1) Be faithful.
In a marriage, whether it is witnessed or not. The rule that must be obeyed blindly is to be faithful. I only married this person because I decided to marry this person for the rest of my life, so I must be loyal to this person. He will be faithful to you and you will be able to have no doubt about it. Not like that, cheating in front of your eyes is not true. That is the most important factor for the happiness of a marriage. Treating each other with suspicion can lead to burnout. It is a fact that must be known without talking to each other.
2) Make a commitment.
Important promises should be kept. When you don't keep your promise, it's like disrespecting the other person. It makes you not take it seriously. In the life of two people united, those two people do not respect each other, Since I feel like I'm not being taken seriously, the relationship can't work anymore. That's why the promise that one wants to keep seriously, the other should also take seriously.
3) Don't separate his responsibility from your own.
Another bad thing is to separate the responsibilities and ignore the lover who is married for love. "This job is not my job. Let him do his job....I can't do it" doesn't happen because of being in a marriage. When the woman is cooking, the man must sweep the broom. You have to wash the dishes, You have to take care of the child. All the housework is a man, so he can't do it without me. Similarly, when a woman cannot do housework because she has a lot of outside work, a man cannot say, "I am the head of the household, so don't ask me to do the housework." If the woman does more work, the man should do the kitchen work. If the woman does the housework and child responsibilities, the man has to work more and earn the income of the house. In many of these families, they talk as if men are no longer masculine if they do housework. If a woman can't do housework, they say that she is not a housewife. That is an unspoken rule in many families here.
4) Mutual support.
This is a word that a marriage needs even more. When a woman confides in a man about a problem at work, she listens. Helping to decide, Help as much as you can. The woman listens to everything related to the man's work. Please help. Not just work, but other family matters. friends You can come in and help out with relatives and community issues.
5) Criticize mistakes.
We should also criticize each other's mistakes. As my own country, Being a woman, I don't like it when others point out mistakes. Letting go of every mistake without pointing it out yourself will only hurt your family in time. For example. If the woman is drinking alcohol, the man himself must tell her not to do so. If the man is drinking too much alcohol, the woman should criticize and point out that she is on the side of overdose. Both of you need to understand that criticizing each other like that is meant to make a more comfortable and comfortable family. Errors also need to be corrected.
6) Be understanding.
If one is emotionally affected by some other issue or something happens, the other must understand. If he needs free time or quiet time alone, he should understandably stand aside. One should also recognize one's sacrifice. You can't just focus on your own advantage, but you should be kind to each other. A man must be kind to a woman, Women must also respect men. If you made a mistake, apologize and correct it so you don't make the same mistake again. Don't hesitate to apologize to each other. We should not be obliged to forgive each other. Even if you forgive, you shouldn't repeat the mistake and apologize for it.
The above points are the basic points to become the most comfortable marriage.