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Tell the children the truth.
"From the age of moderate understanding, you should explain the truth to the child, choosing the wor...
"From the age of moderate understanding, you should explain the truth to the child, choosing the words that the child will understand and tell the truth. Explaining the negative effects of the child that the child does not know yet, as if the child understands, means that the child does not have to lie again and again.
Every time I go out, I cry because I want a toy. If you are a child, you should negotiate with your child before you leave the house. That's why I only have money to buy food. I don't have money to buy toys, You know, if you don't have money, you can't buy a toy found on the street. "I'm not going to buy a toy for any reason, so I'll go with mom to make sure the toy isn't hot," is more effective.
Many parents tend to do it automatically when their child is screaming and crying on the street. It is like indirectly teaching the child that "If you cry for what you want, you will get it..." The child's ji, The parent, who couldn't stand the crying and ranting, started as usual, "If you feel comfortable..." Thoughtful behavior often affects children when they grow up. In what kind of place, when you are an adult and ask for what you want... If you can give what you want, there is no problem, but there are still times when you can't give it. At such a time, children and parents start to be in opposition.
If you don't get what you want from a young age, you may cry and be calm. When parents think that they can do it because they can, parents always give, who can feed As a person who can follow his will, he always wants from his parents. That's why when you ask for something you want, you need to carefully explain the benefit and tell the truth. A child who thinks that crying is the only way to know whether or not there is money in the parents' wallet since childhood, will not understand the parent's plight. That's why you want it from a young age, so tell your child the truth, even if you cry and rage. "Mom doesn't have extra money... If you don't have money, you can't buy it. I'm not saying I won't buy it...If I can wait a while, I'll buy it....” such as "Yes, how many dolls do you want? If you buy a lot, you will spend a lot of money. Then choose the one you want out of many, I will buy the one that my son wants the most.
Another thing is that because of the habit of telling the truth to the child, the child will also become a truth teller. A parent who thinks that the child doesn't understand and tells a lie about something as small as nothing can make the child become a child who also lies. For example. If the child cries because she can't go when mom goes to work, she says, "Mommy, I'm going to buy a lot of bread." I'll be back in a little while," he lied. The child is still young and doesn't understand anything yet, without telling people to explain it. An easy lie will leave your child in the mind the next day when you go to work and repeat the above words, and the child will no longer believe you. Then it becomes more difficult to control the child.
"Mother and daughter have to work so that they can buy as many breads as they like. When I get paid for working, I can buy my daughter what she likes. But only adults have to work, so if the child does it, the mother will be fat. That's why you don't have to work and you don't get wages. My daughter likes it and I can't buy it anymore. I'll be back after work tonight. Yes? When you explain in such a way that a child can understand, the child can no longer look forward to you knowing that you will return in the evening. In the evening, when you buy something that the child likes (not expensive but enough for the child to like), if you go to work the next day, the child won't do it. (But I will always go to work as a compromise system... Don't always do it like I will buy bread in return, it can become a habit)
Some parents do everything to express their love for their children, so that they don't have to make their children blush, and they don't reveal the true situation of their parents. Not telling a child the truth about their parents' situation is the same as drowning them in the mud without loving them.
The situation cannot always be constant. It is not easy to think that just as parents can fulfill everything their children want when they are young, they will also fulfill everything when their children grow up. It is important to teach children to understand the truth about life from the very beginning. A child who thinks that life is always easy, as if it is always arranged by parents, will not be comfortable to face the difficulties of life.
There is a difference between a child who loves his child and wants everything to be easy and does not understand the difficulty of life, and a child who understands that nothing is easy. Even as an adult, you will think that you have to ask your parents for everything you want, just like when you were a child. The last parent did not open up to the child about the real economy of the corrupt home, but provided everything the child needed, and when the economy of the last home was destroyed, the child could not stand on his own feet. There will be many things in the environment that become spoiled children.
Some parents often say, "I'm afraid my children will be miserable if they find out." Knowing the truth, life can try to stand on its own, Think about how to stand. If he can think early and try early, he can move on with his life before it's too late.
That's why we don't want our children easily from childhood. Know about life What should be told the truth, don't keep saying "because of love...for fear of suffering" with unsubstantiated reasons.
When parents lie to their children from a young age, the child can become a child who lies easily. Telling and teaching the truth, even in small things, makes the child trust you more. (The belief that you have never lied to him) When you believe that, it can become easier to control the child. The child will not lie to you anymore.
