Compete against yourself.
"I want that kind of salary myself, They don't really think that they have to try to be as talented...
"I want that kind of salary myself, They don't really think that they have to try to be as talented as him. In fact, when you see that someone else has a skill that is superior to yours, you should ask yourself the truth. The other person is better than you because of his skills. Only if you can improve your own skills will your life improve. You can't improve your skills just by looking at others. In the same way... looking at the other person and thinking, "I have to.... He must have someone to help him from behind." Just wasting your time. The point is that others progress only because of their efforts. (How to try depends on the person's thinking and behavior)
Your lack of progress is because you are not trying to improve your skills. Competing with yourself is more important and more beneficial to your life than competing with others. Competing with others can burn you out and lead to jealousy. Rather than comparing with other people, I have more knowledge today than I did yesterday. Either knowledge or It is important to improve any skill. Only by improving a little bit a day will you become full of skills in a certain time. The more your skills improve, the higher your life will be. The more I don't get the support of others, the more I spend more time than others. You have to try twice as hard. The more you want to reach the next level in your life, the more you need to improve your skills. Even if a person with no skills reaches the next higher level, he will quickly fall back because his skills are not worth the level.
For example. When you apply for a job after graduation, if your salary is only 1.5 lakh because you have no work experience, after about five years your salary cannot be 1.5 lakh. You need to be an expert somewhere. You will have to compete to have the skills you need until you become a teacher somewhere. In order to get a salary of 500,000 from a salary of 150,000, you should take a course in between. I will try to get more work experience, If you study to become more skilled at work, you will definitely get a higher position in time. To reach such a higher place, you need to compete only with yourself, not with anyone else. Not so. After graduating, the salary was one and a half hundred thousand. If you work for 6 months and apply for another job that pays 200,000 in the same position, you will get a salary of 200,000. What I want to say is that at one point in time, if you don't try to improve your skills and follow other people's salary, you won't be able to get it if it's not worth your skills.
Not looking to others for self-support takes away the time to do what you should be doing for yourself. Be sure of your own situation. Accept the truth and try. After graduation, if I am still not proficient in computers for about 6 months, and when I get a job, if I become proficient in computers, then my skills have improved. From there, if you learn to speak and write more in English, your skills will improve. Compete with yourself to improve yourself from your situation.
Everyone's situation is different, so the effort may not be the same and the result may not be the same. As the light of the sun and the time when the sun is shining, The moon can shine when its time comes. "Don't compare yourself with others. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They both shine when it is their time.” It shines in its time. It is impossible to go and compare different things. The main thing is your effort
Keep it high. Always remind yourself to be better tomorrow than today. Keep in mind that because the onset is different, the onset may not be the same. The goal cannot be different. Focus on achieving your goals before it's too late. When you compare your life to others, you start to feel helpless. After that, you will become humble, Self-confidence will be weak. Then you will be powerless to do what you should be doing. Time is running out. People become small and can't do what you can do. The more others leave, the more you are left behind. "Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” – As Lou Holtz said. Knowing what you can do is ability, and motivation is what makes you decide what to do. How much you do depends on your attitude. You need to know what you can do. What others can do is other people's business. If you want to be better today than you were yesterday, you need to know what you can do. When you know what you can do, you are motivated and confident that you can succeed. It is your mindset to make the decision to make it to the end whenever you face failure. Only then will you be successful in the path you are on. Life is only 10% what you think it is, and the other 90% depends on how you react to the 10% that happens.
Therefore, know your current situation. Know what you can do. Compete against yourself and do the best you can, depending on the situation. Try to do your best and compete only with "I have to be better today than I was yesterday". I encourage you to be successful in your place at some point.
Your lack of progress is because you are not trying to improve your skills. Competing with yourself is more important and more beneficial to your life than competing with others. Competing with others can burn you out and lead to jealousy. Rather than comparing with other people, I have more knowledge today than I did yesterday. Either knowledge or It is important to improve any skill. Only by improving a little bit a day will you become full of skills in a certain time. The more your skills improve, the higher your life will be. The more I don't get the support of others, the more I spend more time than others. You have to try twice as hard. The more you want to reach the next level in your life, the more you need to improve your skills. Even if a person with no skills reaches the next higher level, he will quickly fall back because his skills are not worth the level.
For example. When you apply for a job after graduation, if your salary is only 1.5 lakh because you have no work experience, after about five years your salary cannot be 1.5 lakh. You need to be an expert somewhere. You will have to compete to have the skills you need until you become a teacher somewhere. In order to get a salary of 500,000 from a salary of 150,000, you should take a course in between. I will try to get more work experience, If you study to become more skilled at work, you will definitely get a higher position in time. To reach such a higher place, you need to compete only with yourself, not with anyone else. Not so. After graduating, the salary was one and a half hundred thousand. If you work for 6 months and apply for another job that pays 200,000 in the same position, you will get a salary of 200,000. What I want to say is that at one point in time, if you don't try to improve your skills and follow other people's salary, you won't be able to get it if it's not worth your skills.
Not looking to others for self-support takes away the time to do what you should be doing for yourself. Be sure of your own situation. Accept the truth and try. After graduation, if I am still not proficient in computers for about 6 months, and when I get a job, if I become proficient in computers, then my skills have improved. From there, if you learn to speak and write more in English, your skills will improve. Compete with yourself to improve yourself from your situation.
Everyone's situation is different, so the effort may not be the same and the result may not be the same. As the light of the sun and the time when the sun is shining, The moon can shine when its time comes. "Don't compare yourself with others. There is no comparison between the sun and the moon. They both shine when it is their time.” It shines in its time. It is impossible to go and compare different things. The main thing is your effort
Keep it high. Always remind yourself to be better tomorrow than today. Keep in mind that because the onset is different, the onset may not be the same. The goal cannot be different. Focus on achieving your goals before it's too late. When you compare your life to others, you start to feel helpless. After that, you will become humble, Self-confidence will be weak. Then you will be powerless to do what you should be doing. Time is running out. People become small and can't do what you can do. The more others leave, the more you are left behind. "Ability is what you're capable of doing. Motivation determines what you do. Attitude determines how well you do it.” – As Lou Holtz said. Knowing what you can do is ability, and motivation is what makes you decide what to do. How much you do depends on your attitude. You need to know what you can do. What others can do is other people's business. If you want to be better today than you were yesterday, you need to know what you can do. When you know what you can do, you are motivated and confident that you can succeed. It is your mindset to make the decision to make it to the end whenever you face failure. Only then will you be successful in the path you are on. Life is only 10% what you think it is, and the other 90% depends on how you react to the 10% that happens.
Therefore, know your current situation. Know what you can do. Compete against yourself and do the best you can, depending on the situation. Try to do your best and compete only with "I have to be better today than I was yesterday". I encourage you to be successful in your place at some point.