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How do you guide your brothers and sisters?
1) Be a model yourself. You need to be a model anywhere. What about a good place where it is ideal?...
1) Be a model yourself.
You need to be a model anywhere. What about a good place where it is ideal? Maybe in a bad place. What I want to say is that you need to be a role model in a good place. If you are only a role model in a bad place, the younger ones below you will become even worse people than you, just think. You will be bad....You can't force them to become good people after their turn. That's why you yourself are good manners, A good place needs to be a role model. Anywhere, who will respect the words of the people who say, "Do as I ask...don't do as I do..."?
That's why you need to be a role model in every good place and point out what's bad so you don't show yourself bad things.
2) Be respectful.
Don't do that…..and they'll even mock you when you're doing it yourself. Therefore, if you want to lead and teach the younger ones, be worthy of their respect. Be respectful. It's always boring at school, He is always at the top of the community and always helps, and loves people. Just doing the right thing, Always standing firmly on the side of truth. When you are really like that, they respect you, and because they encourage you, they become enthusiastic and smart because you respect yourself.
3) Discipline in the right way.
If the younger ones are wrong, they need to learn the right way. Explaining the right way in a way that is understandable, distinguish between right and wrong, Explaining the consequences of possible problems. And stick to the truth. Don't be biased. If you show your face from time to time, they will not respect you and they will go back and forth every time you reprimand and become even more sarcastic.
4) Younger but respectful.
Some of them said, "I'm the big one....what's the best thing to do when I discipline the younger ones?" He is wrong," they say. That is wrong. In fact, even though he is younger, he should be respected. Punishment, such as kicking, punching, When the teacher behaves rudely, such as cursing, even though he is younger, he may feel disrespected and embarrassed. Then there may even be unwanted problems. That's why, even though you're young, treat them with respect. Then he will respect you again.
5) Don't say negative words.
As he was young, when he made a mistake, "You know what... Don't eat too much." "Don't come in unless you're a tenth grader." "I don't have any knowledge. Don't say words similar to those words that suppress the other person to the younger ones. Don't hurt their hearts with those words. When a trauma happens, it's a big thing, so I don't say it back, but I usually keep it in mind. You don't dare to answer me... When he thinks that he will feel it from time to time. When it explodes, and Or there is nothing good when it comes to sarcasm. That's why you should be careful not to hurt your feelings with words that suppress you.
6) Negotiate.
When the elder is a role model, he will listen to the elder. Then speak elegantly and negotiate. I want something like this, This... so far... Yes? What kind of situation do you want? Tell me. I will give you as much freedom as you can. That kind of thing. If we give more freedom, what could happen next... Please explain the consequences. Ten times, if you want, your parents will forgive you. Do you stay on your side to avoid problems? Such things can be negotiated. When you understand that you should understand his side, he will also understand that you should not conform to your side. If he doesn't understand this, try to find out what the reason is.
The points above are roughly the ways to control the little ones. But there's one thing: when you let loose without discipline, you shouldn't do something like that when you remember that you've let it go and then get up and tighten it. A person who has been in agreement with the rules since he was a child, when he becomes an adult, he no longer sees the rules as rules and becomes calm. I want to be careful about that. Some of them are still young and don't understand yet. They want to let go without discipline. That's why the older ones will be a role model for the younger ones from childhood until they grow up.
You need to be a model anywhere. What about a good place where it is ideal? Maybe in a bad place. What I want to say is that you need to be a role model in a good place. If you are only a role model in a bad place, the younger ones below you will become even worse people than you, just think. You will be bad....You can't force them to become good people after their turn. That's why you yourself are good manners, A good place needs to be a role model. Anywhere, who will respect the words of the people who say, "Do as I ask...don't do as I do..."?
That's why you need to be a role model in every good place and point out what's bad so you don't show yourself bad things.
2) Be respectful.
Don't do that…..and they'll even mock you when you're doing it yourself. Therefore, if you want to lead and teach the younger ones, be worthy of their respect. Be respectful. It's always boring at school, He is always at the top of the community and always helps, and loves people. Just doing the right thing, Always standing firmly on the side of truth. When you are really like that, they respect you, and because they encourage you, they become enthusiastic and smart because you respect yourself.
3) Discipline in the right way.
If the younger ones are wrong, they need to learn the right way. Explaining the right way in a way that is understandable, distinguish between right and wrong, Explaining the consequences of possible problems. And stick to the truth. Don't be biased. If you show your face from time to time, they will not respect you and they will go back and forth every time you reprimand and become even more sarcastic.
4) Younger but respectful.
Some of them said, "I'm the big one....what's the best thing to do when I discipline the younger ones?" He is wrong," they say. That is wrong. In fact, even though he is younger, he should be respected. Punishment, such as kicking, punching, When the teacher behaves rudely, such as cursing, even though he is younger, he may feel disrespected and embarrassed. Then there may even be unwanted problems. That's why, even though you're young, treat them with respect. Then he will respect you again.
5) Don't say negative words.
As he was young, when he made a mistake, "You know what... Don't eat too much." "Don't come in unless you're a tenth grader." "I don't have any knowledge. Don't say words similar to those words that suppress the other person to the younger ones. Don't hurt their hearts with those words. When a trauma happens, it's a big thing, so I don't say it back, but I usually keep it in mind. You don't dare to answer me... When he thinks that he will feel it from time to time. When it explodes, and Or there is nothing good when it comes to sarcasm. That's why you should be careful not to hurt your feelings with words that suppress you.
6) Negotiate.
When the elder is a role model, he will listen to the elder. Then speak elegantly and negotiate. I want something like this, This... so far... Yes? What kind of situation do you want? Tell me. I will give you as much freedom as you can. That kind of thing. If we give more freedom, what could happen next... Please explain the consequences. Ten times, if you want, your parents will forgive you. Do you stay on your side to avoid problems? Such things can be negotiated. When you understand that you should understand his side, he will also understand that you should not conform to your side. If he doesn't understand this, try to find out what the reason is.
The points above are roughly the ways to control the little ones. But there's one thing: when you let loose without discipline, you shouldn't do something like that when you remember that you've let it go and then get up and tighten it. A person who has been in agreement with the rules since he was a child, when he becomes an adult, he no longer sees the rules as rules and becomes calm. I want to be careful about that. Some of them are still young and don't understand yet. They want to let go without discipline. That's why the older ones will be a role model for the younger ones from childhood until they grow up.
