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It's like imprisoning yourself when you're trying to please everyone.
I used to feel like I was in someone else's mold without realizing it. Usually, the views from the e...
I used to feel like I was in someone else's mold without realizing it. Usually, the views from the environment, If you think about other people's opinions a lot in your head. For example. "I don't know if I'm dressed like this is too ugly in the eyes of others," "I don't know if I'm dark-skinned in the eyes of others," "I don't know if he likes me living like this," "I don't know if he's angry with me."
If anything, they will only come to you and ask for help when they know that you prioritize the convenience of others. That doesn't mean I can't help. But it means that you don't have to think about other people's feelings and feel innocent when you can't help many times. Human nature is very different from each other, and because you are a big egoist, the more you think about the convenience of others, the more you lose yourself and it can only hurt you.
Everyone has their reasons, so I will help when I can, There will be times when you can't help yourself when it's inconvenient for you. At that time, it is also necessary to be able to refuse openly and clearly. It's not that you're egotistical, but you have the right to say that what's not working for you isn't working.
Not like that, but with a heart of sorrow, delete your own affairs. It's not good for you if you spend all your time helping and then you end up being uncomfortable.
Trying to please other people can waste time doing things that need to be done. Everyone wants to like you. You want to please everyone. That's normal. Trying to please everyone will never end and you won't even be able to do what you have to do. The main thing is to be worthy, If you should do what you should do, you should say what you should say. I will refuse to refuse clearly. If you don't hurt yourself and other people around you because of it, you've got it.
It's important not to lose yourself in trying to please everyone all the time.
That's why you just don't intentionally hurt others. If you don't hurt yourself and others because of yourself, you've got it. If you live only to please others, your entire life will be controlled by them. Under the influence, it will be like a prison.
"I can't tell you the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone." – Ed Sheeran
As I said, I can't tell you the key to success, but the main reason you fail is trying to please others. That's why you want to be, Make time to do what you set out to do. This is fair. I urge you not to waste your time with others.
If anything, they will only come to you and ask for help when they know that you prioritize the convenience of others. That doesn't mean I can't help. But it means that you don't have to think about other people's feelings and feel innocent when you can't help many times. Human nature is very different from each other, and because you are a big egoist, the more you think about the convenience of others, the more you lose yourself and it can only hurt you.
Everyone has their reasons, so I will help when I can, There will be times when you can't help yourself when it's inconvenient for you. At that time, it is also necessary to be able to refuse openly and clearly. It's not that you're egotistical, but you have the right to say that what's not working for you isn't working.
Not like that, but with a heart of sorrow, delete your own affairs. It's not good for you if you spend all your time helping and then you end up being uncomfortable.
Trying to please other people can waste time doing things that need to be done. Everyone wants to like you. You want to please everyone. That's normal. Trying to please everyone will never end and you won't even be able to do what you have to do. The main thing is to be worthy, If you should do what you should do, you should say what you should say. I will refuse to refuse clearly. If you don't hurt yourself and other people around you because of it, you've got it.
It's important not to lose yourself in trying to please everyone all the time.
That's why you just don't intentionally hurt others. If you don't hurt yourself and others because of yourself, you've got it. If you live only to please others, your entire life will be controlled by them. Under the influence, it will be like a prison.
"I can't tell you the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone." – Ed Sheeran
As I said, I can't tell you the key to success, but the main reason you fail is trying to please others. That's why you want to be, Make time to do what you set out to do. This is fair. I urge you not to waste your time with others.
