"There are some people who bully each other online without knowing it. Physical injuries can be cured by medical treatment, but mental injuries are difficult to treat because they cannot be seen. It is also difficult to heal. Since the most important thing in a person is the mind, trauma can make life difficult. Whether the trauma is serious or not, children who commit suicide from the mountain, famous and successful Korean actresses and actors who commit suicide. You can see.

At a time when things seem to be progressing like today, the completely unexpected side effect is that they are easily bullied. When I see a different opinion on social media, I will write a little comment, I think it's nothing to be admitted, but from the perspective of the victim, it's like a common person. Experiencing this every day must be painful for the victim. I feel bullied every day. It's not because you can't come in and say if you see something bad. Everyone has a different opinion. People may look alike in appearance, but they cannot be completely identical in mind. Differences between one person's family and community, Differences in feelings Just because of the difference in experience, there may be differences in ideas, The perception can't be different. That's why, even when everything is openly displayed on social networks like today, there will be no people who can be of the same mind as you.
If that is the case, it is impossible to say whether my own point of view is correct. I can't fully say whether someone else's point of view is correct or not. You can't just decide that your opinion is right. If I can accept it, I will accept it openly, If I can't accept it at all, I will positively say that I cannot accept it, I'll hold on to the fact that different people have different attitudes, If it increases knowledge for myself, I will take notes, etc. Isn't it bad that I can take whatever I can get from the positive side? If you don't hurt someone else because of yourself, isn't it bad? I will tell you positively what I cannot accept, I will tell you to understand my own opinion, It won't hurt anyone to listen to the other side's point of view.

Usually, even if they greet each other when they meet each other, they say, "Hey, you've gained a lot of weight." "Your salary is less than mine." "I'm so bad..." "You're never going to be white" "Heh... you're so thin, you're sick" is a way of bullying that hurts the other person. Just like I can't stand it when someone says something that I don't like, I shouldn't say something that would make someone else dislike me. I watched a video the other day. One of my sisters cried and answered that people were still talking about her appearance. His parents are upset because they are still being bullied. ¬¬I wonder even while watching myself. Why are they so easily condemning another person's superficial physical issues? With the advent of social media, it is becoming more and more obvious. Everyone is just interested in being popular. Everyone is free to post whatever they like on their social media. Why would they dare to say that even to the parents and relatives of the other side, as soon as they don't meet their own feelings? If we become a society that talks like that, will we be able to talk to our parents, siblings, and children? Like that, can a society that still easily blames and criticizes each other and says hurtful things be happy?
When I thought about that, I remembered a letter. "Don't give what you don't like to others." Very true words. behavior that I don't like Just like saying things you don't like to yourself, it's more convenient for both of you.

Can't you say that you don't like it by using some beautiful words and making the audience listen? If the other side doesn't get hurt and corrects itself, wouldn't it be good?
We need to try to make criticism as positive as possible. Positive criticism is good for listening to the person who hears it, and as a participant, when the person who is being told has the attitude of "oh....would it be better if I correct this as he said?", the person who is being told will also learn to think less about mistakes. The person who said it is no longer a bully to harm the other side. (For those who don't listen to positive talk, ignoring that person will prevent them from getting angry, so they will first free themselves from being hurt by anger in their own mind.)

That's why if I say a word, is this word correct? Is that helpful? Are you kind to the other person? It is forced to think about whether it is necessary to say something. "If you're insulting people on the Internet, you must be ugly on the inside.” Not on the internet. Also, whether it's in the world or on social media, easily criticizing and bullying another person without knowing for sure shows how ugly you are inside.
"When you judge another, you don't define them, you define yourself."
As Wayne Dyer said. Criticizing another person is not defining that person, but defining yourself first. If you insult another person, don't forget that before that person's reputation falls, your reputation falls first.
That's why the outside world Every behavior on the social network, I urge you to reconsider your use of every speech, as it is easy to bully the other party.
#BAWA101"