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To be a polite child...
Being polite is... Being polite means knowing your parents, disrespectful behavior speech not doing,...
Being polite is...
Being polite means knowing your parents, disrespectful behavior speech not doing, It is easy to listen when parents discipline, There is still a lot of things that need to be fixed. A child's natural desire to play freely (if there is no danger) is forced by an adult to stop him from doing so. Because you used to play when you were young, right? It is natural for a child to want to play. Yelling back at the old man, Still going back hit back, Being scornful and doing what he thinks is bad is covered.
To be clever can be taught from childhood. I can't just let her go because she's still young and doesn't know yet. Didn't you have to hide even your childhood behavior? It's like....to be a polite and polite child can be taught from a young age. It is true that the child does not know. A child's behavior is often learned from the people around it. A child who learns like that, only good deeds, Teaching to learn good manners starts from childhood. It is wrong to think that she will let him go because she doesn't know. We have to teach what we don't know yet from that age.
1) Be a role model as an adult.
Who is clever, Rather than pretending to be polite, show yourself politeness. The child will imitate the politeness. Because the child is close to his parents, Because we learn from adults. When the child gets used to the sounds you hear all day long, the child will start to follow what you adults say.
2) Treat the child with respect yourself.
Whenever your child helps you with something, say "thank you, son"; When you do something wrong, say "sorry" Teach them to say "Thank you..." when someone helps them. Treat yourself as well as your family at home. When the father asks the mother for help, "Help me with this, mother..." "Thank you, mom..." etc. If you ask for help, communicate politely. Because of the touch of such polite communication, it becomes a habit for the child to communicate politely in the outside world as well. That way, you will no longer be hurt by rude behavior in dealing with others.
3) Make a compromise with the child yourself.
You also need to be able to compromise. Too much compromising on everything is not good. We still need to do where we should. I mean, where the child should be compromised, for example. I want to eat candy... Afraid that the child will cough, You can't force them to stay without eating. You can make a compromise there. “OK…..Mommy will feed my son a piece of candy. But after finishing writing the poem
I will feed. After writing the poem, I have to eat a candy that my son likes. But if you eat too much candy, you will cough, suffocate, I will be sick That's why you should go to the doctor. You don't feed a lot because you have to drink a lot of bitter medicine, right? I understand what mom said..." Such a thorough explanation and compromise can be made. But you need to keep your promise. That's when the child once said, "My mother said she will pay me after this." "I'll finish it" When there is another problem that is difficult to solve, the child will pay attention to your words. Because you do what you say. That's one cut, It's a double cut. You really don't have to ……. When you say that you will be punished, the child learns to remember. Because he knows that if you say you will punish him, you will actually do it. If it's a place where it's strictly forbidden, don't compromise at all and explain "it shouldn't be done...why" and prohibit it. Make sure to explain carefully that if you do it despite the prohibition, you will be severely punished. It will inevitably listen to you in cases where it is forbidden.
4) Please explain your reasons.
Please explain why you shouldn't do something rather than saying that you shouldn't do it. This means that if you explain it to your child once, it won't happen again the next time. Let's say your child likes to take a long bath…….. While prohibiting bathing, please explain at once. When you bathe for a long time, you get sick. pneumonia, If you are sick, you have to take medicine. Do you want to take medicine? Ask. I need to take a bath. About the negative effects that happen if more than needed. Choose words that he can understand according to his intelligence and explain it to him carefully. If the next bark falls, "Leather...what will happen if you take a long bath?" I know... If so, will my mother take medicine? Does my son have to take medicine?" Your child will understand when you ask such a simple question. (Children can't be fixed, but in the same way, explaining is effective for children.) You need to learn to manage according to the situation and time. A child's nature is to say, don't do it. That's why when I explained to him why I asked him not to do it, he really understood. He often thinks behind your back. That's how to make a child smart in an indirect way.
But when it comes to children, you need to be patient. I explained it once....I did it again...I explained it twice....If I did it again, I told him, "Mom, I explained it twice....Next time, I won't forgive you at all." I have to be punished. Doing it again... it's my fault." Remind me like that. It makes the child self-aware.
5) Understand what should be understood by the child. Adjust rather than command.
You can't always take care of a child with a mold, so if you need to understand, please understand. For example. When you are reading If he played the cartoon at high volume, he would say, "The sound of the cartoon interferes with my mother's reading." Son can do what he likes, My mother has the right to do what she likes. But you have to be careful not to interfere. I can watch cartoons... Please turn up the volume a little bit.
I am always a parent, so I have to listen to what I have to say, Instead of giving orders that you must always follow your own rules, you should make him understand when it's your turn. If it's his turn, please explain that he should understand you. It's easier to control a child in a conversational way rather than a command. If you give a lot of orders, the child wants to be him, He often feels that he is not allowed to do what he wants, so it becomes more difficult to control the child. For example. I want to ride a bicycle. I'm cooking. "Okay...Mom, now I have to cook. I will help my son to cook as much as I can.... I will cook quickly and teach my son to ride a bicycle. After my son has done what he likes, I mustn't disturb you when my mother is reading. Do you agree?..." This is not legal, but you can adjust what you want between yourself and the child.
When we can adjust to each other like that, the child rebelling against the parents. There can be no such thing as a clan. Talk a lot, Can explain. If you practice that behavior patiently, your child will not be mean to you. But I can no longer become a child.
The above points are written based on Amin's personal experience. Children will have different things. According to the situation and the time, the adult needs to be able to control it as it is convenient. Let's all grow up to be polite and civilized children.
