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How do you deal with those who criticize you?
"1) Common, routine Almost everyone in this world has experienced criticism. Only those who have don...
"1) Common, routine
Almost everyone in this world has experienced criticism. Only those who have done it. You can treat others in a good or bad way. in a bad way whether intended or not. I may have been criticized either unintentionally or not. At the end of the day, you will be criticized without even knowing it. That's why if you see someone who criticizes you, accept it. It puts you at ease.
2) should be accepted; Remove what should not be accepted.
When criticizing, don't feel sorry for what you can't fix or for what you didn't do wrong. Remove it from your thoughts. Don't lie to yourself if your mistakes are real or if you really need to fix them. Accept such criticism. Fix it. For example. If you have to attend a course once you get home from work, it's already dark when you get home. In such a situation, those around you will criticize you. I don't know what I'm doing... what are the boys saying about the course... what's that? The criticism is that you are late because you are actually taking a course for a path that is necessary for your life. They're not really wrong in saying what they think, so you take them out. You don't need to put what you think of me in your brain. Because you are actually building your life. You are striving for your growth. Being criticized like that, I can't fix their mouths. I'm talking with my thoughts, so just wait for time to prove it. Cultivate yourself. You remove their criticism.
For example. Your course teacher will say, “Are you not doing your homework? Bad grades..." In this way, I want to be good to you, If you don't really study, put those words in your brain to correct yourself.
That's why you shouldn't accept it, Accept what you should accept.
3) Don't worry about things you can't control.
For example. You look bad too, There is no need to pay attention if the meat is criticized. If you only focus on fixing them, you won't even finish fixing them. Accept what you should accept because it's natural and you don't have to feel at all about what you can't control. No need to be weak. your appearance You don't have to be discouraged by all the criticism about your body. Just accept it with a smile. "Yes...it's not your fault because you were born that way" just think like that.
4) You don't have to please everyone.
Live with your mind. I mean, when you're building for yourself, you're going to get all the criticism. It's a personal preference and you'll go crazy if you follow everyone's preferences. If you understand it for your life. There is no need to explain to others to understand. "Hey...you're dark skinned too, Henin and this jacket don't go well. This color doesn't go well with you." Etc. I put in my head everything that others say, and I don't wear it because it doesn't go with this shirt, but someone else says something else. So you're trying to please everyone and you're doing nothing with your life. You won't have time to do the things you love. Your life is yours, so don't let it end in someone else's mouth.
It's important to be able to do the work you love. Everyone's values are different. Just like everyone's preferences are different. My favorites I forget what I love and like others. What is the meaning of life because I live with others? Then just live according to your own mind. Don't hurt others. If you criticize what you should improve to improve your life, accept it and improve it. It's just to improve your life. It's not like that....If you even think about yourself, remove the words and criticisms that make you depressed from your head. Don't worry about things you can't control.
5) The important thing is to build yourself up.
It is important to understand that point. No matter who criticizes, Do others know more about you than you do? Just think about what you are doing with your life. That is important. Don't waste time on a word that critics say without purpose. What should you do for your goals? What else should I do? What else should you try? If you think too much for yourself, you won't have time to listen to others. There is no time for people who are trying to build their lives according to the plan of what they want to do.
Don't try to correct the critics either. Criticism is natural and you will face it throughout your life. Change your perspective on criticizing yourself. That will improve you throughout your life. #BAWA101"
Almost everyone in this world has experienced criticism. Only those who have done it. You can treat others in a good or bad way. in a bad way whether intended or not. I may have been criticized either unintentionally or not. At the end of the day, you will be criticized without even knowing it. That's why if you see someone who criticizes you, accept it. It puts you at ease.
2) should be accepted; Remove what should not be accepted.
When criticizing, don't feel sorry for what you can't fix or for what you didn't do wrong. Remove it from your thoughts. Don't lie to yourself if your mistakes are real or if you really need to fix them. Accept such criticism. Fix it. For example. If you have to attend a course once you get home from work, it's already dark when you get home. In such a situation, those around you will criticize you. I don't know what I'm doing... what are the boys saying about the course... what's that? The criticism is that you are late because you are actually taking a course for a path that is necessary for your life. They're not really wrong in saying what they think, so you take them out. You don't need to put what you think of me in your brain. Because you are actually building your life. You are striving for your growth. Being criticized like that, I can't fix their mouths. I'm talking with my thoughts, so just wait for time to prove it. Cultivate yourself. You remove their criticism.
For example. Your course teacher will say, “Are you not doing your homework? Bad grades..." In this way, I want to be good to you, If you don't really study, put those words in your brain to correct yourself.
That's why you shouldn't accept it, Accept what you should accept.
3) Don't worry about things you can't control.
For example. You look bad too, There is no need to pay attention if the meat is criticized. If you only focus on fixing them, you won't even finish fixing them. Accept what you should accept because it's natural and you don't have to feel at all about what you can't control. No need to be weak. your appearance You don't have to be discouraged by all the criticism about your body. Just accept it with a smile. "Yes...it's not your fault because you were born that way" just think like that.
4) You don't have to please everyone.
Live with your mind. I mean, when you're building for yourself, you're going to get all the criticism. It's a personal preference and you'll go crazy if you follow everyone's preferences. If you understand it for your life. There is no need to explain to others to understand. "Hey...you're dark skinned too, Henin and this jacket don't go well. This color doesn't go well with you." Etc. I put in my head everything that others say, and I don't wear it because it doesn't go with this shirt, but someone else says something else. So you're trying to please everyone and you're doing nothing with your life. You won't have time to do the things you love. Your life is yours, so don't let it end in someone else's mouth.
It's important to be able to do the work you love. Everyone's values are different. Just like everyone's preferences are different. My favorites I forget what I love and like others. What is the meaning of life because I live with others? Then just live according to your own mind. Don't hurt others. If you criticize what you should improve to improve your life, accept it and improve it. It's just to improve your life. It's not like that....If you even think about yourself, remove the words and criticisms that make you depressed from your head. Don't worry about things you can't control.
5) The important thing is to build yourself up.
It is important to understand that point. No matter who criticizes, Do others know more about you than you do? Just think about what you are doing with your life. That is important. Don't waste time on a word that critics say without purpose. What should you do for your goals? What else should I do? What else should you try? If you think too much for yourself, you won't have time to listen to others. There is no time for people who are trying to build their lives according to the plan of what they want to do.
Don't try to correct the critics either. Criticism is natural and you will face it throughout your life. Change your perspective on criticizing yourself. That will improve you throughout your life. #BAWA101"
