Accept it as it is and let it be a pair of hands that will stay together

But life is not like a movie. It is also impossible to give the end of the story as you want, like i...


But life is not like a movie. It is also impossible to give the end of the story as you want, like in the service. Two people from different families, Two people with different ways of going through life, When two people with different personalities get together, they start to face problems in their dating life. The person I love doesn't have the ability as I thought, There are unexpected mistakes, I love him, but when I get to know him more and more, I love him, and when I get to know him, he has all kinds of problems, such as things that don't match his behavior. In fact, love is gentle and tender in its own right. But people's different ideas, concepts, life conditions, When some things like honesty and pretense get mixed up, love starts to get complicated like garbage.
Being able to accept one's weakness in love is also very important. When both are sure that they can accept their differences, the love between the two people is stronger.

For example. A girl has to handle household chores, but the person she loves can't cook anything. If he doesn't know how to cook, I will make sure to teach him how to cook. On the other hand, if the girl has the attitude that she will try her best to fix her weakness of not being able to handle household chores for her lover, it will make both of them comfortable.
But that's not the case. I want my lover to handle household chores. He can accept his weakness; On the other hand, when he doesn't want to try to fix that weakness at all, the unfairness of compromise starts to interfere with love. Just like that... the girl's side smokes like a boy. I want to fix my drinking. But when the boy can't fix it, the conflict starts.
Love and love, but when two people are able to accept their differences, love is not peaceful but feels more burning. I want it to be the way I want it to be, but the person I love can't fix it. When it can't be perfect, the feeling of not being what you expect makes your love burn.

As Albert Einstein said.
"Men marry women with the hope that they will never change. Women marry men with the hope that they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.” Men marry women assuming they don't change. Women get married thinking men will change. In the end, when things don't go as expected, both parties are disappointed. It can be said that that statement is true for many. Some men's thinking is that women will accept them in their courtship life as well as when they get married
But women also get married with the mindset that men's behavior in courting life will be corrected when they get married. When they are not there, they will face all kinds of problems.
That's why some lovers say, "No matter what happened before, was bad If it's not bad in my hand, I'll get it." They say hopeful words.
In the same way... I will accept the weaknesses of the person I love as they are. The weaknesses of both sides, A pair of hands that are joined together with the mindset that they know each other's mistakes and will work together to correct each other tend to stick together more.

I personally lust after his superficial beauty. Lust for his parents' honor, If you are loving with lustful love because of superficial appearances such as lusting after his prosperity, then when the superficial appearances end, your love will also come to an end.
Nowhere can you find a complete fairy tale like Cinderella. Especially understanding each other's weaknesses and correcting mistakes together. As long as we have the basic mindset that we will fight life together, it is almost perfect.
That's why we can accept each other's weaknesses, It's impossible to be perfect, but if we try to make each other perfect for a pair of hands together as much as possible, the relationship can become more comfortable.
I have described as much as I can distinguish.

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