The difference between love and marriage
"In young life, we usually cling to a little love and fall in love madly. When we reach middle age,...
"In young life, we usually cling to a little love and fall in love madly. When we reach middle age, we can assume that we usually have a stable and thoughtful side. Another common illusion is love with lust and love with love. In the autobiographical book "Retracing the Past" by Grand Master Patti Khin, I would like to explain how Grand Master analyzed love. Love and lust are similar I have been told that it often happens.
“Lust is excitement. I am enthusiastic. But love is not peaceful. I want to dominate. I want control. I doubt it. Love is based on comradeship and understanding. No doubt. The other side's imperfections can be accepted as they are. It can be seen with forgiveness. Strong foundation.
Not a flickering fire like passion. Like a little plant with roots and growing slowly, Because it is real, it is full of energy. Be near There is no difference because of the distance. Even though we are not together, the energy of love warms us. Trust in each other gives security.
Lust cannot bear the pain of distance. It burns. It's easy to fake because it's not real. A person who has received love is always free-spirited and calm. The victim of the temptation is like a prisoner, and his heart is narrow and sad." I was told. The comparison in the teacher's text makes it more obvious.
When I analyze love, I think that only kind of love like love will make it more convenient for each other to have a peaceful long-term partnership.
In the life of a girlfriend, love is the main thing and the rest is not very important.
But there is a big difference between love and marriage. That is being responsible. In my love life, the love I love and the love he loves, Everything can be complete only if we love each other. Marriage cannot end with just one love.
Since two people from two families are building a single house, it is necessary to have a comfortable living for the two of them. We need mutual responsibility. We need to help each other. One can no longer want to be involved with one's family, so one needs to be comfortable with one's family. To plan for future plans to move forward together. It is necessary to try together. one's goodness Evil is directly related to another person. Mutual trust and integrity became important to both.
When the number of children increases, marriage becomes more of a responsibility. Not only do we need to think about our children's future; Recently, raising children has become important again. The responsibility of the head of the family becomes bigger than the responsibility of the lover's life. The head of the household is like the roof of a house, so if the roof is not enough in one house, it affects the whole house. When he is not the host, he is his responsibility, so he is like the roof of the house. Without her support, If there is no responsibility, the house may collapse.
In normal love life, it's easy to change someone, and there's no big responsibility, so it's light. When they get married, it can't just be a house built to be called a house with physical features like a house. It becomes the responsibility of the whole family to make a warm house like home. put love first, When they marry easily, they don't understand the seriousness of their responsibilities. In that case, it should not be You may experience unwanted side effects. Marriage without being able to take responsibility binds each other with troubles.
That's why it's not easy to think lightly about love and get married. More responsibility. We will take responsibility for all the good and bad things that happen to us. It's best if you can decide to fight and join forces. I mean, know the difference between love and marriage. After getting married, if you can take responsibility for each other, getting married will increase your chances of being good parents for your future children. Your marriage can be more peaceful. Rather than marry blindly because of love for each other, it is love. A marriage with responsibility has a high percentage of fulfillment.
Then the difference between love and marriage is very big. love love Try to take responsibility for your marriage. think with your brain plan Take responsibility. When each person can take responsibility and fulfill their responsibilities, only marriage will allow them to walk a pleasant life journey. #BAWA101"
“Lust is excitement. I am enthusiastic. But love is not peaceful. I want to dominate. I want control. I doubt it. Love is based on comradeship and understanding. No doubt. The other side's imperfections can be accepted as they are. It can be seen with forgiveness. Strong foundation.
Not a flickering fire like passion. Like a little plant with roots and growing slowly, Because it is real, it is full of energy. Be near There is no difference because of the distance. Even though we are not together, the energy of love warms us. Trust in each other gives security.
Lust cannot bear the pain of distance. It burns. It's easy to fake because it's not real. A person who has received love is always free-spirited and calm. The victim of the temptation is like a prisoner, and his heart is narrow and sad." I was told. The comparison in the teacher's text makes it more obvious.
When I analyze love, I think that only kind of love like love will make it more convenient for each other to have a peaceful long-term partnership.
In the life of a girlfriend, love is the main thing and the rest is not very important.
But there is a big difference between love and marriage. That is being responsible. In my love life, the love I love and the love he loves, Everything can be complete only if we love each other. Marriage cannot end with just one love.
Since two people from two families are building a single house, it is necessary to have a comfortable living for the two of them. We need mutual responsibility. We need to help each other. One can no longer want to be involved with one's family, so one needs to be comfortable with one's family. To plan for future plans to move forward together. It is necessary to try together. one's goodness Evil is directly related to another person. Mutual trust and integrity became important to both.
When the number of children increases, marriage becomes more of a responsibility. Not only do we need to think about our children's future; Recently, raising children has become important again. The responsibility of the head of the family becomes bigger than the responsibility of the lover's life. The head of the household is like the roof of a house, so if the roof is not enough in one house, it affects the whole house. When he is not the host, he is his responsibility, so he is like the roof of the house. Without her support, If there is no responsibility, the house may collapse.
In normal love life, it's easy to change someone, and there's no big responsibility, so it's light. When they get married, it can't just be a house built to be called a house with physical features like a house. It becomes the responsibility of the whole family to make a warm house like home. put love first, When they marry easily, they don't understand the seriousness of their responsibilities. In that case, it should not be You may experience unwanted side effects. Marriage without being able to take responsibility binds each other with troubles.
That's why it's not easy to think lightly about love and get married. More responsibility. We will take responsibility for all the good and bad things that happen to us. It's best if you can decide to fight and join forces. I mean, know the difference between love and marriage. After getting married, if you can take responsibility for each other, getting married will increase your chances of being good parents for your future children. Your marriage can be more peaceful. Rather than marry blindly because of love for each other, it is love. A marriage with responsibility has a high percentage of fulfillment.
Then the difference between love and marriage is very big. love love Try to take responsibility for your marriage. think with your brain plan Take responsibility. When each person can take responsibility and fulfill their responsibilities, only marriage will allow them to walk a pleasant life journey. #BAWA101"