What should you consider if you don't love someone?
1) Do you love me? Do you like it? These two may sound similar, but they are actually different. Mor...
1) Do you love me? Do you like it?
These two may sound similar, but they are actually different. Morality that almost everyone can be interested in when they see a person. good deeds handsome and elegant, If you have the ability to fall in love with a person, whether it's education or wealth, then you like that person, Maybe you like it. For example. It's like seeing a Korean actor or actress.
It's not the same as love. Love is accepting all the circumstances of the person you love. For example. The person I love doesn't have attractive looks. Acceptable no matter how ugly it is. Such as being able to accept no matter how poor the situation is, He doesn't want to get anything from him. That's why, because of old age, until old age is incapacitated, all his It's the kind of couples that stay together until they get old despite all the problems. He fills your empty space, I also want to fill his empty space.
For that reason, when you decide to fall in love with a person, he is better than you. wealth knowledge and prestige If you meet a person with good looks, will you leave the person you currently love? You need to ask yourself first.
2) Is it the same type?
This is not a question. As they say love begins with the eyes, some say that through gradually becoming familiar with the other person's attitude, talent There are those who decide to fall in love after accepting and admiring their behavior. As a long-term partner, those who know him well know that he is not the same type as you. Those who decide to fall in love after accepting that love starts with the eyes will have to consider this fact. When different types are different, it is good if you can accept things that are different over time. Things that are completely unacceptable may become inconvenient. That's why his style is that of an open person. Are you sterile? You should consider whether you are a social person.
3) Do you have good character and morals?
If you are comfortable with the above type, he also needs to be a person with good character and morals. If he's the same type as you, but he's an unscrupulous person, he might be pretending to be you, and you'll be suspicious that he's the kind of person you want to do behind your back. That's why we can't forget the important character and morals.
4) Are you a balanced thinker?
It will make both sides comfortable as long as he thinks about his side in a fair way. If not, the more time it takes, the more attention it may receive. Not only for myself, but also for my friends, It won't be comfortable with family circles either. It's not going to be convenient for you to think about what's not. People like that can also be defined as immature. Immature people are angry with nothing. There is a lack of understanding, so it can be distracting to you.
5) Is it acceptable to the parent community?
This is the last ranking. Since it's love life, I can't think that this point hasn't been considered yet. Due to various reasons, Whether you don't want to face it, Because there is a really great sound, You can't easily cut off someone you've been with as a lover for a while and forget them easily.
The lover you see is perfect for you, but what does his family look like? If it's a boy, how does his parent teach him? What is the behavior of his parents? If it's a girl, you should also think about how your parents educate you. Only then, is it the type of head of the household who gets married and takes care of the woman? Is it the people in their family who are so bad that they can't control them? His parent's attitude should also be taken into consideration.
Do not choose a person as a lover who seems to be uncomfortable after considering the points above. It is best not to accept. You might think, "These are the things that we have to think about when we get married as spouses....Now it's just a relationship, so if it doesn't work out, we'll cut it off." Mentally, I will feel something more or less. That's why I know when I've experienced it, I've really experienced it and my heart really hurts, will I disconnect? Even if we get married before we become lovers, is it better to choose only the people who are comfortable and think of them as lovers? It is expressed to be able to think that way.
These two may sound similar, but they are actually different. Morality that almost everyone can be interested in when they see a person. good deeds handsome and elegant, If you have the ability to fall in love with a person, whether it's education or wealth, then you like that person, Maybe you like it. For example. It's like seeing a Korean actor or actress.
It's not the same as love. Love is accepting all the circumstances of the person you love. For example. The person I love doesn't have attractive looks. Acceptable no matter how ugly it is. Such as being able to accept no matter how poor the situation is, He doesn't want to get anything from him. That's why, because of old age, until old age is incapacitated, all his It's the kind of couples that stay together until they get old despite all the problems. He fills your empty space, I also want to fill his empty space.
For that reason, when you decide to fall in love with a person, he is better than you. wealth knowledge and prestige If you meet a person with good looks, will you leave the person you currently love? You need to ask yourself first.
2) Is it the same type?
This is not a question. As they say love begins with the eyes, some say that through gradually becoming familiar with the other person's attitude, talent There are those who decide to fall in love after accepting and admiring their behavior. As a long-term partner, those who know him well know that he is not the same type as you. Those who decide to fall in love after accepting that love starts with the eyes will have to consider this fact. When different types are different, it is good if you can accept things that are different over time. Things that are completely unacceptable may become inconvenient. That's why his style is that of an open person. Are you sterile? You should consider whether you are a social person.
3) Do you have good character and morals?
If you are comfortable with the above type, he also needs to be a person with good character and morals. If he's the same type as you, but he's an unscrupulous person, he might be pretending to be you, and you'll be suspicious that he's the kind of person you want to do behind your back. That's why we can't forget the important character and morals.
4) Are you a balanced thinker?
It will make both sides comfortable as long as he thinks about his side in a fair way. If not, the more time it takes, the more attention it may receive. Not only for myself, but also for my friends, It won't be comfortable with family circles either. It's not going to be convenient for you to think about what's not. People like that can also be defined as immature. Immature people are angry with nothing. There is a lack of understanding, so it can be distracting to you.
5) Is it acceptable to the parent community?
This is the last ranking. Since it's love life, I can't think that this point hasn't been considered yet. Due to various reasons, Whether you don't want to face it, Because there is a really great sound, You can't easily cut off someone you've been with as a lover for a while and forget them easily.
The lover you see is perfect for you, but what does his family look like? If it's a boy, how does his parent teach him? What is the behavior of his parents? If it's a girl, you should also think about how your parents educate you. Only then, is it the type of head of the household who gets married and takes care of the woman? Is it the people in their family who are so bad that they can't control them? His parent's attitude should also be taken into consideration.
Do not choose a person as a lover who seems to be uncomfortable after considering the points above. It is best not to accept. You might think, "These are the things that we have to think about when we get married as spouses....Now it's just a relationship, so if it doesn't work out, we'll cut it off." Mentally, I will feel something more or less. That's why I know when I've experienced it, I've really experienced it and my heart really hurts, will I disconnect? Even if we get married before we become lovers, is it better to choose only the people who are comfortable and think of them as lovers? It is expressed to be able to think that way.