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Things that must be categorically rejected
1) Things that are not exempt from the law I can't deny that I have received it unknowingly, but pre...
1) Things that are not exempt from the law
I can't deny that I have received it unknowingly, but pretending that it's not related to me and knowing it, it can somehow hurt me. For example. Let's say the family next door to you is a drug addict. If that family member visits your room, it can happen many times and you may even be harmed legally in some way. Like...what would you do if one of your friends was like that? In other words, if it harms you, you have to flatly refuse.
2) Things that can affect your personal time
Some people don't understand the boundaries that should be set between each other. As soon as you are friendly with the other person, you enter and manage all of the other person's time. They still take time. I think everyone will set their own time. Taking advantage of friendship and asking for help by destroying the other person's personal time. I can't even do what I have to do for myself, but their issues, I think you have encountered people who ask for help even with chores. When faced with these people, you should not take it as a risk to your own time and should reject it outright.
3) Things that affect your conduct
Some people often cause their own behavior to be affected. For example. Asking for help, asking to tell a lie, Or forced to pretend. If you don't want to do it yourself, but it could harm you in some way, you should flatly refuse. In some cases, a person related to me or a friend has broken morals and is considered the culprit. To be friends with such people, Or you should flatly refuse to be involved.
4) Things that affect your happiness
Everyone just wants to be happy. to be happy because of something It's not the kind of activity that motivates you, but the kind of being disturbed by someone you're related to when you're really clear and light-hearted and happy. You must have experienced anxiety. For example. For example, when you are doing all the work at home and you are relaxed, a friend of yours calls you to come and help him because he is in trouble. In such a case, if you try to help, but it will cause you distress, you should flatly refuse. If you don't refuse to be patient, you will continue to suffer. It is also necessary not to affect the happiness of others.
5) Financial matters
Even friends often fall apart when it comes to finances. If you ask for help with financial problems, you should not have zero. If you can, it's better to help outright, not to borrow as much as you can. Not like that, hoping for some kind of benefit between friends, and financial issues can become problems. When it comes to financial matters, even if it is not the kind of loan with one's own money, one is willing to lend to others. Because it's my friend, borrowing in my own name will become a big problem in the future. That's why if you can't afford such financial matters, it's best to flatly refuse.
In some cases, a clear refusal from your side will confuse you. It makes things that will bother you go away from you. In particular, in order to stay calm and free from heat in life, you must reject the issues that you should be clear about. I urge you that it is not selfishness, but a kind of humanity.
I can't deny that I have received it unknowingly, but pretending that it's not related to me and knowing it, it can somehow hurt me. For example. Let's say the family next door to you is a drug addict. If that family member visits your room, it can happen many times and you may even be harmed legally in some way. Like...what would you do if one of your friends was like that? In other words, if it harms you, you have to flatly refuse.
2) Things that can affect your personal time
Some people don't understand the boundaries that should be set between each other. As soon as you are friendly with the other person, you enter and manage all of the other person's time. They still take time. I think everyone will set their own time. Taking advantage of friendship and asking for help by destroying the other person's personal time. I can't even do what I have to do for myself, but their issues, I think you have encountered people who ask for help even with chores. When faced with these people, you should not take it as a risk to your own time and should reject it outright.
3) Things that affect your conduct
Some people often cause their own behavior to be affected. For example. Asking for help, asking to tell a lie, Or forced to pretend. If you don't want to do it yourself, but it could harm you in some way, you should flatly refuse. In some cases, a person related to me or a friend has broken morals and is considered the culprit. To be friends with such people, Or you should flatly refuse to be involved.
4) Things that affect your happiness
Everyone just wants to be happy. to be happy because of something It's not the kind of activity that motivates you, but the kind of being disturbed by someone you're related to when you're really clear and light-hearted and happy. You must have experienced anxiety. For example. For example, when you are doing all the work at home and you are relaxed, a friend of yours calls you to come and help him because he is in trouble. In such a case, if you try to help, but it will cause you distress, you should flatly refuse. If you don't refuse to be patient, you will continue to suffer. It is also necessary not to affect the happiness of others.
5) Financial matters
Even friends often fall apart when it comes to finances. If you ask for help with financial problems, you should not have zero. If you can, it's better to help outright, not to borrow as much as you can. Not like that, hoping for some kind of benefit between friends, and financial issues can become problems. When it comes to financial matters, even if it is not the kind of loan with one's own money, one is willing to lend to others. Because it's my friend, borrowing in my own name will become a big problem in the future. That's why if you can't afford such financial matters, it's best to flatly refuse.
In some cases, a clear refusal from your side will confuse you. It makes things that will bother you go away from you. In particular, in order to stay calm and free from heat in life, you must reject the issues that you should be clear about. I urge you that it is not selfishness, but a kind of humanity.
