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What kind of selfish love is it?
But even in 1500 love, mutual understanding and trust will be built back and forth. I will correct e...
But even in 1500 love, mutual understanding and trust will be built back and forth. I will correct each mistake, If we are two different people and understand each other in the direction of peace and tranquility, the understanding will ease the burning sensation between us. If not, the relationship between two different people will only be dominated by burning feelings. The reason for such hot tempers is that the ego dominates. If one of the two different people is egotistical, the relationship cannot last long. That's why, if there are any behaviors that show selfish love, I will show you how to correct them.
1) Making everything follow his own decision
Even if they decide to choose something, they don't let the subject make a decision of their own free will. Let him choose only what he likes. Wanting to do everything according to one's own wishes is sometimes not obvious, but no one can like to always put their own wishes behind and always prioritize the wishes of the other person. Anywhere, only fair consideration will strengthen mutual love.
2) Always wanting to be prioritized
Usually, egoistic people always want to put themselves first. Sometimes, due to the situation, it is not given priority. If you are faced with a situation where you cannot give priority, you must understand. If you don't want to be prioritized all the time, you should fix yourself.
3) Not giving fair thought anywhere
For example. Knowing your parents is a good thing. In the same way, you will have to understand that your boyfriend also knows his parents. It's not like that, I know my parents and always want to give, but the parents of my boyfriend or spouse can't understand giving and supporting. It's not fair thinking. In some situations, it is also necessary to empathize with your lover or spouse. Whatever the situation, "If I were in his place..." It is also necessary for him to think about his side in a fair way and to understand.
4) Wanting to be accepted as true
There is no one in the world who is always right, There can be no one who is always wrong. But when two different people work together, they have to accept and understand the differences as much as they should. The love of an egoistic person always wants to be accepted as true. He was always right and always wanted to be taken at his word. On the one hand, everything he said was always true. People who don't accept what other people say.
5) want to control Suspicion
No matter what the situation, the people want to listen to him and want to control anything. Where are you?...Where are you?...What are you doing?...What time is it? It's like posting a report over time. It is always unsuspected. In the long run, it is not clear as the perpetrator, but as the victim, it makes him reluctant to do anything. It also reduces self-confidence.
If you are a person with the above habits, it may not be good for you in the long run. Gradually, I will feel like I am losing my own image, and my perception, You can lose confidence in yourself and lose your own decisions. If you have it, you can also describe it so that it can be repaired.
1) Making everything follow his own decision
Even if they decide to choose something, they don't let the subject make a decision of their own free will. Let him choose only what he likes. Wanting to do everything according to one's own wishes is sometimes not obvious, but no one can like to always put their own wishes behind and always prioritize the wishes of the other person. Anywhere, only fair consideration will strengthen mutual love.
2) Always wanting to be prioritized
Usually, egoistic people always want to put themselves first. Sometimes, due to the situation, it is not given priority. If you are faced with a situation where you cannot give priority, you must understand. If you don't want to be prioritized all the time, you should fix yourself.
3) Not giving fair thought anywhere
For example. Knowing your parents is a good thing. In the same way, you will have to understand that your boyfriend also knows his parents. It's not like that, I know my parents and always want to give, but the parents of my boyfriend or spouse can't understand giving and supporting. It's not fair thinking. In some situations, it is also necessary to empathize with your lover or spouse. Whatever the situation, "If I were in his place..." It is also necessary for him to think about his side in a fair way and to understand.
4) Wanting to be accepted as true
There is no one in the world who is always right, There can be no one who is always wrong. But when two different people work together, they have to accept and understand the differences as much as they should. The love of an egoistic person always wants to be accepted as true. He was always right and always wanted to be taken at his word. On the one hand, everything he said was always true. People who don't accept what other people say.
5) want to control Suspicion
No matter what the situation, the people want to listen to him and want to control anything. Where are you?...Where are you?...What are you doing?...What time is it? It's like posting a report over time. It is always unsuspected. In the long run, it is not clear as the perpetrator, but as the victim, it makes him reluctant to do anything. It also reduces self-confidence.
If you are a person with the above habits, it may not be good for you in the long run. Gradually, I will feel like I am losing my own image, and my perception, You can lose confidence in yourself and lose your own decisions. If you have it, you can also describe it so that it can be repaired.
