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(7) behaviors of unhappy people
"1) Expecting perfection Nothing can be perfect. Weakness They are just there. always want to be the...
"1) Expecting perfection
Nothing can be perfect. Weakness They are just there. always want to be the best, I don't want to make a mistake, It is absolutely impossible to want to have no weakness. I am not happy because I want something that is not possible. That's why, how No longer will you be happy because you expect to be so big and perfect in any situation. Normal errors and defects should be accepted. should be repaired You should understand.
2) Insensitivity
Being invulnerable is saying bad things about yourself. Bad experiences, Being criticized (positively) can't talk about normal issues, In other words, always be kind to yourself. People who want to be perfect can't stand it if they become a little bit bad. It's a small thing and feels a lot. That's why it's not easy to be happy in the world. Because life is like a battle, there are times when you win, There will be times when you lose, Because I live in the surrounding community, there will be people who love me and people who hate me. There will be people who say good things and people who say bad things.
3) Thinking too much about the past and the future
Another thing is that thinking too much about the past and the future will waste time in the present. When you think about things that haven't happened yet, you may lose your optimism and become free, and you won't be happy in life anymore.
4) Comparing your own life with other lives
The other thing is, no matter what stage of your life you are at, how other people are succeeding. I'm comfortable Happy thoughts. As time passes, I can't even see the joys in my present and it makes me feel negative and sad. Everyone's starting time is different, so the goal entry time cannot be different. You should be happy if you are able to make the best of your current situation and solve problems the best you can. Don't forget that no one has a perfect life.
5) Seeing the small things in life as a sin
The bus was too crowded. The fire went out, The air conditioner is not cold, The apartment I live in is already old. The car you are driving is already under modern. Thinking that ten thousand a month is not enough doesn't make me happy. Actually, if you think about it, there are people like you who can't ride the bus. There are still people living without electricity. There are still people who can't even live with a fan, let alone an air conditioner, when they are upset because the air conditioner is not cold. While I was upset because I was living in an old building, there were still people sleeping under umbrellas on the side of the road. There are still people riding the bus while I'm upset that my car is too modern. Because I don't think that there are people who are spending enough on a month and a half while they are upset that it is only ten thousand three hundred thousand a month. In fact, people don't appreciate the things they have in their lives, and I feel guilty about the little things. If you think like that, there is no reason to be happy.
6) Being afraid to take risks with something new
Afraid to take a risk on something that could lead to improvement. This is a difficult skill, but if you learn it, you can get a lot of good opportunities for yourself. I can't be happy because at some point I can't progress from here. If there is risk, difficulty, Happiness is what happens when you can work on the other side of adventure. There can be no happiness for a person who is afraid to take such risks.
7) Too many excuses
The person who can't do anything and gives various excuses is the same as above. It will be comfortable. At a certain time, the peers are progressing, You will sit and stare at the happiness. When you overcome the difficulty, happiness becomes possible."
Nothing can be perfect. Weakness They are just there. always want to be the best, I don't want to make a mistake, It is absolutely impossible to want to have no weakness. I am not happy because I want something that is not possible. That's why, how No longer will you be happy because you expect to be so big and perfect in any situation. Normal errors and defects should be accepted. should be repaired You should understand.
2) Insensitivity
Being invulnerable is saying bad things about yourself. Bad experiences, Being criticized (positively) can't talk about normal issues, In other words, always be kind to yourself. People who want to be perfect can't stand it if they become a little bit bad. It's a small thing and feels a lot. That's why it's not easy to be happy in the world. Because life is like a battle, there are times when you win, There will be times when you lose, Because I live in the surrounding community, there will be people who love me and people who hate me. There will be people who say good things and people who say bad things.
3) Thinking too much about the past and the future
Another thing is that thinking too much about the past and the future will waste time in the present. When you think about things that haven't happened yet, you may lose your optimism and become free, and you won't be happy in life anymore.
4) Comparing your own life with other lives
The other thing is, no matter what stage of your life you are at, how other people are succeeding. I'm comfortable Happy thoughts. As time passes, I can't even see the joys in my present and it makes me feel negative and sad. Everyone's starting time is different, so the goal entry time cannot be different. You should be happy if you are able to make the best of your current situation and solve problems the best you can. Don't forget that no one has a perfect life.
5) Seeing the small things in life as a sin
The bus was too crowded. The fire went out, The air conditioner is not cold, The apartment I live in is already old. The car you are driving is already under modern. Thinking that ten thousand a month is not enough doesn't make me happy. Actually, if you think about it, there are people like you who can't ride the bus. There are still people living without electricity. There are still people who can't even live with a fan, let alone an air conditioner, when they are upset because the air conditioner is not cold. While I was upset because I was living in an old building, there were still people sleeping under umbrellas on the side of the road. There are still people riding the bus while I'm upset that my car is too modern. Because I don't think that there are people who are spending enough on a month and a half while they are upset that it is only ten thousand three hundred thousand a month. In fact, people don't appreciate the things they have in their lives, and I feel guilty about the little things. If you think like that, there is no reason to be happy.
6) Being afraid to take risks with something new
Afraid to take a risk on something that could lead to improvement. This is a difficult skill, but if you learn it, you can get a lot of good opportunities for yourself. I can't be happy because at some point I can't progress from here. If there is risk, difficulty, Happiness is what happens when you can work on the other side of adventure. There can be no happiness for a person who is afraid to take such risks.
7) Too many excuses
The person who can't do anything and gives various excuses is the same as above. It will be comfortable. At a certain time, the peers are progressing, You will sit and stare at the happiness. When you overcome the difficulty, happiness becomes possible."