Urgent advice on the economy of the house, let me know, Tell me the truth. That's why we teach children about life from a young age. anxiety Movement and struggle Tell me the truth about your efforts. That way, when the child becomes an adult, he will learn that self-effort is important in order to stand up in life. #BAWA101"
Every time I go out, I cry because I want a toy. If you are a child, you should negotiate with your child before you leave the house. That's why I only have money to buy food. I don't have money to buy toys, You know, if you don't have money, you can't buy a toy found on the street. "I'm not going to buy a toy for any reason, so I'll go with mom to make sure the toy isn't hot," is more effective.
Many parents tend to do it automatically when their child is screaming and crying on the street. It is like indirectly teaching the child that "If you cry for what you want, you will get it..." The child's ji, The parent, who couldn't stand the crying and ranting, started as usual, "If you feel comfortable..." Thoughtful behavior often affects children when they grow up. In what kind of place, when you are an adult and ask for what you want... If you can give what you want, there is no problem, but there are still times when you can't give it. At such a time, children and parents start to be in opposition.
If you don't get what you want from a young age, you may cry and be calm. When parents think that they can do it because they can, parents always give, who can feed As a person who can follow his will, he always wants from his parents. That's why when you ask for something you want, you need to carefully explain the benefit and tell the truth. A child who thinks that crying is the only way to know whether or not there is money in the parents' wallet since childhood, will not understand the parent's plight. That's why you want it from a young age, so tell your child the truth, even if you cry and rage. "Mom doesn't have extra money... If you don't have money, you can't buy it. I'm not saying I won't buy it...If I can wait a while, I'll buy it....” such as "Yes, how many dolls do you want? If you buy a lot, you will spend a lot of money. Then choose the one you want out of many, I will buy the one that my son wants the most.
Another thing is that because of the habit of telling the truth to the child, the child will also become a truth teller. A parent who thinks that the child doesn't understand and tells a lie about something as small as nothing can make the child become a child who also lies. For example. If the child cries because she can't go when mom goes to work, she says, "Mommy, I'm going to buy a lot of bread." I'll be back in a little while," he lied. The child is still young and doesn't understand anything yet, without telling people to explain it. An easy lie will leave your child in the mind the next day when you go to work and repeat the above words, and the child will no longer believe you. Then it becomes more difficult to control the child.
"Mother and daughter have to work so that they can buy as many breads as they like. When I get paid for working, I can buy my daughter what she likes. But only adults have to work, so if the child does it, the mother will be fat. That's why you don't have to work and you don't get wages. My daughter likes it and I can't buy it anymore. I'll be back after work tonight. Yes? When you explain in such a way that a child can understand, the child can no longer look forward to you knowing that you will return in the evening. In the evening, when you buy something that the child likes (not expensive but enough for the child to like), if you go to work the next day, the child won't do it. (But I will always go to work as a compromise system... Don't always do it like I will buy bread in return, it can become a habit)
Some parents do everything to express their love for their children, so that they don't have to make their children blush, and they don't reveal the true situation of their parents. Not telling a child the truth about their parents' situation is the same as drowning them in the mud without loving them.
The situation cannot always be constant. It is not easy to think that just as parents can fulfill everything their children want when they are young, they will also fulfill everything when their children grow up. It is important to teach children to understand the truth about life from the very beginning. A child who thinks that life is always easy, as if it is always arranged by parents, will not be comfortable to face the difficulties of life.
There is a difference between a child who loves his child and wants everything to be easy and does not understand the difficulty of life, and a child who understands that nothing is easy. Even as an adult, you will think that you have to ask your parents for everything you want, just like when you were a child. The last parent did not open up to the child about the real economy of the corrupt home, but provided everything the child needed, and when the economy of the last home was destroyed, the child could not stand on his own feet. There will be many things in the environment that become spoiled children.
Some parents often say, "I'm afraid my children will be miserable if they find out." Knowing the truth, life can try to stand on its own, Think about how to stand. If he can think early and try early, he can move on with his life before it's too late.
That's why we don't want our children easily from childhood. Know about life What should be told the truth, don't keep saying "because of love...for fear of suffering" with unsubstantiated reasons.
When parents lie to their children from a young age, the child can become a child who lies easily. Telling and teaching the truth, even in small things, makes the child trust you more. (The belief that you have never lied to him) When you believe that, it can become easier to control the child. The child will not lie to you anymore.
Urgent advice on the economy of the house, let me know, Tell me the truth. That's why we teach children about life from a young age. anxiety Movement and struggle Tell me the truth about your efforts. That way, when the child becomes an adult, he will learn that self-effort is important in order to stand up in life. #BAWA101"
