Don't try to change someone other than yourself. Your generosity is free for someone who doesn't want to reform themselves. Instead, adjust yourself.
Usually, girls make the mistake of thinking that they can change their boyfriend or spouse. That's w...
Usually, girls make the mistake of thinking that they can change their boyfriend or spouse. That's why we have to quit smoking. You can't eat beetroot, They give prohibitions about not drinking alcohol. For that reason, when you partner with a person, you should decide after considering whether you can accept the other person's instincts.
In fact, there is no way to improve a person who is not willing to improve himself. For a person, it is impossible for someone else to correct something that he has accepted and is not comfortable with, but only if he is willing to correct it himself. As the saying goes, "If you can't change it, change your attitude." If you can't fix it, just change your perspective. "Can't he be fixed?" kind of view.
Like moths. Whether the moths add to the fire because they don't know it's hot, Whether it is increased by a certain date, I can't stop the moth like "it's fire, it's hot, so don't add to the fire." That's the concept. Some people are like moths. I will spend my time trying to fix him, Your confusion will increase, The concern for him will increase, It frees up time so that you can't even do things that really need to be done for yourself.
Similar concept. Some young children have been left home to attend training. But I just finished the course, No matter how much the parents want it to happen, It is because the subject himself is not active and trying to be active on this thing. In other words, no matter how much money you spend, If you don't want to be yourself, if you don't want to improve, nothing will happen. I think you've heard the story of the alcoholic who got a pot. When the alcoholic's father died, he was the caretaker. After seeing his son's life as an alcoholic, his displeased father, Ruk Soenat, threw a pot of gold near his tree that the alcoholic might want. Then the drunkard got the pot of gold and happily started drinking. Enjoyed hanging out with his fellow alcoholics, Everything you want is taken from the jar. With the help of the gold pot that he wanted in his life, he drank to excess with the mind that he didn't need anything in this life.
That's why they say that some people can't be saved. Even they themselves should try for them. If they don't know how to fix it, no other kind of power can create it for them.
That's why people go to the hospital and die from drinking alcohol. People who go to the hospital and stop taking medicine, but then turn back to being a doctor, are laughing at people. If you have ever tried to fix someone in your life, do you think that person is willing to fix themselves? We still need some time to see if we are sure. Sometimes, even if Indra comes down and reforms, some people will have to accept that they can't get it.
Instead, it is best not to correct those who cannot be corrected, but to look at them and learn from them.
In fact, there is no way to improve a person who is not willing to improve himself. For a person, it is impossible for someone else to correct something that he has accepted and is not comfortable with, but only if he is willing to correct it himself. As the saying goes, "If you can't change it, change your attitude." If you can't fix it, just change your perspective. "Can't he be fixed?" kind of view.
Like moths. Whether the moths add to the fire because they don't know it's hot, Whether it is increased by a certain date, I can't stop the moth like "it's fire, it's hot, so don't add to the fire." That's the concept. Some people are like moths. I will spend my time trying to fix him, Your confusion will increase, The concern for him will increase, It frees up time so that you can't even do things that really need to be done for yourself.
Similar concept. Some young children have been left home to attend training. But I just finished the course, No matter how much the parents want it to happen, It is because the subject himself is not active and trying to be active on this thing. In other words, no matter how much money you spend, If you don't want to be yourself, if you don't want to improve, nothing will happen. I think you've heard the story of the alcoholic who got a pot. When the alcoholic's father died, he was the caretaker. After seeing his son's life as an alcoholic, his displeased father, Ruk Soenat, threw a pot of gold near his tree that the alcoholic might want. Then the drunkard got the pot of gold and happily started drinking. Enjoyed hanging out with his fellow alcoholics, Everything you want is taken from the jar. With the help of the gold pot that he wanted in his life, he drank to excess with the mind that he didn't need anything in this life.
That's why they say that some people can't be saved. Even they themselves should try for them. If they don't know how to fix it, no other kind of power can create it for them.
That's why people go to the hospital and die from drinking alcohol. People who go to the hospital and stop taking medicine, but then turn back to being a doctor, are laughing at people. If you have ever tried to fix someone in your life, do you think that person is willing to fix themselves? We still need some time to see if we are sure. Sometimes, even if Indra comes down and reforms, some people will have to accept that they can't get it.
Instead, it is best not to correct those who cannot be corrected, but to look at them and learn from them.