"A few days ago, my sister talked to me about being pregnant. When I went to the hospital with not enough money in my hand, my face was small and I felt pain. Then I remembered the pain I felt. The pain left only a scar, but every time it coincided, it still hurts. My own pain was also affected during pregnancy, so when it coincided, I fully understood his pain. It's like a small text I read recently (I don't know who wrote it) "Until you have no wounds, you I don't sympathize with people who are hurt. It's a very true saying. When you see someone who hurts like you, it feels like a new one.

When I got pregnant at exactly 22 years old, I didn't have a lot of money saved up. The problem is that when you arrive at the hospital, you have to meet your knees. The result of the blood test was hepatitis B post-mortem, so in order not to harm my fetus, I would have to buy exactly 100,000 money for an emergency injection. To put it simply, "It's my fault that I didn't prepare myself for my child." Actually, the pain I got from that was stuck in my heart. The knowledge that it is impossible to raise a child without ever being thoroughly prepared is a lesson learned over the course of a lifetime. The anxiety you feel when you don't have enough money to go to the hospital yourself; weakness sadness Having experienced all kinds of feelings of helplessness myself, I understand the pain of others as well. When you empathize with pain, you don't easily blame the other person. If you say in local language, "You have to prepare in advance. It's not even a little bit." He didn't say the words that would hurt the other side again.
The pain that everyone can't know, The feeling that there will be difficulties is the empathy that comes when we feel and understand the pain. Personally, at that time, I made a clear decision that "if my child died of hepatitis B..." I was so painful that I would never let a similar incident happen....
Recently, I have heard reports that it has become a daily occurrence for children to come and dump children in front of the charity famous actress's center. In a book written by a teacher at a similar center, I also read a letter that said, "I gave birth to a child, and after giving birth, I abandoned the child, and when I met again, I saw the same girl face to face with her boyfriend." (I'm rewriting it as I remember, so it might be a little different.) The reason why I'm writing these is because I want to prove that I don't learn from pain, rather than blaming.
There will be different mistakes in life, everyone has made mistakes. Those mistakes may have hurt you. But when you can take that pain as a lesson to live your life more correctly, that person's life is like climbing a ladder that climbs higher. But when the pain is still painful, and when the pain turns into a scar, you can't learn anything, and if you keep making the same mistake, no god can correct you. Isn't it true that even God can make those who can be freed by preaching and preaching? This is not to support other people's sins. When faced with the pain of a mistake, I just want to distinguish between learning and not taking the pain.

Then, apart from being able to empathize with the mistakes and pains of others, we can learn from pain, You can't limit what you can't take. We can only limit and control some of the mistakes and pains we face in our lives. That's why I made a mistake, In order not to experience the same pain again and again
Take a lesson from every pain. And every lesson can change a person's thinking and life. So don't forget that pain is what makes you mature. Because of that pain, try to make your life less wrong. Try to make your life more convenient. Try to make your life more peaceful.
I urge you to let the pain be a priceless and valuable lesson for you."