How to deal with domestic violence?

"In some cases, they are subjected to violence without knowing that they are experiencing domestic v...


"In some cases, they are subjected to violence without knowing that they are experiencing domestic violence. This is not a family matter, so we should take effective action to respond to the abuse of one person by another person. Otherwise, it is often children who suffer more from domestic violence. Whether you are experiencing domestic violence for a long time or someone from another environment is facing it, it is necessary to come together and explain and help.

1) Be clear.
A lot of domestic violence is in your own family, community, Being from my own family, suing, blame, They don't take any clear action. Since they are family members, they don't want to tell everyone about the slag coming out of their own flesh. I will be involved again in the future, Because they only depend on him, they often face domestic violence and abuse. That's why I can't stand domestic violence anymore. I don't want to be anymore If there are children who are always in pain because they are always seen, the person concerned needs to make a clear decision. Usually, "my husband beats me when he gets drunk, but our mother and son rely on him to eat" and hide the thoughts. Just keep in mind that another person does not have the right to beat someone up and hurt them. Boldly point out the error. Be blunt if necessary. Most people who are indecisive are dependent on something. That's why it is so important to know that there is such a violent person in your home and to earn income with your own skills. Or master a craft. You should be prepared with the mindset that one day you will be able to get out clearly.

2) Ask the environment for help.
Even if my father beat my mother because she was drunk, they said that she would get back on her feet in time. The child broke his arm and leg. The same goes for beatings until they bleed. In time, his children and his parents, between husband and wife They think that other people's families don't intervene, but they often avoid it. In fact, the environment must understand that domestic violence is not a family issue, but a human issue. You have to be willing to help. The stakeholders themselves can be clear and try to take bold action and try not to be involved at all in the future. Once it happened, the environment helped, go straight back Or if you rely on it again, many times the environment will not help you. That's why if you have domestic violence in your home, be clear. decide boldly If you are trying to avoid getting involved again, you should be open and ask for help.

3) Ask the relevant department for help.
Don't think that you can't ask anyone for help because domestic violence is just a family matter. If you can resolve it yourself, you can ask the relevant departments for help.

4) Don't listen to the words that don't carry indoor fire outside.
I don't know who invented it, but the bad saying passed on to most housewives is "Don't carry the inner fire outside and don't carry the outer fire inside". A very wrong word. If there is someone who is violent and violent in your own home, it is not possible that you have been subjected to it many times. We have to start thinking about how to stop domestic violence. For example. At the time of the first beating, the victim himself should not be shy and go to the concerned person to make a complaint. Such as the relevant summons and warning. In the second step, if they have committed another crime (some of them have even threatened to kill me if they report it to the outside), in that case, I can take a witness myself and swear to testify, and ask for firm action so that I will not be tortured again. The main thing is that the victim of domestic violence needs to be clear and courageous. For that, if you can resolve yourself, ask the environment for help, be open, Check with relevant departments. It's indoor heat, so you shouldn't do anything that doesn't tell the outside. If you've been drowning in domestic violence all your life, please enter your daughter's heart and feel it.

5) Try to qualify yourself.
Another important point is that you know best that you live in the same house as a violent person. If so, how can that domestic violence be prevented? Or if you can't stop it at all, you have to think of a way to get away from this person. For that, you need to have your own income. External knowledge Main sections related to domestic violence, You must have a self-supporting department and a self-sustaining account. That's why I encourage you to plan ahead and try to be self-reliant.
As in Myanmar Domestic violence is usually caused by people with income abusing dependents who do not have their own income. Some of them use drugs and stay quiet because they are afraid of violence. Whatever the reason, Expanded knowledge and personal income Try to become a person who can stand on his own. Then, you will be able to deal with the person who bullies you in a polite way."

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