Marriage is like playing the lottery. Decide whether or not you will win or not, and you only want a sure lottery ticket, but you want to get a lottery ticket that will definitely win. Some people are lucky in the past to find a true partner for their life, but others are unlucky. In that case, there are those who try to improve their family life by correcting their mistakes until they reach a certain age after marriage. But marriage doesn't happen because only one person is willing to correct mistakes. Both sides must be balanced. When both parties are not motivated, a marriage can become toxic over time, just like a toxic marriage. In addition to that, when there are children, the children often become the ones who consume and come into contact with the poison of their parents every day.

Many Burmese women regard divorce as something to be afraid of. In a dysfunctional marriage, even if the man is irresponsible, the woman is encouraged to endure the marriage for the long term. "Children will have different fathers and different mothers...be patient" I often hear the words repeatedly. In addition to that, they still talk about the great ginger saying, "Don't carry the inner fire outside...don't carry the outside fire inside." I don't know who invented it. The women who adhere to that saying will have to face the sins of the head of their household. They don't even dare to open their mouths, let alone correct their mistakes. Besides, I dare not tell you. I dare not ask my husband to fix it either. If you don't want to get a divorce, you have to embrace everything you feel with the words of patience. In that way, the only person who can be trusted is the head of the family. I started to tolerate the mistake. That's why violence like domestic violence, They often feel some of the feelings that are inside themselves without even daring to express them. Some people in Myanmar tend to stay away from other people's domestic affairs. Things you should avoid: There is no need to avoid it, but there are things like domestic violence and daily brutal beatings. Even if the door is closed, no one will enter. Let it go...there is not much reason for them not to get rid of such a toxic marriage for their lives. I'm afraid that my children will end up with a different father and a different mother. The main factor is that the mother has no private income.

Being a single parent can be difficult for a child. But it's still less painful than living in the middle of a fight between two parents who are always unhappy at home. Pain relief is a sharp knife cut in one fell swoop... Telling your child to understand the reason for the divorce will help the child understand the parents because of the situation they see every day. Instead, it is worse for the child to be gradually affected psychologically by the domestic violence they see every day. If it is not possible to move forward with life, breaking up early gives you time to live your life for an exit. Otherwise, I have to take the person who is poison to me for the rest of my life with me like a sidekick. It can also affect the children's mood and affect their mental health. Knowing that it's impossible, breaking up can give you the opportunity to try to live your life on your own.

That's why if you become a parent, your child's emotions, Understand that mental health is important. Having a godfather is good, but if the godfather who is there is hurting the child every day, it is better not to have a godfather. Women are also like trying to win a lottery ticket with no certainty that their spouse will win the lottery, so even after marriage, they should try to achieve something in order to survive in their own lives. Don't let marriage stop you from standing in your life. Being stuck in a toxic marriage is ruining your future and ruining your children's lives. So don't get stuck in a toxic marriage. Try to live life together as a good spouse, Mutual understanding and correction of mistakes. Shaping a better future together. Parents who poison their children's future. Don't let it be a marriage. I don't want a toxic marriage, but if it happens, I urge you not to wear the wrong shoes. #BAWA101