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Parents' child rearing mistakes
"1) The child is not resentful Children naturally want more. Because everything is new, I want it. w...
"1) The child is not resentful
Children naturally want more. Because everything is new, I want it. want to own Wanting to eat, etc. Children's inquisitive nature and wanting everything. You should take what you want with benefit, should not take What is needed It is a kind of destruction of the child, without explaining what is unnecessary and without explaining the child's feelings. Creating everything that a child wants is often done without loving the child. A child who is driven to want something like that forever does not understand the parent's plight. At the right time, when the parents are angry, they often assume that they have to create something to prevent them from getting it. A child who does not understand the difficulties of life will think that everything is easy and will not face the harshness that may come in life.
2) Too much compromise
Dealing with a child has its pros and cons. It should be done as an exception where there is a real need to compromise. But always compromise and you should not persuade the child. For example. If you do school, you will always buy bread that your child likes and feed him. If the child has to do school, he will no longer regard it as a student's responsibility. When I write, if I don't get what I want, I don't write. It happens that they don't want to do the homework, and they even go as far as to scold their parents. That's why we should teach the child, writing The benefits of education should be explained in terms that the child can understand, and it is not good to make compromises anywhere.
3) Too undisciplined
Controlling the child with small rules gives the child control. Rules should be set according to the child's age. But only the parents set the rules for the child, and the parents only break those rules and make the child want to do something, which makes the child think that there is no need to follow the rules. A child who thinks that there is no special need to follow the rules set by his parents since he was young will no longer be disciplined when he becomes an adult. That's why you should make small rules according to your child's age. For example. Sorting the shoes properly on the shoe rack, Do not play or play while eating, He asked me not to play with other toys while I was studying, etc.
4) Done by the parents on behalf of the child
According to the child's age, the child should be asked to do what the child can be responsible for. Only then will the child know that he is responsible. Some parents tend to do everything with the thought that the child is still young. Wearing a jacket, wearing pants Adding the clothes to be washed. Take your own plate of rice, If the child takes the water that the child will drink by himself, the small responsibilities of the child that the child can do, the parent does everything, the child does not know that he will take responsibility for himself. I don't rely on myself anymore, I rely on my parents.
5) Always protecting the child
A child should be protected as much as a parent should, but it is always bad to pee in front of the child. When the child does something wrong, the parents themselves do not discipline the child, but love the child too much and hide the child's guilt. Ignoring the sins of children; Pretending not to know and letting the child go, etc. tames the child with bad behavior. No matter what the child does wrong. When the parent is protecting from the front, the child thinks, "What will I do to be blamed?" I will not be punished…” As the mind becomes, I don't know right from wrong anymore. I don't know how to correct a mistake without actually correcting it, so I often keep making mistakes. As you can imagine, They can become rude children.
The points above are usually mistakes made by parents who love their children too much. Please read the mistakes in the above carefully and list them so that you can correct them."
Children naturally want more. Because everything is new, I want it. want to own Wanting to eat, etc. Children's inquisitive nature and wanting everything. You should take what you want with benefit, should not take What is needed It is a kind of destruction of the child, without explaining what is unnecessary and without explaining the child's feelings. Creating everything that a child wants is often done without loving the child. A child who is driven to want something like that forever does not understand the parent's plight. At the right time, when the parents are angry, they often assume that they have to create something to prevent them from getting it. A child who does not understand the difficulties of life will think that everything is easy and will not face the harshness that may come in life.
2) Too much compromise
Dealing with a child has its pros and cons. It should be done as an exception where there is a real need to compromise. But always compromise and you should not persuade the child. For example. If you do school, you will always buy bread that your child likes and feed him. If the child has to do school, he will no longer regard it as a student's responsibility. When I write, if I don't get what I want, I don't write. It happens that they don't want to do the homework, and they even go as far as to scold their parents. That's why we should teach the child, writing The benefits of education should be explained in terms that the child can understand, and it is not good to make compromises anywhere.
3) Too undisciplined
Controlling the child with small rules gives the child control. Rules should be set according to the child's age. But only the parents set the rules for the child, and the parents only break those rules and make the child want to do something, which makes the child think that there is no need to follow the rules. A child who thinks that there is no special need to follow the rules set by his parents since he was young will no longer be disciplined when he becomes an adult. That's why you should make small rules according to your child's age. For example. Sorting the shoes properly on the shoe rack, Do not play or play while eating, He asked me not to play with other toys while I was studying, etc.
4) Done by the parents on behalf of the child
According to the child's age, the child should be asked to do what the child can be responsible for. Only then will the child know that he is responsible. Some parents tend to do everything with the thought that the child is still young. Wearing a jacket, wearing pants Adding the clothes to be washed. Take your own plate of rice, If the child takes the water that the child will drink by himself, the small responsibilities of the child that the child can do, the parent does everything, the child does not know that he will take responsibility for himself. I don't rely on myself anymore, I rely on my parents.
5) Always protecting the child
A child should be protected as much as a parent should, but it is always bad to pee in front of the child. When the child does something wrong, the parents themselves do not discipline the child, but love the child too much and hide the child's guilt. Ignoring the sins of children; Pretending not to know and letting the child go, etc. tames the child with bad behavior. No matter what the child does wrong. When the parent is protecting from the front, the child thinks, "What will I do to be blamed?" I will not be punished…” As the mind becomes, I don't know right from wrong anymore. I don't know how to correct a mistake without actually correcting it, so I often keep making mistakes. As you can imagine, They can become rude children.
The points above are usually mistakes made by parents who love their children too much. Please read the mistakes in the above carefully and list them so that you can correct them."
