Things you should examine yourself when you fail
1) Have you not disciplined yourself? This is also the main factor to reach the path or success that...
1) Have you not disciplined yourself?
This is also the main factor to reach the path or success that you want. What time do you wake up in the morning? I will try not to drink beer every day, I will maintain my own conduct, What level of English will I try to achieve in this month, etc. is the rule that I set for myself. If you don't discipline yourself and want to live, you won't be able to create meaningful days. In order to become what you want to be or to capture the success that you set out to achieve, it all starts with self-discipline. The more I can follow the rules I set, the more I improve. The more your personality improves, the more you can reach the path you want. Therefore, examine whether this is the reason why you failed.
2) Do you have a tendency to not accept the truth of your mistakes?
Successful people accept their mistakes best when they receive positive criticism. Because from such positive criticism, he can't see his mistakes, He can know the points to be corrected. That way, when I know that I'm wrong or that I should correct it again, I'm less likely to make a mistake. Making mistakes makes you improve, right? Some people don't care who says their mistakes, They are not interested in fixing it. They are the ones who know and accept their mistakes deep down. Such people tend to commit the same mistakes they have made once and over and over again, and they do not accept that they are wrong, so they are not the ones who can learn any kind of lesson every time they make a mistake. That's why I can't fix the mistake, They are the ones who keep making mistakes and can never improve. People who are not successful often have that kind of behavior. That's why you should examine yourself.
3) Do you not know your weaknesses and your strengths?
Almost everyone has strengths and weaknesses. A person who understands that fact and realizes himself and works hard can be successful. For example. I want to be a tour guide, but my English is weak. In order to be what you want to be, you will have to correct your weaknesses first. When you can really fix it, you will be able to walk boldly on the path you want. That's knowing the weakness and needing to realign it with what I want to be. For example. I don't know what I want to be, But I have to tell people about the products, A person who is strong in discussion. If your advantage is being able to interact with people, you can choose to be a marketer again. It's about making good use of your strengths and choosing what you want to be. That's why I want to succeed in a certain direction. Or if you want to do what you want, your advantage, We need to understand the weakness well. Weaknesses should be filled and repaired. If you know how to use the advantage well, you can improve. Therefore, please examine yourself to see if this is the reason for your failure.
4) Can't break new ground?
Anywhere, it's too easy to follow the path that others have already taken. However, because it is too simple, it can be difficult to succeed. A quote from Vincent van Gogh is so beautiful. "Normality is a paved road: it's comfortable to walk but no flowers grow." The normal road is comfortable, but where will the flowers bloom? The road that you make yourself will be rough and tough, But what about the feeling for yourself when you succeed? In terms of success, it can be huge. That's why I'm walking on the right path, Why not come up with new ideas? You should reexamine yourself if you don't have your own style.
5) Do you have a negative attitude?
Do you look at the success of others and talk about it from a negative perspective? In other words, don't copy from successful people and be envious? How others try You should try to emulate how you faced the difficulties. Instead, if you tend to see only the negative, you should correct your views. Being negative only hurts you.
6) Do you have self-esteem?
If something is due to self-esteem
"It doesn't matter if I haven't done it now....I can make it succeed while they are trying to die." Because of that mentality, I keep saying that everything is calm, so I don't improve as much as I should. It wastes time and ends up just fantasizing. Therefore, if you tend to think too much of yourself, try to correct it and see yourself as you really are.
After checking whether the factors above are happening to yourself, you need to fix the things that should really be fixed. Only then will I be able to really progress and reach the path I want or the success I set.
This is also the main factor to reach the path or success that you want. What time do you wake up in the morning? I will try not to drink beer every day, I will maintain my own conduct, What level of English will I try to achieve in this month, etc. is the rule that I set for myself. If you don't discipline yourself and want to live, you won't be able to create meaningful days. In order to become what you want to be or to capture the success that you set out to achieve, it all starts with self-discipline. The more I can follow the rules I set, the more I improve. The more your personality improves, the more you can reach the path you want. Therefore, examine whether this is the reason why you failed.
2) Do you have a tendency to not accept the truth of your mistakes?
Successful people accept their mistakes best when they receive positive criticism. Because from such positive criticism, he can't see his mistakes, He can know the points to be corrected. That way, when I know that I'm wrong or that I should correct it again, I'm less likely to make a mistake. Making mistakes makes you improve, right? Some people don't care who says their mistakes, They are not interested in fixing it. They are the ones who know and accept their mistakes deep down. Such people tend to commit the same mistakes they have made once and over and over again, and they do not accept that they are wrong, so they are not the ones who can learn any kind of lesson every time they make a mistake. That's why I can't fix the mistake, They are the ones who keep making mistakes and can never improve. People who are not successful often have that kind of behavior. That's why you should examine yourself.
3) Do you not know your weaknesses and your strengths?
Almost everyone has strengths and weaknesses. A person who understands that fact and realizes himself and works hard can be successful. For example. I want to be a tour guide, but my English is weak. In order to be what you want to be, you will have to correct your weaknesses first. When you can really fix it, you will be able to walk boldly on the path you want. That's knowing the weakness and needing to realign it with what I want to be. For example. I don't know what I want to be, But I have to tell people about the products, A person who is strong in discussion. If your advantage is being able to interact with people, you can choose to be a marketer again. It's about making good use of your strengths and choosing what you want to be. That's why I want to succeed in a certain direction. Or if you want to do what you want, your advantage, We need to understand the weakness well. Weaknesses should be filled and repaired. If you know how to use the advantage well, you can improve. Therefore, please examine yourself to see if this is the reason for your failure.
4) Can't break new ground?
Anywhere, it's too easy to follow the path that others have already taken. However, because it is too simple, it can be difficult to succeed. A quote from Vincent van Gogh is so beautiful. "Normality is a paved road: it's comfortable to walk but no flowers grow." The normal road is comfortable, but where will the flowers bloom? The road that you make yourself will be rough and tough, But what about the feeling for yourself when you succeed? In terms of success, it can be huge. That's why I'm walking on the right path, Why not come up with new ideas? You should reexamine yourself if you don't have your own style.
5) Do you have a negative attitude?
Do you look at the success of others and talk about it from a negative perspective? In other words, don't copy from successful people and be envious? How others try You should try to emulate how you faced the difficulties. Instead, if you tend to see only the negative, you should correct your views. Being negative only hurts you.
6) Do you have self-esteem?
If something is due to self-esteem
"It doesn't matter if I haven't done it now....I can make it succeed while they are trying to die." Because of that mentality, I keep saying that everything is calm, so I don't improve as much as I should. It wastes time and ends up just fantasizing. Therefore, if you tend to think too much of yourself, try to correct it and see yourself as you really are.
After checking whether the factors above are happening to yourself, you need to fix the things that should really be fixed. Only then will I be able to really progress and reach the path I want or the success I set.