was a parent. Only if you can take responsibility for yourself, will you be able to face the ups and downs of the world without your parents, and will you be able to face life bravely.
That's why they will force me to memorize only the text from the school book, in addition to understanding the important things of the other world. to endure To overcome household chores regardless of men and women. I have mentioned that it is necessary to encourage and teach in everything, such as learning to study outside knowledge and making it a habit to read literature.