Being polite means knowing your parents, disrespectful behavior speech not doing, It is easy to listen when parents discipline, There is still a lot of things that need to be fixed. A child's natural desire to play freely (if there is no danger) is forced by an adult to stop him from doing so. Because you used to play when you were young, right? It is natural for a child to want to play. Yelling back at the old man, Still going back hit back, Being scornful and doing what he thinks is bad is covered.
To be clever can be taught from childhood. I can't just let her go because she's still young and doesn't know yet. Didn't you have to hide even your childhood behavior? It's like....to be a polite and polite child can be taught from a young age. It is true that the child does not know. A child's behavior is often learned from the people around it. A child who learns like that, only good deeds, Teaching to learn good manners starts from childhood. It is wrong to think that she will let him go because she doesn't know. We have to teach what we don't know yet from that age.
1) Be a role model as an adult.
Who is clever, Rather than pretending to be polite, show yourself politeness. The child will imitate the politeness. Because the child is close to his parents, Because we learn from adults. When the child gets used to the sounds you hear all day long, the child will start to follow what you adults say.
2) Treat the child with respect yourself.
Whenever your child helps you with something, say "thank you, son"; When you do something wrong, say "sorry" Teach them to say "Thank you..." when someone helps them. Treat yourself as well as your family at home. When the father asks the mother for help, "Help me with this, mother..." "Thank you, mom..." etc. If you ask for help, communicate politely. Because of the touch of such polite communication, it becomes a habit for the child to communicate politely in the outside world as well. That way, you will no longer be hurt by rude behavior in dealing with others.
3) Make a compromise with the child yourself.
You also need to be able to compromise. Too much compromising on everything is not good. We still need to do where we should. I mean, where the child should be compromised, for example. I want to eat candy... Afraid that the child will cough, You can't force them to stay without eating. You can make a compromise there. “OK…..Mommy will feed my son a piece of candy. But after finishing writing the poem
I will feed. After writing the poem, I have to eat a candy that my son likes. But if you eat too much candy, you will cough, suffocate, I will be sick That's why you should go to the doctor. You don't feed a lot because you have to drink a lot of bitter medicine, right? I understand what mom said..." Such a thorough explanation and compromise can be made. But you need to keep your promise. That's when the child once said, "My mother said she will pay me after this." "I'll finish it" When there is another problem that is difficult to solve, the child will pay attention to your words. Because you do what you say. That's one cut, It's a double cut. You really don't have to ……. When you say that you will be punished, the child learns to remember. Because he knows that if you say you will punish him, you will actually do it. If it's a place where it's strictly forbidden, don't compromise at all and explain "it shouldn't be done...why" and prohibit it. Make sure to explain carefully that if you do it despite the prohibition, you will be severely punished. It will inevitably listen to you in cases where it is forbidden.
4) Please explain your reasons.
Please explain why you shouldn't do something rather than saying that you shouldn't do it. This means that if you explain it to your child once, it won't happen again the next time. Let's say your child likes to take a long bath…….. While prohibiting bathing, please explain at once. When you bathe for a long time, you get sick. pneumonia, If you are sick, you have to take medicine. Do you want to take medicine? Ask. I need to take a bath. About the negative effects that happen if more than needed. Choose words that he can understand according to his intelligence and explain it to him carefully. If the next bark falls, "Leather...what will happen if you take a long bath?" I know... If so, will my mother take medicine? Does my son have to take medicine?" Your child will understand when you ask such a simple question. (Children can't be fixed, but in the same way, explaining is effective for children.) You need to learn to manage according to the situation and time. A child's nature is to say, don't do it. That's why when I explained to him why I asked him not to do it, he really understood. He often thinks behind your back. That's how to make a child smart in an indirect way.
But when it comes to children, you need to be patient. I explained it once....I did it again...I explained it twice....If I did it again, I told him, "Mom, I explained it twice....Next time, I won't forgive you at all." I have to be punished. Doing it again... it's my fault." Remind me like that. It makes the child self-aware.
5) Understand what should be understood by the child. Adjust rather than command.
You can't always take care of a child with a mold, so if you need to understand, please understand. For example. When you are reading If he played the cartoon at high volume, he would say, "The sound of the cartoon interferes with my mother's reading." Son can do what he likes, My mother has the right to do what she likes. But you have to be careful not to interfere. I can watch cartoons... Please turn up the volume a little bit.
I am always a parent, so I have to listen to what I have to say, Instead of giving orders that you must always follow your own rules, you should make him understand when it's your turn. If it's his turn, please explain that he should understand you. It's easier to control a child in a conversational way rather than a command. If you give a lot of orders, the child wants to be him, He often feels that he is not allowed to do what he wants, so it becomes more difficult to control the child. For example. I want to ride a bicycle. I'm cooking. "Okay...Mom, now I have to cook. I will help my son to cook as much as I can.... I will cook quickly and teach my son to ride a bicycle. After my son has done what he likes, I mustn't disturb you when my mother is reading. Do you agree?..." This is not legal, but you can adjust what you want between yourself and the child.
When we can adjust to each other like that, the child rebelling against the parents. There can be no such thing as a clan. Talk a lot, Can explain. If you practice that behavior patiently, your child will not be mean to you. But I can no longer become a child.
The above points are written based on Amin's personal experience. Children will have different things. According to the situation and the time, the adult needs to be able to control it as it is convenient. Let's all grow up to be polite and civilized children.
