Try to accept it as it is, Or drop it. It is also a kind of pity for you.
From not accepting the situation that life has given me as it is, to not accepting another person's...
From not accepting the situation that life has given me as it is, to not accepting another person's behavior and instincts as they are, nothing makes me unhappy.
For example. You are black, Too fat. You can't accept that. But those things are actually happening to you. Then you will want your skin to be more beautiful, I want more, You think you are not beautiful, etc. along with the emotions, stress along with dissatisfaction because you can't accept yourself. You are full of unhappiness and you are going to be miserable. This starts with not accepting yourself.
Similarly. You can feel the same way when you can't accept another person for who they are. For example, You want your lover to be more, I want to be more clear-headed, I don't want you to be more impatient, but if your boyfriend isn't what you want him to be, you have to become impatient with him. From there, when he doesn't fix what you want to fix, you will feel dissatisfaction in your heart.
This is because you cannot accept your lover as he is.
That's why some places need to accept it as it is. When you can't accept it as it is, your own dissatisfaction dominates your mind and you often feel uneasy. Sometimes, in some places, there are situations where it is impossible to accept it as it is. For example, I know myself that I have a habit of procrastinating, If you accept it as it is when you know you need to fix it, it can become a hindrance in your life's progress. That's the kind of thing that you should try to fix yourself. If your lover is a doctor, if you are not married yet, you cannot think that you love him so much that you will accept him as he is. It can affect your life a lot. That's why you should leave such a lover.
Similar issues, especially issues that will greatly affect your life, should be abandoned when you cannot accept them as they are. Accept what you should accept as it is and move on. If you can't accept it as it is, it's best to let it go. Otherwise, it cannot be accepted as it is. As time goes by, it becomes difficult to let go and you may end up hurting yourself.
That's why you need to learn to accept some things in life as they are, and when you don't accept some things as they are, giving up is only self-indulgence.
For example. You are black, Too fat. You can't accept that. But those things are actually happening to you. Then you will want your skin to be more beautiful, I want more, You think you are not beautiful, etc. along with the emotions, stress along with dissatisfaction because you can't accept yourself. You are full of unhappiness and you are going to be miserable. This starts with not accepting yourself.
Similarly. You can feel the same way when you can't accept another person for who they are. For example, You want your lover to be more, I want to be more clear-headed, I don't want you to be more impatient, but if your boyfriend isn't what you want him to be, you have to become impatient with him. From there, when he doesn't fix what you want to fix, you will feel dissatisfaction in your heart.
This is because you cannot accept your lover as he is.
That's why some places need to accept it as it is. When you can't accept it as it is, your own dissatisfaction dominates your mind and you often feel uneasy. Sometimes, in some places, there are situations where it is impossible to accept it as it is. For example, I know myself that I have a habit of procrastinating, If you accept it as it is when you know you need to fix it, it can become a hindrance in your life's progress. That's the kind of thing that you should try to fix yourself. If your lover is a doctor, if you are not married yet, you cannot think that you love him so much that you will accept him as he is. It can affect your life a lot. That's why you should leave such a lover.
Similar issues, especially issues that will greatly affect your life, should be abandoned when you cannot accept them as they are. Accept what you should accept as it is and move on. If you can't accept it as it is, it's best to let it go. Otherwise, it cannot be accepted as it is. As time goes by, it becomes difficult to let go and you may end up hurting yourself.
That's why you need to learn to accept some things in life as they are, and when you don't accept some things as they are, giving up is only self-indulgence.