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Things you shouldn't open up to others
1) Your salary or income Our monthly income may be too much for us, or too much for others, but not...
1) Your salary or income
Our monthly income may be too much for us, or too much for others, but not enough for us. It's just that all of them are difficult in their own right. But you should not tell the truth about your salary income to people around you. Because even if you tell the truth about your true intentions and salary, the people around you are not sure about the details of your household expenses. They will only remember the income you said. If they think that your income is more than theirs, they will assume that you are too much with your income, and they will ask you for help without understanding that you are comfortable or not. You may also be blamed for not helping them when it's convenient for you. If you think that your income is lower than their income, they will compensate you. You can still learn to behave like you think. Not everyone around you will assume that attitude, but usually it can have negative consequences. That's why no matter how much your income is in your hands, It's best not to say exactly how little.
2) Someone else's secret
Another thing is that you should not reveal something that you know is a secret to others. You should not easily open up to someone else about a matter that you trust. Maybe he confided in you because he believed you to be trustworthy and reliable. That's why you shouldn't tell another person about the person who confided in you. It's just something to watch out for.
3) Your family issues
Your pain, If you open up about your feelings to someone you really trust, you will really feel better. But if you confide in everyone every time you have a problem, everyone will treat you as a constant problem and no one will take you seriously. Especially during a fight, if she says bad things in anger, she opens up, and when she's really cold-blooded, she only reads those words when she's comfortable. In fact, the family's domestic problems should be resolved and discussed among the families. Just confiding in others will not solve the problem. Writing something on social media is just embarrassing yourself. You should ask someone you trust for help only when you are in a situation where it is very difficult to decide on your family's domestic problems.
4) Your property
No matter how little you own, However, you should not share your property with others. Maybe someone around you needs you. Maybe he doesn't need it. You should not reveal anything about your assets or the money in your bank account. In particular, no one but you should know how much money is in your bank account. For yourself, I cannot say with certainty that the current situation will remain the same in the future. That's why you should save up some of your assets, and you shouldn't talk about those assets to anyone except the person concerned.
5) Goals for the future
It is better to work hard and aim only in your mind for what you will do for the future. The future is something that hasn't happened yet, so if you want to be, but try to be, you can become fully. When you tell someone about your intentions, if you have an opportunistic person around you, they may put your future plans on hold for their opportunity and ask for their help. For example. Let's say you tell your friend that you're saving up to buy a car in the future. While you are trying to save money, if your friend is in a situation where he needs money, he knows that you have saved money, so he can come and borrow your money. Even if you help as much as you can, an opportunistic person may even ask you if you should not help when you have a lot of money in your hands.
That's why you don't know everything about the inner thoughts of the people around you, so you open up about your goals for the future, but if the person around you has the wrong mindset, your goals can be ruined.
The points mentioned above are problems that you should solve yourself and only try with your best intentions. You should not open up about your unfulfilled goals, your property, You should not mention your regular income. In addition to that, it was also mentioned that you should not tell someone else about a matter that someone confides in you because they trust you.
Our monthly income may be too much for us, or too much for others, but not enough for us. It's just that all of them are difficult in their own right. But you should not tell the truth about your salary income to people around you. Because even if you tell the truth about your true intentions and salary, the people around you are not sure about the details of your household expenses. They will only remember the income you said. If they think that your income is more than theirs, they will assume that you are too much with your income, and they will ask you for help without understanding that you are comfortable or not. You may also be blamed for not helping them when it's convenient for you. If you think that your income is lower than their income, they will compensate you. You can still learn to behave like you think. Not everyone around you will assume that attitude, but usually it can have negative consequences. That's why no matter how much your income is in your hands, It's best not to say exactly how little.
2) Someone else's secret
Another thing is that you should not reveal something that you know is a secret to others. You should not easily open up to someone else about a matter that you trust. Maybe he confided in you because he believed you to be trustworthy and reliable. That's why you shouldn't tell another person about the person who confided in you. It's just something to watch out for.
3) Your family issues
Your pain, If you open up about your feelings to someone you really trust, you will really feel better. But if you confide in everyone every time you have a problem, everyone will treat you as a constant problem and no one will take you seriously. Especially during a fight, if she says bad things in anger, she opens up, and when she's really cold-blooded, she only reads those words when she's comfortable. In fact, the family's domestic problems should be resolved and discussed among the families. Just confiding in others will not solve the problem. Writing something on social media is just embarrassing yourself. You should ask someone you trust for help only when you are in a situation where it is very difficult to decide on your family's domestic problems.
4) Your property
No matter how little you own, However, you should not share your property with others. Maybe someone around you needs you. Maybe he doesn't need it. You should not reveal anything about your assets or the money in your bank account. In particular, no one but you should know how much money is in your bank account. For yourself, I cannot say with certainty that the current situation will remain the same in the future. That's why you should save up some of your assets, and you shouldn't talk about those assets to anyone except the person concerned.
5) Goals for the future
It is better to work hard and aim only in your mind for what you will do for the future. The future is something that hasn't happened yet, so if you want to be, but try to be, you can become fully. When you tell someone about your intentions, if you have an opportunistic person around you, they may put your future plans on hold for their opportunity and ask for their help. For example. Let's say you tell your friend that you're saving up to buy a car in the future. While you are trying to save money, if your friend is in a situation where he needs money, he knows that you have saved money, so he can come and borrow your money. Even if you help as much as you can, an opportunistic person may even ask you if you should not help when you have a lot of money in your hands.
That's why you don't know everything about the inner thoughts of the people around you, so you open up about your goals for the future, but if the person around you has the wrong mindset, your goals can be ruined.
The points mentioned above are problems that you should solve yourself and only try with your best intentions. You should not open up about your unfulfilled goals, your property, You should not mention your regular income. In addition to that, it was also mentioned that you should not tell someone else about a matter that someone confides in you because they trust you.
