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Do you love the child? Two?
"Actually, it is important for a child to be fully loved. But it is necessary to know how to love. I...
"Actually, it is important for a child to be fully loved. But it is necessary to know how to love. In other words, showing love to the child, treating the child with kindness, correcting the child's mistakes, developing the child's intelligence as a foundation from birth to 5 years, in addition to taking care of the child's self-confidence, making him/her mentally and physically healthy In order to not be a burden, to be a good person, to have good social relations Before a child can take responsibility for themselves, under the age of four, the mother needs to do everything.
After the child is four years old, to ask him to do things that he can do by himself. As much as he understands, he should be taught to be able to do it. For example. If the child is between 4 and 5 years old, bed sheets, sleeping, helping to prepare meals, and so on.
Ask them to take responsibility for their own small tasks. For example. Asking the child to put the plate that the child has already eaten on the basin. Asking them to help collect the round of rice, Respect the child's decision rather than letting the child decide and follow the parent's decision. If the child's decision makes a mistake, tell the parent to learn from it. Let the child know the consequences of mistakes. Then he will try to correct the mistake himself. For example. After bathing, the child puts on the clothes he likes from the wardrobe. She didn't ask me to wear it, but that jacket was hot. It's kind of like wearing what the child chooses without saying anything. Soon he no longer wears it; Wait for it to reach the condition that it will be given. Only when he asked, "Yes, this jacket is hot. Next time when it's hot in the sun, you can teach it by saying, "Did you understand that you can't wear this kind of shirt?"
I want the child, When a child asks for something, it's not love, it's not love, it's not love. In addition to that, the child is not blamed for something. Children's mistakes, "I don't know because I'm a child..." You should not do anything to protect the child with the thought. In fact, you have to tell and explain to the child so that he can understand and correct the child's mistake. Over-loving and following along in everything makes the child a person who cannot take responsibility for himself. In addition to that, over-protection can make a child an immature child. You can become a bully anywhere.
That's why let the child make mistakes. Guide the child's mistakes to be true and tell them rationally. Don't ignore the saying, "I'm just a child, I don't know..." Please correct it. If the child does not know yet, teach him to know the truth. I can't because I just want my child to be a prefect. It's just a child's mistake. Just correct it. There will be fewer mistakes.
He will hurt the child by pretending to love the child. in defeat Worrying about what the child will be afraid of and doing everything for the child as a prefect parent makes the child look like a child rather than love. The child is no longer able to do anything without the parent's decision. Not being able to do anything on my own without my parents' preparation. I decide everything from my parents' point of view, It often happens that there is no personal decision. When such children reach adulthood, they may face more ambivalent problems in their lives."
After the child is four years old, to ask him to do things that he can do by himself. As much as he understands, he should be taught to be able to do it. For example. If the child is between 4 and 5 years old, bed sheets, sleeping, helping to prepare meals, and so on.
Ask them to take responsibility for their own small tasks. For example. Asking the child to put the plate that the child has already eaten on the basin. Asking them to help collect the round of rice, Respect the child's decision rather than letting the child decide and follow the parent's decision. If the child's decision makes a mistake, tell the parent to learn from it. Let the child know the consequences of mistakes. Then he will try to correct the mistake himself. For example. After bathing, the child puts on the clothes he likes from the wardrobe. She didn't ask me to wear it, but that jacket was hot. It's kind of like wearing what the child chooses without saying anything. Soon he no longer wears it; Wait for it to reach the condition that it will be given. Only when he asked, "Yes, this jacket is hot. Next time when it's hot in the sun, you can teach it by saying, "Did you understand that you can't wear this kind of shirt?"
I want the child, When a child asks for something, it's not love, it's not love, it's not love. In addition to that, the child is not blamed for something. Children's mistakes, "I don't know because I'm a child..." You should not do anything to protect the child with the thought. In fact, you have to tell and explain to the child so that he can understand and correct the child's mistake. Over-loving and following along in everything makes the child a person who cannot take responsibility for himself. In addition to that, over-protection can make a child an immature child. You can become a bully anywhere.
That's why let the child make mistakes. Guide the child's mistakes to be true and tell them rationally. Don't ignore the saying, "I'm just a child, I don't know..." Please correct it. If the child does not know yet, teach him to know the truth. I can't because I just want my child to be a prefect. It's just a child's mistake. Just correct it. There will be fewer mistakes.
He will hurt the child by pretending to love the child. in defeat Worrying about what the child will be afraid of and doing everything for the child as a prefect parent makes the child look like a child rather than love. The child is no longer able to do anything without the parent's decision. Not being able to do anything on my own without my parents' preparation. I decide everything from my parents' point of view, It often happens that there is no personal decision. When such children reach adulthood, they may face more ambivalent problems in their lives."
